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[bgg]

Hi im new to this and really have a bad drink problem which i am trying to stop , i ahte myself when i drink and wish i could stop , any one got any good tips i could onn how to stop this self destruction :new:

[Guest]

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bgg;111546 wrote: Hi im new to this and really have a bad drink problem which i am trying to stop , i ahte myself when i drink and wish i could stop , any one got any good tips i could onn how to stop this self destruction :new:

I'm new here too and the people here are awesome, this place has helped me. I was 3 days with nothing and then last night I drank a bottle of red. So, I'm starting over..again. This time I am pouring all the wine I have down the sink and not look at it everytime I go into the kitchen. It's hard to quit, you don't think it has a hold on you till you decide to stop cold turkey and you realize how much of a problem you really have. I come here and read the posts all the time and it has helped, 3 days was great! Now, back to 1 agan..but when ever I feel myself weaken I come here. :h :h

[Bella]

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Wellcome to MWO bgg. You will find support here. Why don't you buy the MWO book, i have found it to be an inspiration. And the people here are great, you can just relax and talk and read. It really helps and makes you feel less alone. Good luck. Bella xx

[bgg]

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GG;111551 wrote: I'm new here too and the people here are awesome, this place has helped me. I was 3 days with nothing and then last night I drank a bottle of red. So, I'm starting over..again. This time I am pouring all the wine I have down the sink and not look at it everytime I go into the kitchen. It's hard to quit, you don't think it has a hold on you till you decide to stop cold turkey and you realize how much of a problem you really have. I come here and read the posts all the time and it has helped, 3 days was great! Now, back to 1 agan..but when ever I feel myself weaken I come here. :h :h

Hi thanks for that , i have been off it my self for 4days at a time , then i weaken and then get smashed , i am determined to stay off it for good , and think this forum will be good for me as it will give the opportunity to keep in touch with others who have the same problem ... and get the support i need :thanks:

[bgg]

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Bella;111554 wrote: Wellcome to MWO bgg. You will find support here. Why don't you buy the MWO book, i have found it to be an inspiration. And the people here are great, you can just relax and talk and read. It really helps and makes you feel less alone. Good luck. Bella xx

:thanks: It does make a difference when you can share your problem with others and not to feel on your own , to try and battle this problem

[betty boop]

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Hi bgg,

I agree with GG, dont have it in the house, or if you fancy a drink only buy a small amount, If I have it in then I will drink so for me its easier not to buy it.

All the best to you all

[Guest]

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I just dumped two good bottles of red down the sink, the temptation is far to much for me to handle yet. I won't buy it anymore either, if my husband wants something he will have to go out and get it himself.

[Mags]

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You go girl! Dumping the stuff down the sink was a great thing to do. Now make sure you don't buy anymore. You're off to a terrific start.

I recommend that you download the book right away and buy the tapes and at least the kudzu supplement. They really help a lot. And keep posting and let us know how it's going.

Tell your partner to buy his own poison and then make him drink it only in the bathroom or something!

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[marcel]

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Howdy

:welcome:
Lots of friends here.
:goodjob: on pouring the wine away. Better the sink has that nasty old hangover than you.

Good luck!

[bgg]

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Yep totaly in agreement , i cant have any in the house as would not stop untill the bottle or bottles are done .... and I keep saying to myself I'll just have one and then its oh I'll just have another so its best not to have any at all

[mojomuppet]

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wine is made of dead grapes!

sorry, i think its funny and it actually worked for someone but i cant remember who it was. welcome and i hope we help you find your peace.

[Guest]

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bgg;111591 wrote: Yep totaly in agreement , i cant have any in the house as would not stop untill the bottle or bottles are done .... and I keep saying to myself I'll just have one and then its oh I'll just have another so its best not to have any at all

I'm the same way.. I can't have just 1. And I'll open up another bottle even if I already drank 1. I don't know if I'll ever be able to moderate again, but I'm going to have to prepare for that reality. I'm just so sick of the hangovers, the lying to myself and my husband, the guilt that comes along with it all, doing things I can't remember. I can be so happy and then so angry in a split second, that's not good. I'm so tired of getting up in the morning feeling like shit, mentally and phsically.

[bgg]

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GG;111607 wrote: I'm the same way.. I can't have just 1. And I'll open up another bottle even if I already drank 1. I don't know if I'll ever be able to moderate again, but I'm going to have to prepare for that reality. I'm just so sick of the hangovers, the lying to myself and my husband, the guilt that comes along with it all, doing things I can't remember. I can be so happy and then so angry in a split second, that's not good. I'm so tired of getting up in the morning feeling like shit, mentally and phsically.

i am the same , i hate waking up with hangovers all the time and feeling like shit and having no energy , and everything about me just falling to pieces .... Neglecting everyone and everything thats important , and letting my self go , I am no longer going to comprimise , I will do this and today is a new chapter for me . :h

[Guest]

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Me too.. I'm tired of being it's bitch.

[rudemama]

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hello welcome, I just came here last week so far 4 days af, it is a challenge, i do believe in the mind set you have to want it for you, i tired of being hung over and ill i'm tired of feeling insecure when i am rambling you know how you feel people tune you out, the eyes go distant, i'm tired of that. its not easy, tempatation is a mile away at least for me so i have to have the mindset, don't want the booze body or face or hands or eyes....good luck and keep coming I know i will even if i fall off i don't know if i will abstain forever and a day but for today i will try rudemama, if you feel down check out Knut the baby polar bear on You Tube he is the cutest thing around that will take up 2 minutes of your time. thinking of you rudemama