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    #31
    Re: I have 80oz of vodka.

    How r u doing there friend?

    I have been through similar to what you describe and it ripped me apart. Only when i knew there was no chance of getting back with her could i finally slowly move forward out of my madness.

    Is it over or not with your wife? Any chance of reconciliation or getting back together? If you know the answer to this is no getting back together, then holding onto an illusion could kill you. If the answer is yes there actually is a chance, then go for it sooner rather than later. If you don't know where you stand with her, ask her and get some clarity. If you know where you stand, then facts and reality are hard to argue with.

    No-one can live in constant painful dwelling and speculation like this. Take care of yourself.

    'I am part of all that I have met, yet all experience is an arch wherethro', gleams that untravelled world whose margins fade, forever and forever when I move'

    Zen soul Warrior. Freedom today-

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      #32
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      Its over. I have to accept it. She is with another man according to her. I look back at it and wonder if I could have done something different. I got sober at least. Tried what I thought was right without stepping on her toes. I would speculate she had interest in another man since my last rehab so it was a matter of me failing for an excuse. Sheer speculation.
      "Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid." - Albert Einstein

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        #33
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        Considering she joined tinder or some other website while I was in rehab to see if I was on it and what I was doing. I never cheated or have even joined one of those sites. So her joining might have changed things. But there is little point in looking back at it I guess. Love is a sucker punch when you commit completely.
        "Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid." - Albert Einstein

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          #34
          Re: I have 80oz of vodka.

          empyr3al I am sorry you for your pain. I too know the pain of lost loves as do most(all?) here at MWO. It is sadly a part of the human condition. It is horrible and debilitating mentally and physically. I too poured on the booze to blunt the pain & all I gained was alcohol abuse... no gain just another loss. Nothing changed just time passed/wasted. There are better ways of dealing. When you are so hurt it seems implausible that anything could help. I leave you with a quote
          'Friends show their love in times of trouble, not in happiness.'
          Euripides.
          Empyr seek out a true friend. Booze may put off the pain for a bit but nothing changes and there is no answer in a bottle.
          Take care of yourself.
          Hyper

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