After about 70-80 days or so of abstinence, I crumbled. A quiet few beers on a Sunday afternoon saw me going out clubbing on a Sunday night....I mean WTF? Getting home at 11am on a Monday morning, when I was due to work at 7pm that night.
That week was horrendous and the usual 'I won't go out again' ran through my mind.
The following weekend I had a BBQ which saw me have a bottle of wine over the course of 8 hours or so. My confidence was high - "I can drink a bottle, control myself and not go out".
So the following weekend I stupidly decided to go out for a quiet couple with a friend. That turned into a wreck of a night, and once again went out clubbing until 4pm on the Sunday.
Feeling rubbish the following week - I couldn't face anyone or anything. Actually had horrible thoughts running through my mind, which I am not man enough to repeat atm.
A good couple of weeks after that, I started meditating. That helped, but I was not progressing at anything really. Just sitting on my backside.
And so this weekend just gone, I ended up in the same old routine......drinks, clubbing....home 24 hours later. Spending stupid amounts of cash and not being able to face the world.
I'm back here, but I don't want to be. I don't want to spend time on the internet. I'm in a dark place atm. Really feel disconnected. Thoughts are dark. Can't see the way out, as I just keeping going round in circles....whether they are short circles or long circles. I end up in the same place. I feel like I have no one. I have nothing. I feel like a child. Just when you start to feel good for a bit, things go back to where they are. Maybe some of us are just born into life like this. I don't know.
But just popping back in, spinning my wheels as ususal.
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