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    #1

    What The Hell Is Going On Here????

    I'm one for a good debate. One that doesn't label another with expletives. Demean another fellow bac'er. We seem to have forgotten our manners on many threads, once again. What the hell is going on? We are a team people, and if we want others to jump on board, we need to act that way. I wouldn't at this point, expect anyone to do so.

    I thought about keeping quiet about this. Don't want this to turn into the next drama thread, or should I say HATE thread. Then I decided, no way. Cause I'm one step away from not posting, or visiting these threads anymore.

    Me and a few other people. You haters, need to STOP. It's out of control. It deters people from wanting to post here, and wanting to take baclofen. That my friends, is a problem. :upset:
    This Princess Saved Herself
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    #2
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    One more thing. Our captain may be out for now, Dr OA (hopefully not on a bender, but who knows?), but this doesn't mean we shouldn't carry on the game. Eyes firmly on the goal. He will be back, I'm sure of it!!
    This Princess Saved Herself

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      #3
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      interesting thread, alchohol does that to us,get us up in arms,haters ,i don t believe is the word for it,expression of one s thoughts, ,amongst people with an addiction, really for what we ve consumed,were all insane,and we should be dead, as far as drugs to fix it, using Bac is up to you, as i ve said in the past educating one s self and not drinking would solve the problem, simple, is it , if you can, think about it, gyco

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        #4
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        Like Gyco said.

        We are a bunch of drunks. (I think that is what you were saying, Gyco. I love you, as always.)

        Sorry about the issues today. I said what I felt. That was apparently a really bad thing.

        Others have to stand by their beliefs, too.

        Cindi
        AF April 9, 2016

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          #5
          What The Hell Is Going On Here????

          I don't think anyone shouldn't stand by their beliefs. They should. But when things become mean and hateful, and were all in this together, that's when it's a problem. It's been happening a ton lately. The name calling and swearing at another person here is unacceptable. I would say that's my humble opinion, but I won't do that either. This isn't humble. It's a fucking opinion. I think it's right as well. People shouldn't be treated this way.
          This Princess Saved Herself

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            #6
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            treated what way,so called normal people either make a big issue out of it,or they walk away,dam does that make us normal, sorry cinder i get thoughts in my head, and just go wild, i ve always been like that hahaha

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              #7
              What The Hell Is Going On Here????

              RedHead77,

              I hope and pray I have not been mean and hateful. I do not EVER want that to be the case. EVER.

              I never ever meant to swear at anyone, either. I don't think I did.

              I did make one very sarcastic comment and I wish I could take it back but, on the other hand, the response to my response was pretty hateful, used swear words, etc. I cannot be responsible for the person doing the response. I can only be responsible for myself.

              I apologize for my original indescretion. Speaking my mind and beliefs, even though they were a bit harsh. I wish I could speak my mind and not be sweared at. I wish I could just speak my mind.

              I did apologize to the original poster for being harsh. She accepted it.

              End of story.

              We are all good.

              Cindi
              AF April 9, 2016

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                #8
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                gyco,

                And we love you for the way you are.

                You are right. I made much ado about nothing.

                Love you,
                Cindi
                AF April 9, 2016

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                  #9
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                  life

                  Cinders;1089188 wrote: RedHead77,

                  I hope and pray I have not been mean and hateful. I do not EVER want that to be the case. EVER.

                  I never ever meant to swear at anyone, either. I don't think I did.

                  I did make one very sarcastic comment and I wish I could take it back but, on the other hand, the response to my response was pretty hateful, used swear words, etc. I cannot be responsible for the person doing the response. I can only be responsible for myself.

                  I apologize for my original indescretion. Speaking my mind and beliefs, even though they were a bit harsh. I wish I could speak my mind and not be sweared at. I wish I could just speak my mind.

                  I did apologize to the original poster for being harsh. She accepted it.

                  End of story.

                  We are all good.

                  Cindi
                  hi cindi, over time you will find,we never have to apoligise any more.:H you will find joy in what people write or say,:H that is one of the biggest issues with us addicted people, we tend to surrender our own selves with what others feel,and give in,:upset: were as special as everyone else,w just don t no it, gyco:H

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                    Oh, Gyco. What a special post.

                    I will keep it to heart. Seriously.

                    I find joy in what you say. :l:l

                    Love,
                    Cindi
                    AF April 9, 2016

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                      #11
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                      Gyco, I'm not quite sure what your point is. If you want a debate, then bring it. I'm thinking that's what your going after. Of course, I rarely see you in these parts, so again, what exactly are you trying to do/say?

