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    Nearly a year ! And I love it

    Hi everyone, nearly a year ago I was miserable, had just split up with my husband and I was one of those wine o'clock drinkers every night after work. I had no energy, my skin wasn't good and I felt ill and depressed.

    I just wanted to post on here to give a little bit of hope and motivation to others because that's what helped me.
    I can't tell you how good it feels now to not be addicted to alcohol, I changed my whole mind set and saw it for what it was, just a drug. I wake up every morning with loads of energy, I am so productive, I eat healthy, and eat loads of it and have gone back to my weight when I was a teenager. My mind is so much clearer and I just keep having all these inspirational ideas that pop into my head to solve problems etc and I love it.

    In the past year I've read loads and watched loads on alcohol and I cannot believe we have been suckered into having this drug from such a young age.
    The thing that helped me was to see it as a positive move but realising I still needed to do something in place of alcohol to help me. I replaced it with excersise, good food and other activities like going to the cinema or just driving out to watch the sunset, which I now love doing because when I drank I was then anchored to the house.
    My relationship with my kids has improved no end and I just feel so lucky to have got this far.

    I know it's hard, I know I have to remember how easy it is to go back and have put things in place to keep me on the right path, like looking at the friends I socialised with and getting into mindfullness and yoga etc to help me relax and focus.
    Sorry this is so long.
    Just wanted to tell everyone they can do it and well done Norac too, we started on the same day and she has been one of my inspirations from the beginning to keep going. Well done us xx
    Last edited by Springstart; July 10, 2016, 03:53 AM.

    #2
    Excellent job Spring on your first year and it only gets better and better. i thought i had a great relationship with my kids even when i drank but now it is so much better, for starters i can drive after 5pm!

    keep up the great work!
    AF free 1st December 2013 - 1st December 2022 - 9 years of freedom

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      #3
      Spring - great to see you and hear your success story. :welldone:
      "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
      ..........
      AF - 7-27-15

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        #4
        Springstart

        Excellent post. I can so much relate to it. I am about 2.5years sober and I still feel the same like you.

        It is so started while walking down at the say airport I see dedicated smoking lounge filled with smokers puffing away their cigarettes. Those folks are seen with pity now a days. How addicted and miserable they must be needing a puff after a long flight.

        Then you see a bar with folks filled in and enjoying and drinking. I see so much similar in both the cases smoking and drinking. But it's sad that society still does not see drinking as a bad thing.

        Co grass on making a change in your life. Like too I also substituted AL with other activities. It made me realize I was missing so much in life. I was able to save my marriage and also got hooked on to cycling

        Life is just so great wasting on this drug.
        Rahul
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        Rewiring my brain ... done ...
        Updating brain "attitude" firmware ... done ...
        Rebooting ... done ...
        Restarted program called "Life" ... started successfully ...

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          #5
          thanks Available, I know, it's so good being able to do what I like at any time of day, before my kids used to ask for a lift or a pick up and I now cannot believe I put alcohol before them and said I couldn't because of the wine !
          I ve got loads of plans now to travel and to go places I want to see and remember not just to get pissed, and then not remember half of it.
          Hi Norac, well done to you too xx
          Hello rahulthesweet, yes I know what you mean, I still go out with friends but try to make it just to interesting places and not just to drink but last week I went out with old friends and they were drinking, it was just bizarre going to different pubs and watching as everyone got more and more drunk and out of control, I really did not miss that or the feeling you get the next day
          Xxxx

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            #6
            GREAT post, Spring! Thanks so much for sharing that, and well-done to you! :thumbsup:

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              #7
              Springstart

              Seeing others drink didn't affect me at all. Rather seeing them do crazy (sic way) and stupid made my resolve stronger. After a while I started feeling

              What's the point
              They don't know what they are missing

              Picture this :

              Beach side nice breeze next to pool. And I enjoy natural beauty, pool, freshness in air, Green grass, fresh flowers and every thing around d. Then I see them....JUST drinking...
              Rahul
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              Rewiring my brain ... done ...
              Updating brain "attitude" firmware ... done ...
              Rebooting ... done ...
              Restarted program called "Life" ... started successfully ...

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                #8
                Rahul, great analogy on the smoking lounge in airports and comparing them to the bars. True!

                Congratualtions one your nearly year, Spring! Im so happy for you! Keep up the great work!!!
                :balloons:
                Byrdie
                All you gotta do, is get thru this day. AF 1/20/2011
                Tool Box
                Newbie's Nest

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                  #9
                  What a great post! I have found so much hope on MWO ... it's so awesome to see people AF - and sharing here, giving hope to even me!!!!
                  "Numbing the pain for a while will make it worse when you finally feel it" ........

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                    #10
                    Great news Springstart congratulations on your new life
                    I have too much shit to do today and tomorrow to drink:sohappy:

                    I'm taking care of the "tomorrow me":thumbsup:
                    Drinkin won't help a damn thing! Will only make me sick for DAYS and that ugly, spacey dumb feeling-no thanks!

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                      #11
                      I remember how small hopes and encouragement helped me during early days.

                      That's why I remember for first 45 days or so I used to make a point to come and log on everyday and post every day and read a lot.

                      While most of my post were crap but some ended up in tool box :yay:

                      First 30 days was so sensitive time for me. I never thought I could stay off AL for next day. Doing it for 7 days was BIG 30 days was HUGE !! Patting myself on the back, rewarding myself with ice creams was a daily routine.

                      One more thing I found ... empty stomach meant .... inviting trouble. So I used to stuff myself with food to kill the cravings ... it was REALLY effective.
                      Rahul
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                      Rewiring my brain ... done ...
                      Updating brain "attitude" firmware ... done ...
                      Rebooting ... done ...
                      Restarted program called "Life" ... started successfully ...

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                        #12
                        keep up the great work!

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                          #13
                          Huge congrats on your 1 year of sobriety Springstart!

                          Quitting and staying quit isn't easy, its learning a whole new way of thinking. It's accepting a new way of life, and not just accepting it, embracing it...
                          Worry about tomorrow, tomorrow. Just get through today. Tomorrow will look after itself when it becomes today, because today is all we have to think about.
                          Friendship is not about how many friends you have or who you've known the longest. It's about who walked into your life, said "I'm here for you", and proved it.

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                            #14
                            I love hearing what sobriety is like for others. It keeps me motivated to stay the course. Nothing but good things come from leaving the alcohol behind.
                            Congratulations on your one year. On to the next one!

                            JackieM

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                              #15
                              Congrats Springstart... stayed tuned, the second year get better!!
                              (AF since 17 May 2014) 2 years 5 months sober

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