I'm very sorry that thread became mired in reasons that this journey is scary. It doesn't have to be. It helps if you have friends (virtual ones, too) as part of the support system.
For newbies: If you get a pop up saying that you have a private message it's because someone was trying to reach out to you.
You won't see this if you don't log in.
If you do see it, you just have to click ok on the message that pops up. If that doesn't work, you can click on the "private message" link located underneath your name in the top right hand corner.
You can return the message by hitting reply. No one else sees these messages or knows that you have read them or responded to them. They are private messages.
Getting Serious, I'm pretty sure that you have some messages, I hope you'll check in. It is an incredibly brave and can be a difficult thing to post or start a thread, to which we can all attest.
I apologize that I didn't respond to you more directly on the thread you started, and hope and pray you're still around.
:h and :ls
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