I crawled to 30 days!!!!!

[kali]

I crawled to 30 days!!!!!

Congratulations- and Happy birthday... I'm hoping to just make it past 3 days AF soon!! slip sliding away.

[Beaches]

I crawled to 30 days!!!!!

Congrats

[Nicole2003]

I crawled to 30 days!!!!!

Congratulations!

[morrison]

I crawled to 30 days!!!!!

gotta give some props, where props are due. Damn. You are all so strong. Hey, if any of you crazya are coming to Vegas, give me a call. What am I to do in Sin City all alone? I know its a bit strange, but I'd love to put a face with the name. Nevermind. The mystery is cool. I know every person that took the step to even look at this board is filled with an intensity and love that is not transferable into 2 dimensions. You know me. Like to go the long way to make a point. :H

[morrison]

I crawled to 30 days!!!!!

and you girls are giving me a foot fetish. :H

[AMELIA]

I crawled to 30 days!!!!!

Well done!!!!

[Janice]

I crawled to 30 days!!!!!

Well done LA Liz, that's my goal, 30 days. On day 14 now - what was the hardest part of the month for you?? Janice

[cassy]

I crawled to 30 days!!!!!

Hi and well done.. a word of warning ...i did 45 days AF recently and so easily sipped back to moderating..with a few slips.It can end up a distant memory of how good doing the AF days were..BE CAREFUL!!
I am pleased i dont drink as much or as frequently BUT its a risky business trying to moderate as the goals change,,,the slips happen..and the mindset around drink as a positive still lurks there.

Maybe set another goal of another 30 days and review it.

My 2 friends who did AF with me have also gone back to the booze with various targets to moderate with limited success.

You have to change your way of thinking of the booze as a positive i believe otherwide moderating is a slippery slope...or so its proven for me.

still drinling a few wines a weekends and now slipping a mid week couple in too...Before you know it it may be 4 night of a few and then 7 nights.

not on the point of my journey to say no more and mean it yet!!!!hope it comes sooner rather than later.


good luck and dont ruin your achievements..it is so easy to go wow 30 days and dabble again!!!I wish you luck

Regards cassy

[retteacher]

I crawled to 30 days!!!!!

Cassy: I appreciate your insights. I haven't been able to put very many AF days together. However, I know myself well enough that I need to be AF one day at a time. Moderation is not in the cards for me until I can get some real AF under my belt. I can't have 3, 4, or even 5 drinks. It's all or nothing.

[cassy]

I crawled to 30 days!!!!!

Good Luck,,retteacher...i understand too well..the point for me is i did 45 days over lent with hubby and a buddy and then onto moderating with some success.HOWEVER i cant let go YET and go one day at a time...my mistake i think was to have an end date after the lent thing of AF,,,that kept my mind trapped on i can do this AF thing and then have a drink after the goal (wouldnt have mattered how many days the goal was for...the intention was ans is for me to moderate)

The reality is i know probably like 99%of the people i,ve read posts from that the ultimate goal needed to be stop drinking.....so i plod on my journey in prayer and hope..small steps but so far i havent returned despite slips to the beginning of my journey.i just get back on the road to my current hope of more Af days and less days when i fancy alcohol.


just being honest about me and journey through life and Good luck with your AF days.
Regards Cassy

[MDBiker]

I crawled to 30 days!!!!!

Good for you.

A big step on your journey and a giant leap on your quest for sobriety.

You Rock, Congrats, and I wish you many many more AF days.

Bear