I've had anxiety for as long as I can remember but not the kind of a anxiety that I normally read about on here.My anxiety is a social one,when I was younger I found it hard to speak to strangers and went red frequently.My hands would swear and my heart would race.Im still like that now but have learnt how to disguise it better,but still find myself very self aware and in the middle of a conversation I suddenly get self consious and start to blush.I have never been successful in my career but I have always worked and we have our own house and 2 teenage sons.I feel my lack of self confidence has held me back in life and I could have a achieved much more.I haven't stood up for myself or my sons in talking to teachers ect and I'm always thinking about what they are thinking of me.
That's why I can't really relate to people like Dr Ameison as I don't know how he could have achieved so much with so much anxiety and I realise I must have a different sort if anxiety.
I feel like LIS said on another thread about feeling an imposter.At this stage in my like I feel like I put on an act and feel like I'm in the outside looking in.
But I think people see me as funny because I just say what I'm thinking and it isn't always appropriate but in the same vein I absolutely hate upsetting people and can get quite depressed if I think people have take me the wrong way.
I actually believe I've gotten to thus stage in my life without people realising what a fake I am,My friends actually seem to like me and think I'm a nice person.
Reading this back I realise f**ked up I am and have tears running down my face.
But I'll get over it and face life head on as I usually do
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