I've got nothing to add atm, (at the moment, chef) but I like this thread and am invigorated by the discussion.
I am particularly curious whether or not we can find validity or disprove whether emotional anguish exacerbates SEs? Clearly that is not a gender issue. Or a psychosomatic issue. We all have baggage and it is unlikely to be measured by researchers.
(THAT would be an interesting questionnaire... Did your parents do x,y or z? How did that make you feel on a scale of 1-10... 1 being suicidal and 10 being homicidal?)
I am making a joke and definitely not trying to be insensitive.
But I think that is one facet of this discussion we are likely to tiptoe around... Who is more fucked up than whom and is that why they have more SEs?
As one who suffered mightily from SEs that were definitely NOT in my head, I would like to see this debated... Ha! But I'm feeling a little ... like a good debate.
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