please help me.

[Hippyman]

please help me.

whenbeautydies;1464072 wrote: She drinks everyday. A lot. Even when she is sick like right now witj bronchitis, she still drinks. Ive told her she has a problem but she just changes the subject. Her friends are a bunch of irresponsible drunks but im the one that pay the broken plates when she is drunk, im at work and she calls me to yell at me out of jealousy. She says she needs help but wont let me help her.

IMO she is not a bad person. She is a sick person. She has the disease of alcoholism. It's a progressive disease so it's only gonna get worse. Educate yourself about this disease and reach out to others who are in the same boat as you are. She is the one that has to want to get well. Maybe it's time to stop being the enabler and give her an ultimatum.

[Kradle123]

please help me.

whenbeautydies;1464072 wrote: She drinks everyday. A lot. Even when she is sick like right now witj bronchitis, she still drinks. Ive told her she has a problem but she just changes the subject. Her friends are a bunch of irresponsible drunks but im the one that pay the broken plates when she is drunk, im at work and she calls me to yell at me out of jealousy. She says she needs help but wont let me help her.

I'm with Coach Crew...run like hell.. Especially before she gets pregnant ...

Love is not enough and it is a fantasy to think you could return to the wonderful woman you fell in love with...THis is that woman!! They are one in the same...this will only get worse and end badly...I know because I am/was that woman as well... :upset:

Took me years to see myself and and I caused ALOT of damage along the way..