Just wanted to say "HI" to all of you. I know I've been gone for awhile but have kept up on all your posts and progress.
I just feel rather numb and don't have anything to share so have just been reading.
Just a quick update: I haven't been drinking. Day 13 for me. I haven't decided whether I will drink when the hubby is out of town or not.
as for the hubby he's still getting the cold shoulder. I refuse to talk about my drinking with him. Maybe I'm just being stubborn but since the only time he is willing to communicate is if I do something wrong (never mind the fact that he drinks too, has had an affair and turned our world upside down). I am the bad guy here. This is why I don't post because I can't explain what is going on so that I am fair to both of us.
Do I give in and pretend that everything is okay? That would take a lot of humility and then everytime something goes wrong he will just think, give her time and she will forget all about it, no big deal.
I know this post doesn't make any sense which is why I have remained silent.
So, no more for today
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