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    just got my own bac!

    the saga continued. major snaffus all the way home. going through the first tunnel on the way to bklyn, i turned on my headlights per the law, and then quickly off, as i didn't want to forget them and kill the battery. second tunnel was longer so i turned them on, and forgot to turn them off. after nephew's 4th bday party, i was amped to get out of dodge. but my battery was dead. of course. triple a came and charged it to get me going. (silver lining: i didn't have to go to a shop and get a whole new battery installed, a risk when killing an old battery.) minor traffic on the bridge. was never more happy to see the fdr north. and then the gw bridge. but i missed the exit to palisades pkwy, an exit i've taken 100's of times. got lost in new jersey. severe punishment, but for what???!!! the signs for the garden state pkwy are tiny and have no warning. had to stop thrice for directions. had to get fuel. i was never happier to finally be on 87 north. and then, to finally drive into my driveway. i half expected my house to have burned down while i was gone, but it hadn't. so here i am.

    i kept holding visions of sitting here, typing, letting my son play video games until his brain oozed out of his ears, eating candy and drinking coke. (well, only the first event is the case.)

    it will be a very, very long time before i go to bklyn again. i can't believe i did that drive every week for three years! (silver lining: son slept the whole way home. just before arriving, he woke up most cheery. give thanks.)

    now, i'm off to craig's list to look for an impreza sport. my vw beetle has done me very well, but it's time to move on. at 230 thousand miles, i can read the signs that i must upgrade.

    and with that, i bid you adieu.

    rudy

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      just got my own bac!

      You drive a Beetle? Cool! I knew I must like you for a reason. :H

      Yeah, a Beetle is great fun and soooooo cool, but such old cars are not reliable and if you need a commuting daily drive a Beetle is not the car for it.

      Is that the car you drive into NY City every day on your long commute????!!!!????? It can't be surely.

      The unexamined life is not worth living

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        just got my own bac!

        Rudeeeey, in what way are you going to broach the subject with your sister? Be careful. Do you really need to do that?

        What sort of relationship do you two have? Is it like the one you have with your mum? If so, that would be possible. But if not.....

        What does your mum think? In fact, Rudy's mum (mom, mam ???) are you there?

        The unexamined life is not worth living

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          just got my own bac!

          i paid a thousand bucks for this beetle, when it had 199 k miles on it. (it's a 2001, so it's not one of those incredibly cool old-style jobbies.) the owners were moving back to denmark and needed to unload it. they babied this rig, i tell ya! i have only ever changed the oil, and i've put 30 k miles on it! they felt bad, reluctant, selling it to me, their friend. imagine! i have only driven it into nyc a few times. (when i was an upstate weekender, i drove very old saabs, which i miss, but i don't miss the maintenance costs!) i used it on my 30 mile commute for two years. just looked into subaru imprezas (i need a sporty awd car w a rack for my snowboard so i can look as cool as i am), and there are tons for sale. the newer ones, alas, are still 20 grand. so i'll dig around and find one for five. i will, and soon! can't be stranded w my weeds all summer here in mohonk (the mountain i look at) heaven.

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            just got my own bac!

            No, no, no, no, NO! The new Beetle ain't a Beetle. It's a Bolf or a Geetle. That's what us real, old style VW owners call them, 'cos we're ever sooooo funny like that.

            They're basically a silly, styled veedub with a Golf engine stuck in it.

            That ain't no Beetle baby!!!!!!