                      Cindi, I am in no way pointing fingers. Certainly not at you. I don't think you ever swore at anyone. We all have times we get snarky. I of course do too. Hence the thread.

                      If Gyco you're insinuating that I am trying to be better than others here, absolutely not. I am a fucking drunk with so many flaws, you couldn't count them. I am in no way trying to insinuate that I am better than anyone else. Knowing my flaws, I would say, that I am probably worse. I do not, however, believe that is okay to demean my fellow alkies. Especially, not the bac followers, who are without a doubt, my own people.
                      This Princess Saved Herself

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                        #12
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                        redhead77;1089131 wrote: I'm one for a good debate. One that doesn't label another with expletives. Demean another fellow bac'er. We seem to have forgotten our manners on many threads, once again. What the hell is going on? We are a team people, and if we want others to jump on board, we need to act that way. I wouldn't at this point, expect anyone to do so.

                        I thought about keeping quiet about this. Don't want this to turn into the next drama thread, or should I say HATE thread. Then I decided, no way. Cause I'm one step away from not posting, or visiting these threads anymore.

                        Me and a few other people. You haters, need to STOP. It's out of control. It deters people from wanting to post here, and wanting to take baclofen. That my friends, is a problem. :upset:
                        We are already getting away from what this thread was started to say...

                        You haters need to STOP. It's out of control.

                        This is not a personal thing about you Cindi. You have always been a kind, caring and respectful person. Anybody can get pushed too far when outrageous insults and intimidations are thrown about, people are accosted and belittled, told to go away, shut up, their opinions are invalidated and all dissension is quelled before it can arise.

                        This has nothing to do with you Cindi. You just got caught in the fray at the last minute.

                        There's a long line of others who got caught in the fray before you.

                        I will write more in next post, I just wanted to get this in before somebody else comes in and changes the post's direction.
                        Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life... And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.

                        Steve Jobs, Stanford Commencement Adress, 2005

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                          #13
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                          Gyco;1089146 wrote: interesting thread, alchohol does that to us,get us up in arms,haters ,i don t believe is the word for it,expression of one s thoughts, ,amongst people with an addiction, really for what we ve consumed,were all insane,and we should be dead, as far as drugs to fix it, using Bac is up to you, as i ve said in the past educating one s self and not drinking would solve the problem, simple, is it , if you can, think about it, gyco
                          I wonder if you have been reading all the recent bac threads? If you have read them, and you say something so flippant as this: "alchohol does that to us,get us up in arms,haters ,i don t believe is the word for it,expression of one s thoughts," and you are referring to the threads in which people are called names asked to go away, repeatedly abused, belittled, derided, ridiculed, scaring others from expressing their opinions -- if that's what you call "expressing one's thoughts" and it's therefore ok... well, it's not ok here.

                          Maybe it's ok in a barroom, or maybe on other forums, but here, we have been a civilized lot for many years, we offer a lot, we learn a lot, we argue a lot, commiserate a lot, help a lot, laugh and cry, too. But we respect each other, and we don't want to be threatend out of existence by haters who "express themselves" -- not when they attack and intimidate and abuse others.

                          Perhaps you will realize that it is a bit insensitive to jump in here at this point and say tut-tut, what a fuss, we drunks do that... it's the nature of being a drunk... just don't drink and all problems will be solved.
                          Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life... And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.

                          Steve Jobs, Stanford Commencement Adress, 2005

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                            #14
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                            redhead77;1089131 wrote: I'm one for a good debate. One that doesn't label another with expletives. Demean another fellow bac'er. We seem to have forgotten our manners on many threads, once again. What the hell is going on? We are a team people, and if we want others to jump on board, we need to act that way. I wouldn't at this point, expect anyone to do so.

                            I thought about keeping quiet about this. Don't want this to turn into the next drama thread, or should I say HATE thread. Then I decided, no way. Cause I'm one step away from not posting, or visiting these threads anymore.

                            Me and a few other people. You haters, need to STOP. It's out of control. It deters people from wanting to post here, and wanting to take baclofen. That my friends, is a problem. :upset:
                            Well said red.

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                              #15
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                              See my post on
                              https://www.mywayout.org/community/f2...now-49068.html
                              (bottom posts atm)
                              Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life... And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.

                              Steve Jobs, Stanford Commencement Adress, 2005

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