I guess I just want to know has anyone else been treated like this after quitting? If you have any similar experience or know of any threads of any please please post and help me, I feel like I am losing my mind
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Hi all, I am still really struggling with my husbands attitude to me for the past few weeks, I appreciate that he has been hurt by my past drinking in the respect that he has felt pushed away etc... but really he is making me feel like I was the worst drunk ever, that I was drunk every day morning, noon and night and I have committed mass murder or something! I have asked him if he still loves me and he says he does but thats as far as it goes, he hasn't shown me any affection at all for the past few weeks, he is usually very touchy feely and loving but he is barely kissing me goodbye now He was very supportive in the first month, even bought me flowers and a well done card and said how proud he was of me. I know that I have a lot of work to do to say sorry and to make up for the way I have been but he seems like he doesn't want me to try I feel so lonely and upset, struggling to eat and having nightmares again
I guess I just want to know has anyone else been treated like this after quitting? If you have any similar experience or know of any threads of any please please post and help me, I feel like I am losing my mindOne day at a time - this is enough. Do not look back and grieve over the past for it is gone; and do not be troubled about the future, for it has yet to come. Live in the present, and make it so beautiful it will be worth remembering...Tags: None
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1 Reasons Your Marriage Fails After You Quit Drinking Alcohol
There are sublinks in there to Madon that I hope may help, I do hope you get through this as I know how hard it is.
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Originally posted by Baclofenman View PostIs your husband a drinker and were you a drinker when you got together?
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BacmanOne day at a time - this is enough. Do not look back and grieve over the past for it is gone; and do not be troubled about the future, for it has yet to come. Live in the present, and make it so beautiful it will be worth remembering...
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i just found this and it makes a lot of sense!!Recovering a Relationship after Addiction | Living SoberOne day at a time - this is enough. Do not look back and grieve over the past for it is gone; and do not be troubled about the future, for it has yet to come. Live in the present, and make it so beautiful it will be worth remembering...
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Originally posted by madonmehndi View PostHe does drink and did drink more when I was drinking but he isn't an alcoholic, I have been a drinker since I was in my teens so yes, I was when I met him
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BacmanI am not a Doctor - I am an alcoholic.
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Originally posted by Baclofenman View PostDo you think he might be missing "his old friend" and be resentful towards the changes your new found soberdom has had on your relationship?
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Bacman
He also loved the person I was when a bit tipsy, as I was never a troublesome drunk.
He lost control over me when I was sober.... he had to look at himself and I regained my analytical powers and questioned him a lot more.
Sobriety is often a double edged sword.
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