            The unexamined life is not worth living

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              just got my own bac!

              murph, i am going to be very careful w my sis. but i needn't be. she's totally cool. when we finally talked a couple of weeks ago about her zoning out whenever i mentioned my drinking, it was cathartic. and we broke through to a new level of intimacy. i am still guarded when it comes to sharing w her, but i do it without so much fear that she'll just glaze over. she has her own intimacy and emotional blocks, and i'm willing to work around them until she breaks through them herself.

              i will, however, talk to her about her happiness, and how much she could do to increase that. she needs to be w people more, and to find girlfriends. she is truly a likable woman. she's so smart and gracious and engaging. she has a lot to offer a girlfriend, but she hasn't had much luck attracting and keeping them. partly because she seems to find very intellectual women who tend to be a bit cold and reserved themselves. i've encouraged her to try rowing, where she'll be in her body (which she also needs to do; she's very fit but doesn't celebrate that much), and in rowing she'll find wonderfully intelligent and dynamic people w whom to commune. i want my sis to be happy, and as i have said, i don't think she truly is. however i can support her in that, i will. and it is a conversation we can have. she is not much like my mother, except insofar as she is able to be open and honest and speak from the heart. and i don't think she's competitive w me, so the fact that it would be me bringing her into rowing wouldn't be an issue.

              thank you for asking.

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                just got my own bac!

                Rudy, check out used Audi A4's. Excellent AWD, beautiful looks, classy interior, and without the sense of undeserving superiority that comes with a BMW.
                Knowledge of what is possible is the beginning of happiness.
                George Santayana

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                  just got my own bac!

                  oh, and btw, i did have a great talk w j -her hubby- about my sis (a), and we both see her the same way. and we both want her to be happy. it was very helpful to talk w him, as always. i think i do have a role in her finding more fulfillment in her life. and i do know that she cares about me and loves me very very much. so who better to help steer her towards more whole enjoyment of life than i?

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                    just got my own bac!

                    pete, i feckin love the audis. but they cost so much more to maintain than a subaru! my dad recently said to me something like this: 'i'd love to buy you [and he could, easily] a brand new awd audi w leather seats and all windows working [my vw has a non-functional window], but it might come up in litigation that you've got this great new car, and i don't want you to have to deal w that'. the fuckin tease, he!

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                      just got my own bac!

                      How dare he! How long till the court stuff's behind you? I'm sure you could hold out. You can't get an Impreza though. Every time you'd mention it, it would remind me of a bombshell I could have had if I wasn't a drunk mess. The ones that got away...
                      Knowledge of what is possible is the beginning of happiness.
                      George Santayana

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                        just got my own bac!

                        i should have known that things would go badly when i burned a worm when putting out my cigarette. the only worm in a square park slope block, and i burned it! poor thing, it squirmed like crazy. i think i even burned it in that funny fat place it has. is that where its babies are made? aww god, when that happened, i knew i should never have left the countryside!

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                          just got my own bac!

                          well, that bombshell obviously had good taste in cars. sorry to rub it in, but...

                          court case may take a while, but i'm a call my lawyer tomorrow and tell him to put some gas on it. i can't wait to get rid of this deadbeat and get a temp custody arrangement. give the judge a preview of the parasite he'll be seeing again real soon. feel totally redeemed when judge says you're a lowly piece of shit and your son is LUCKY not to have to emulate the likes of your bad decisions. let his mommy keep him full of wonderful role models. while you suck it up in schenectady (over an hour from his son's home!) and drive your ass deeper into the hole you should've already crawled into.

                          not that you asked.

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                            just got my own bac!

                            I'm sensing a mild disdain towards your ex :H

                            I've missed the details about his scumbaginess, but I've gotten the picture. The good news is you're in the right, so you can cackle maniacally in court. Try it out, preferably in the beginning, and while the judge is still talking. You can let the judge know you're laughing WITH him by giving him a crook eye and splashing water all over yourself.
                            Knowledge of what is possible is the beginning of happiness.
                            George Santayana

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                              just got my own bac!

                              oh, i'm sure the judge will know i'm laughing right along w her/him. s/he'll be taking the lead, just wait for my report on that, mark my words. no need for water splashing. we'll be throwing water baloons in celebration of ex's buffonery.

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                                just got my own bac!

                                sinking down into some good soft mud i am back in my comfy home, for which i am deeply grateful.

                                aqui hay una cancion y video de mi (here is a song and video from me):

                                http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b8SSMG_w2HM&feature=fvwrel[/video]]YouTube - ‪macaco se vuelven y son son‬‏

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