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    This was a very proud evening for me. My trainer at the gym asked me if it would be ok to post any before/after pics to the gym's Facebook page because I've made a lot of progress. (and no, I won't be posting them here)

    I tell my roommate, and he's thrilled. Then he takes an opportunistic bent:

    "You need to get something out of this! They can't just use your pic like that, it's exploitation. You should state your demands, don't give in until they give you a year free membership! What do you have to lose?"

    "Ummm, well I'm at session 25, and I paid for 50 sessions, and if I acted like a dick those 25 remaining sessions would be pretty awkward..."

    "NO! You can't think like that, you've got to take this opportunity by the balls!"

    My other roommate, a doctor, walks into the kitchen, and he's appraised of the situation.

    "Are you fucking kidding me? Like, every business does that. The office I work for does that. That would be really stupid to make demands like that!"

    He pounds at me another 5 minutes while I'm cooking, and finally I break down the real reason i decided to go forward with it:

    "Look, even though I'm not on Facebook anymore and would never even know if people cared or not, my family would see it and could finally breathe a sigh of relief and not worry about my health anymore. I want to do it for them."

    That shut him up and he got really bashful. I'm really not angry over it or even mildly annoyed. I KNOW he was drunk. And who am I to judge? How many people have I annoyed acting like that and never even realized it?

    This also has important baclofen implications. Even though I majorly cut down on socializing with my drinking crowd after switching, I still text them when I drink. Many times I've gone through the previous night's texts to realize how little self control I had over what I said even after small amounts of alcohol. Even though I'm indifferent, there's still probably frontal lobe damage that's been done.

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    best antidote for drinking? listening to another drunk while sober.

    Aww...Evan posted pics! Come on

    My husband has the same demeanor when he drinks. My kids and I roll our eyes. It's sad.

    Good for you taking the high road! :goodjob:

    Sam

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      #3
      best antidote for drinking? listening to another drunk while sober.

      Yep... I know the feeling, on both sides. It's really annoying to be talking to that person, and I know I've more often than not BEEN that person. SO many times. I've noticed people I used to be close with have distanced themselves from me a bit... still nice, but a bit more standfoffish... I suspect my drunken oafishness is the reason. I think if I knew what people really thought of the drinking me, I'd probably be mortified... Anyway, good reminders to stop being that person. It's like assaulting others with drunkenness.

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        #4
        best antidote for drinking? listening to another drunk while sober.

        skullbabyland;1655997 wrote: Yep... I know the feeling, on both sides. It's really annoying to be talking to that person, and I know I've more often than not BEEN that person. SO many times. I've noticed people I used to be close with have distanced themselves from me a bit... still nice, but a bit more standfoffish... I suspect my drunken oafishness is the reason. I think if I knew what people really thought of the drinking me, I'd probably be mortified... Anyway, good reminders to stop being that person. It's like assaulting others with drunkenness.
        Not to mention the alcohol on their breath that I notice now. Never noticed it when I was drinking too.

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          #5
          best antidote for drinking? listening to another drunk while sober.

          Yep, I have to say I found my friends to be very tedious when they were drunk and I wasnt. It helped me to overcome the lifestyle change that happens when you become AF (as I was for most of last year) as I found I didnt really want to be around them as their drinking progressed past the first couple.

          At first I found it an alien experience to be in a bar and be AF, then slowly the time I spent doing non-bar related things increased over time and now when I pass bars in the daytime (my preferred drinking time) I am mildly amused by the number of people who are sat there staring at rows of bottles as I have done so many times over the last twenty five years of alcoholism. It is a great reality check to remind me of what lies in wait for me if I return to drinking the way I used to.

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              best antidote for drinking? listening to another drunk while sober.

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                best antidote for drinking? listening to another drunk while sober.

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                    #10
                    best antidote for drinking? listening to another drunk while sober.

                    Fred_The_Cat;1655780 wrote: This was a very proud evening for me. My trainer at the gym asked me if it would be ok to post any before/after pics to the gym's Facebook page because I've made a lot of progress. (and no, I won't be posting them here)

                    I tell my roommate, and he's thrilled. Then he takes an opportunistic bent:

                    "You need to get something out of this! They can't just use your pic like that, it's exploitation. You should state your demands, don't give in until they give you a year free membership! What do you have to lose?"

                    "Ummm, well I'm at session 25, and I paid for 50 sessions, and if I acted like a dick those 25 remaining sessions would be pretty awkward..."

                    "NO! You can't think like that, you've got to take this opportunity by the balls!"

                    My other roommate, a doctor, walks into the kitchen, and he's appraised of the situation.

                    "Are you fucking kidding me? Like, every business does that. The office I work for does that. That would be really stupid to make demands like that!"

                    He pounds at me another 5 minutes while I'm cooking, and finally I break down the real reason i decided to go forward with it:

                    "Look, even though I'm not on Facebook anymore and would never even know if people cared or not, my family would see it and could finally breathe a sigh of relief and not worry about my health anymore. I want to do it for them."

                    That shut him up and he got really bashful. I'm really not angry over it or even mildly annoyed. I KNOW he was drunk. And who am I to judge? How many people have I annoyed acting like that and never even realized it?

                    This also has important baclofen implications. Even though I majorly cut down on socializing with my drinking crowd after switching, I still text them when I drink. Many times I've gone through the previous night's texts to realize how little self control I had over what I said even after small amounts of alcohol. Even though I'm indifferent, there's still probably frontal lobe damage that's been done.
                    Omg, I LOVE your post. HySTeriCal. My first outloud laugh of the day and it is already 3:15, thank you!
                    (AF since 17 May 2014) 2 years 5 months sober

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