What follows below is a bit of a rant, but I cannot stand on the sidelines and just observe what is happening.
I'm picking up some worrying "vibes " from some MWO members who participate almost exclusively in meds:
- Comments about other people who participate mostly in General (even going so far as to question their intelligence)
- A notion that baclofen is the only true way out (a new evangelism?)
- Negative comments towards AA in particular, and
- General statements mocking people and their approaches to sobriety.
That is simply not on. In the same way that MWO is open to discussions on baclofen, it is incumbent on us as meds users to respect other people's approaches to sobriety. Yes, it is OK to state that AA didn't work for you or that you don't believe in 12-step programmes. But it is NOT OK to start spewing vitriol about it.
I have met and have been supported in my own journey by a host of people on MWO - they never questioned my decision to take baclofen. Likewise, I didn't question their approach.
There are numerous examples of people who have found lasting sobriety by means other than baclofen.
I call on everyone in meds to respect the spirit of MWO. If you were to participate in the other forums, you'll start interacting with some incredible people.
Yes, there are those folks who do the same thing over and over again and expect a different result. Is it our role to ridicule them in public? Or do we send them a PM instead, asking if they've considered taking baclofen? Have you given some thought as to whether they have really reached rock bottom and are ready to take action? If you're on the baclofen wagon, you're usually in a space where you are determined, and not all talk but no action.
Mutual respect rules OK!
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