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    #46
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    My dear Red,
    It's just as WildFlowers Ana's said- this is your process...your Way Out :l. Please don't ever feel bad or embarrassed for being you,

    :l:h
    On My Own Way Out Since May 20, 2012
    *If you think poorly of yourself, you can fail with a clear conscience.
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      #47
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      We had far to much invested into our marriage to call it quits. We are both to blame for our problems & alcohol made things worse. We are happier then we've been in years.

      Wishing you the best outcome in whatever you choose. Which you have already learned alcohol isn't a good choice.
      [/COLOR]

      You give me so much hope in/for my Marriage, WF. I was just thinking that before, I drank a lot to stand my husbands being around.

      Now I don't want to drink when he's around but find it tough when he isn't ...what's up with that!

      :l:h
      On My Own Way Out Since May 20, 2012
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        #48
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        I will pm you! I love you Kradle & I understand. :l:h

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          #49
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          Icanwithoutacan;1462500 wrote: Red, if you want to hop back on why not just count AF days out of total days so now hopefully you'd have 16/17 like I can't remember who but someone who didn't want to start over at. Day 1? That might make it easier for you to jump in again.... Shoot 16 days AF out of 17 is nothing to balk at!!!!!
          Ican

          I actually had 19 out of 20 days AF then I slipped. I had started once before and had four days and slipped and was on day 16 when I messed up.
          Don't know if I have another day one in me right now.

          Thanks for caring.

          rednose :thanks:
          All things in time if I am Alcohol free

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            #50
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            Come on RED!

            Slip SCHMIP! Keep trying! Do not discount your AF days. We have all let external circumstances seemingly push us to drinking. Key word-LET.

            Hang in there. Please don't let this be the beginning of a downward spiral.

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              #51
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              Red I am thinking about you.....give your dogs a big hug and yourself and even BIGGER one. You can pull through this!
              "Sometimes the strongest people are the ones who love beyond all faults, cry behind closed doors and fight battles that nobody knows about".
              ~Author Unknown
              AF since February 4, 2013

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                #52
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                I must stay sober because I don't know if I have another sober in me? The next drunk would probably KILL me...:upset:I hope you're OK Red!!! I really, truly do!
                rednose;1462729 wrote: Ican

                I actually had 19 out of 20 days AF then I slipped. I had started once before and had four days and slipped and was on day 16 when I messed up.
                Don't know if I have another day one in me right now.

                Thanks for caring.

                rednose :thanks:
                Sober since Sept. 24th 2012 This time 4 SURE!
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                  #53
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                  rednose;1462729 wrote: Ican

                  I actually had 19 out of 20 days AF then I slipped. I had started once before and had four days and slipped and was on day 16 when I messed up.
                  Don't know if I have another day one in me right now.

                  Thanks for caring.

                  rednose :thanks:
                  You do have one in you right fucking NOW! You had a lot more AF days than AL days recently. The longer you wait the harder it will be. Lets do this, Red. Come on, you know we are all cheering for you.

                  :groupluv:
                  Well it's all right now. I've learned my lesson well. You see you can't please everyone, so you've got to please yourself.

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                    #54
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                    This isn't day one Red, this will be DAY 20 with a couple of blips!! Hopping back on the wagon after all you've achieved will be nothing like your very first day one.

                    Come on hon, come back and join the rest of us. We'll all get through this together.
                    :h:h
                    There's two ways of looking at the holes in your shoes
                    You can dig the ventilation... or you can sing the blues

                    I didn't come this far to only come this far.

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                      #55
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                      Red, just want you to know I am still thinking about you.
                      "Sometimes the strongest people are the ones who love beyond all faults, cry behind closed doors and fight battles that nobody knows about".
                      ~Author Unknown
                      AF since February 4, 2013

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                        #56
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                        Red, I feel for you. I have been on this site for a very long time and only haveabout 15 months of continuous sobroety. During that time I had lots of periods of AF. My alcohol counsellor who is tough finally asked me not to use the word "slip" and replace it with "a planned drunk".

                        The last time I drank, there was no buzz, no relaxation, just that tired old feeling of doing it again accompanied by guilt and remorse.

                        Just keep getting up sweetheart, it is a long process, and you have many here to help you.

                        I have always said, fall down 7 times, get up 8 times. There was a quote mentioned here earlier by Confucious that states it better.

                        Take care. You do haveit in you for another quit.
                        Enlightened by MWO

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