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    Any body else really struggling today?

    AF since Sept 2013, but recent relationship issues have knocked me down.

    I know a drink won't help but today is hard

    Anyone want to join me in a bit of mutual propping up?

    #2
    Saw that you posted on here https://www.mywayout.org/community/ju...ity-party.html so you've made a good decision there, Softy.

    Shops are nearly shut, the madness will be stopping for another year. Take some deep breaths and realise its only 24 hours. Get out for a walk, make time to rest and relax (I sense you thinking that's not effing likely) but give it a go. If possible don't eat too much at one time time and keep away from the drink. Hand on heart you'll thank yourself a thousand fold.
    It could be worse, I could be filing.
    AF since 7/7/2009

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      #3
      I'll be around too if anyone needs a chat !!
      Last edited by satz123; December 24, 2016, 12:52 PM.

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        #4
        Originally posted by JackieClaire View Post
        Saw that you posted on here https://www.mywayout.org/community/ju...ity-party.html so you've made a good decision there, Softy.

        Shops are nearly shut, the madness will be stopping for another year. Take some deep breaths and realise its only 24 hours. Get out for a walk, make time to rest and relax (I sense you thinking that's not effing likely) but give it a go. If possible don't eat too much at one time time and keep away from the drink. Hand on heart you'll thank yourself a thousand fold.
        Bought six bottles of AF free Becks. I will fool myself and tomorrow be grateful my friend. I am a strong little fecker.

        It is a battle for life this I'm afraid depression > alcohol

        Cycle is broken and HAS to STAY broken

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          #5
          All good but surfing the waves.

          Two hours ago was a tsunami - not cracked though

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            #6
            Thank you

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              #7
              Originally posted by satz123 View Post
              I'll be around too if anyone needs a chat !!
              Thank you Satz

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                #8
                Hi, Softy:

                I just went and spent WAY too much money on my favorite non-alcoholic Ginger beer, and appetizer from my favorite store. I am taking care of me today. I am with Jackie - out for a walk always helps me. Maybe download a meditation app and get inside your head for a minute?

                Great for you, posting here. Stay strong, my friend. You won't regret it.

                Pav

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                  #9
                  Thank you! I am meditating and on day 78 of that but couldn't quite still the mind today.

                  Each day we get stronger but some days we step sideways

                  Originally posted by Pavati View Post
                  Hi, Softy:

                  I just went and spent WAY too much money on my favorite non-alcoholic Ginger beer, and appetizer from my favorite store. I am taking care of me today. I am with Jackie - out for a walk always helps me. Maybe download a meditation app and get inside your head for a minute?

                  Great for you, posting here. Stay strong, my friend. You won't regret it.

                  Pav

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                    #10
                    Softy, hang in there today...no matter what.
                    Just read around MWO and you will quickly see the 1000's of people who wish they hadn't taken that first drink to ruin their quit. It is NEVER worth it.
                    NoSugar's thread, Relapse in Retrospect, is an excellent read!
                    An old boss of mine once told me, everyone goes thru hard times and its just YOUR turn. I thought he was being a smartass at the time, but he was 100% right. These hard times will pass and you will be SO happy that you maintained your quit thru them.
                    Hugs to you, stick close! Byrdie
                    All you gotta do, is get thru this day. AF 1/20/2011
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                      #11
                      Thanks so much for the support!

                      Have a great AF Christmas Eve and Day everyone 😀

                      Originally posted by Byrdlady View Post
                      Softy, hang in there today...no matter what.
                      Just read around MWO and you will quickly see the 1000's of people who wish they hadn't taken that first drink to ruin their quit. It is NEVER worth it.
                      NoSugar's thread, Relapse in Retrospect, is an excellent read!
                      An old boss of mine once told me, everyone goes thru hard times and its just YOUR turn. I thought he was being a smartass at the time, but he was 100% right. These hard times will pass and you will be SO happy that you maintained your quit thru them.
                      Hugs to you, stick close! Byrdie

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                        #12
                        Great on reaching out Softy,hope the urge is gone and you're enjoying the rest of the day
                        I have too much shit to do today and tomorrow to drink:sohappy:

                        I'm taking care of the "tomorrow me":thumbsup:
                        Drinkin won't help a damn thing! Will only make me sick for DAYS and that ugly, spacey dumb feeling-no thanks!

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                          #13
                          Happy Christmas!

                          Originally posted by paulywogg View Post
                          Great on reaching out Softy,hope the urge is gone and you're enjoying the rest of the day

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                            #14
                            Merry xmas Softy. How are u doing?

                            'I am part of all that I have met, yet all experience is an arch wherethro', gleams that untravelled world whose margins fade, forever and forever when I move'

                            Zen soul Warrior. Freedom today-

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                              #15
                              Merry Christmas Softy, i hope you have a peaceful day.
                              AF free 1st December 2013 - 1st December 2022 - 9 years of freedom

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