Not too sure where to start, but I guess I'll share what happened the other night, which has brought me here today. My friend, who's going through a separation right now, called me to go out. When I pulled up to her house she came out wearing stiletto black boots and a short dress, and I though "ok, I know where this night is going." We ended up at several bars and having several drinks, me, just going with her flow. She called over 2 guys, who ended up following us around for the night and buying us shots etc. I'm married with 2 kids and made it perfectly clear I was not interested in anything extra that evening. She, however was. Against my better judgment we ended up going in their car back to one of the guys house. She proceeded to hook up while I hung out with this other guy. Knowing I was not interested in him or attracted to him, came onto me anyway. I guess I should have known better not to even get us into that situation, but I was really drunk. He ended up all over me, and the more I said no, the harder he tried. I had to fight him off and ended up with bruises all over my one arm and sprained the other hand. I also have marks and scratches all over the side of my neck. Thankfully he backed off. I have no one to blame but myself, and I feel like shit. I've had to hide the marks with make up and keep a happy face for my children these past few days.
This may sound like one really unfortunate situation, but truth is I get drunk a lot. It was just a matter of time before something bad happened. I'm scared for myself and what will happen when I drink. It's rarely ever a night of just one or two, have fun enjoying my friends company and call it a night. My brother even is worried and I only see him a few times a year.
I've behaved badly when drinking for many years. I feel terrible and embarrassed like my world is crashing in around me. I don't want my husband to know what happened mostly because I don't want him to worry. I do believe that the past should stay in the past, but I cannot put this one away.
Today I will not drink for me or my family, but I could use some encouragement for tomorrow. Thanks for listening
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