Even for the pettiest things .
How important is it really? .
Is this a life or death situation ??.
I mean do I really need to involve myself ? .
Is it worth losing my peace over ??
Is my opinion or input really all that important to what is going on here ??.
What am I gonna lose if I just stand back and let things just pan out ??.
What will I gain if I say my piece or have my way ??.
Am I really just doing it to stroke my own ego, to be one up on someone else ??.
Will getting involved make a difference in a situation ??.
What if I truly have no control over what has happened?? .
Do I have any real power over other people or their attitudes and choices ??.
Maybe it is a cause I should stand for and maybe accepting it would be like ignoring something where I could have made a difference .
Can I avoid the concequences of what I have alreay done?
What I can do is change today and that will change my future .
If I want to know about my past, I look into my present conditions. If I want to know my future , I look into my present actions.
I am where I am at right now because of the actions I've taken, or maybe, the inaction I've taken . That is a humbling thought .
I am an alchoholic not a bad person, and I need to accept that. If I keep drinking the result is my own fault.
But it would be unacceptable if I chose to continue on in my active drinking knowing now of the progression and where it will most undoubtedly lead me .
I can't undo a single thing I have ever done, but I can make decisions today that will take me to the life I want and towards the healing I need
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So try to Love yourself. Be gentle, kind, respectful, sincere. If you carry that out, you might inspire others with that attitude .
Life is hard. It gets even harder when you think it is really hard, and gets easier when you set your mind positive. If I change my thoughts I can change my life
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