Cross Post. It is a selfish endeavor & that use to confuse me! As being a woman & wearing all these hats in life. I thought I was being selfish & it took me many yrs to figure out the diff in self care. I was taught to put every one else's needs 1st.
Plus I tend to analyze & I heard so many messages there, I'd get very confused. I did get into this internal struggle & that's one reason why I had to leave. Yet, I still implement parts of AA & have a few friends left at AA, the one who are truly opened minded in other recovery options. I may go back one day, but not now. I think for some it's an excellent way of life. New people maybe should give it a try. For now on line sometimes is enough for me.
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