All the heart ache, hurt, self loathing and wasted years !

[Brave Hearted]

All the heart ache, hurt, self loathing and wasted years !

thank you sunny sounds like good advice , my son coming back home soon and planning to go runiing and cycling with him . Adler theroy sounds good but I try to do my best everyday and still get down, but I will double my effort !

I am also very grateful that I now longer turn to the bottle in times of trouble ! yippee !

[akgirl]

All the heart ache, hurt, self loathing and wasted years !

Hugs to you Brave....and you truly are brave ya know. No regrets, just know how far you have come and the person you are inside. Truly wonderful.

Love ya girl!
:l

[Brave Hearted]

All the heart ache, hurt, self loathing and wasted years !

AK !!! great to hear from you ! thank you so much for those words of supoort, they mean a lot at the moment .

Love u to lady xx

[Rusty]

All the heart ache, hurt, self loathing and wasted years !

Brave Hearted,

I know exactly where you're coming from. I live alone, have never been married and I think my alcohol problem escalated when my best friend died and when I broke up with my mate of 5 years. I didn't know what to do with my time....I tried to develop hobbies but nothing struck me as something I had a passion for. My solution has been this site and volunteering my time. It seems to have worked, but it took a long to get to that point. At least I'm AF and that's the main thing.

[Brave Hearted]

All the heart ache, hurt, self loathing and wasted years !

Hi Rusty this site is my saving grace I can come on anytime. Like you I cant find a hobby that realy appeals to me I do do things but my heart is not in it. I have volunteered to wrok for two childrens charities so hopefulyy that will help. I suspose its just a case of rolling with it and coming out the ohter end .

[PhoenixRising]

All the heart ache, hurt, self loathing and wasted years !

BH, I, too, look back on the past 30 years and am so sad what I have thrown away because of my disease. Just remember, that no matter what the past, your future is spotless. :l
Grab it girl and hang on tight. We are gonna have an AWESOME rest of our lives!!