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    I feel so sad. So very sad. I'm sorry, but I don't know where else to turn, so here I am. Just having another terrible night. You all are the kindest people I know, so decided to vent here. I have no one else to talk to. No responses needed. Really. I just needed an outlet. This isn't AL talking. I'm sober. Just not doing very well these days. Thanks for listening. xx
    Everything is going to be amazing

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    Awww Moss big hugs to you. If i can help in anyway pm me.

    Talking is a much better option than drinking and you are doing so incredibly well.
    xx
    AF free 1st December 2013 - 1st December 2022 - 9 years of freedom

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      Hey, Moss

      So glad you're sober :l. What's going on?

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        Thanks Ava. Going to take you up on your kind offer. I could really use a friend. Let me get myself together first. I haven't been "right" for a while. Don't want to put that on you.
        Everything is going to be amazing

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          NS - completely heartbroken. My son - the one that drove me here in the first place - has done something that has hurt me so badly, I can barely breathe. I really thought when I got sober, things would change. And they have, for the worse if that is possible. I know it doesn't make any sense. At least not to me. I was hoping for a miracle. And being sober is a miracle. But damn - I had no idea how hard it was going to be to deal with these types of things straight up. Hanging in there. Hope all is well with you.
          Everything is going to be amazing

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            Hang in there Moss rose.

            :l:l:l

            G bloke.

            'I am part of all that I have met, yet all experience is an arch wherethro', gleams that untravelled world whose margins fade, forever and forever when I move'

            Zen soul Warrior. Freedom today-

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              I'm so sorry, Moss. I know your relationship with your boys is the most important thing in your life. I'm glad you know that drinking would only make it worse. Is there someone such as your other son you could talk to about this? I hate to think of you being alone in such pain.

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                MR.... :l:h
                On My Own Way Out Since May 20, 2012
                *If you think poorly of yourself, you can fail with a clear conscience.
                https://www.mywayout.org/community/f11/tool-box-27556.html tool box
                https://www.mywayout.org/community/f19/newbies-nest-30074.html newbie nest

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                  Moss,
                  I'm sending you cyber hugs and prayers.:l
                  Sometimes what you're most afraid of doing is the very thing that will set you free.

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                    Me, too. Thinking of you! Xo, B
                    All you gotta do, is get thru this day. AF 1/20/2011
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                      Thinking of you Moss…I thought that it would all be sunshine and roses too…but being sober after being such a terrible drunk is a lot of hard work. I guess at the end of the day no one said it was easy…but I do understand what you're going through - may not necessarily with your son but I have not been feeling too great lately either. We gotta pull through. You can do this. xox

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                        Oh Moss, big hugs to you. All I can say is that it is so much better to deal with problems when sober than when drunk - even though it hurts much more - no numbing Al in the equation. I do hope you manage to resolve this matter - and I'm so so proud of you that you did not grab a bottle of liquid painkiller. :l:l:l
                        14 October 2013 was the first day of the best days of my life!

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                          Hi M.R. big hugs and this is an excellent place to fall - into a big soft cloud.

                          I've had 3 major depressions since quitting alcohol, but if depression made us drunk what now? I have found that helplessness leads to depression. I have a son who doesn't speak to me very sad b/c he took a fuckitall pill when involved in a sibling rivalry dispute. He is very stubborn and I don't know when we will fix it.

                          Living sober does have challenges, but when met with a sober mind, it makes us stronger for the next challenge. This I know for sure.
                          Enlightened by MWO

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                            Hugs Hugs mate

                            I also feel those occasional blues

                            we are always here for you
                            Alcohol will hit you bad but you can always turn your back
                            Alcohol can bring a lot of misery but there is a solution because it's not a mystery
                            Alcohol will give you pleasure but in the future it will give you pain that you cannot treasure

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                              Hugs to you, dear Moss. I believe I just wrote on another thread, "parenting is farking hard."

                              Glad you posted here for support, and I'm glad you're not drinking. Hang tough!

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