is it worth it ? my answer...

[briseus]

hello everyone

it makes me really happy that my original post has inspired some of you (thanks for bumping Cowboy. gosh i miss you. i miss you all!!).
i am nearly one year and five months sober now. so crazy to say that out loud to myself. but as i said in my post back in July and will say it again, it's worth it. i can understand that this time of year is particularly difficult for almost all of us but make sure to make some time for yourself. i think that self love and self care throughout our journeys to getting sober is absolutely crucial. so, make sure to take care of yourselves this holiday season.
wishing everyone a wonderful new year. and hope you all had a safe and merry christmas.

[Mr Vervill]

Good to see you around, Bri! Congrats!

[Rusty]

Huge Congratulations to you, Briseus! So glad you popped back in to say Hello! Happy New Year, to you! Yes, it is so worth it to be sober.

Mr.V! Happy New Year! We miss you on The Steppers' Thread and I hope you pop in and let us know how you are doing. :-)

[Spacebaby]

Re: is it worth it ? my answer...

Hi,well done. I've only just joined and your story is the only one that sounds like mine.never done more than a few weeks. But your words give me more strength than I've ever felt before after my last relapse. Thanks

[briseus]

Today marks nine years of sobriety for me, and it’s a milestone that fills me with immense gratitude and pride. Reflecting on this journey, I remember how daunting and impossible it once seemed to stay sober for even a single year. But here I am, standing tall after nearly a decade of growth and self-discovery.

Staying sober hasn't always been easy. There have been challenges, moments of doubt, and times when the weight of it all felt overwhelming. But through it all, I’ve learned that sobriety is a gift that keeps on giving. It has allowed me to rebuild relationships, pursue my passions, and truly experience life with clarity and purpose.

To anyone who is struggling, remember that it’s okay to have difficult days. What matters is that you keep moving forward, one step at a time. Your journey is your own, and there is no set timeline for healing and growth. Keep believing in yourself, and surround yourself with those who support your path to recovery.

I’m incredibly proud of how far I’ve come and grateful for the continuous support from my family, friends, and the community here, year after year. Here’s to another year of growth, strength, and living life to its fullest. Stay strong, and know that sobriety is possible and worth it. Thank you for being a part of my journey.

And happy 9 years to me. x

-Bri

[tomaitistomas029]

Wow, congratulations on nearly reaching one whole year of sobriety—that's an incredible achievement, and you have every right to be proud of yourself! Reading your story, it's clear how much strength and determination it took to get to where you are now. You went through so much pain and struggle, and yet here you are, choosing a better life for yourself.
It’s really inspiring how honest you’ve been about the ups and downs, the challenges, and the fight to regain control. You’ve shown that it’s possible to rebuild, even when things seem impossible. And you’re right—everyone's journey is their own, and what matters is that you’ve found your way through.