red, you've inspired me once again. i'm toying w the idea of having a graduating student of mine live w me while she saves money to go to college. she could help me so much in the mornings w my son, and with my spanish (she is a native speaker). and with my basic cleaning. and i could help her get work (as an undocumented immigrant, that's a tough one); there are so many people in my area who have money and not enough help. she'd be a boon to any household, with her childcare experience and her willingness to work. she's so delightful: positive, smiles all the time, takes beautiful photographs, has an artistic sensibility, appreciates foreign films, the list goes on about this girl whom i think should live with me, maybe, and help me and herself out. she currently lives in a very poor county/area, and it would be a huge step up for her to live in my area and expand her options. you get the idea: good for her, good for me. i'm feeling it out. thanks for the inspiration. so glad for you, red, that your gal karen might just be the savior that you seek. (nevermind juan! tee hee.)
once again, you speak words that resonate deeply with me: the thing about our thougths needing to catch up with our biology. my habits and thoughts are not yet on par with my biology, yet i am feeling very close to switching. i don't want or need the beer, but i buy and drink it. not at the speed i used to, and it used to be vodka cause it would go down and get the job done quicker. the beer goes down, but it doesn't NEED to. you know what i mean.
have you seen the film Viva Cuba? worth a look-see. (it''s about two cuban kids who run away on an honorable mission. it's about friendship and instinctive loyalty to place. and it shows beautiful imagery of cuba.) you can impress LL with your sensitivity to his culture if you watch this and have any kind of internal reaction to it. not that you're looking to impress. clearly, he needs to impress YOU.
eating is a great alternative to drinking, i agree. funny, my dad said last night as i was talking to him about my own problem drinking, that he finds he pours the second glass just before eating, and once he starts eating he loses interest in the drink. i told him that i share that experience, but in true addict form i sometimes skip the eating to enjoy the drinking more. he has just gotten a clean bill of health after a prostate cancer scare, so has more obvious incentive to stop drinking. but, lemme tell you, he was a big drinker for many years. vodka hidden in a mug at noon kinda thing. so it's interesting to hear him tell about his own version of sobriety that happened for very tangible reasons.
yaa dee yaa.
dreamworld, here i come.
xxxoo sweet dreams.
red, is karen staying with you now, or will she go back home for a while, pack up, and return? i'm excited for you. you deserve the support. good luck with the food. (my gal possibilty is like a mom in her family, taking care of siblings and all. i think she's a very good cook and housekeeper. maybe i'll be followng your footsteps and getting the warranted help...)
xoxo again
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