Stepdad committed suicide

[toughintexas]

Ok guys, with daughter and other struggles, my Stepdad committed suicide today, left and set up my Mom and Aunt to find him....awful, awful.....she had to find my Dad dead, and go thru the same routine yrs. ago., I'm freakin out, and my daughter I started the thread over, came and was sooooooo awful to me, its unreal....I'm really in shock an awe, and pain....worse than ever maybe....

[toughintexas]

Stepdad committed suicide

My Dad died totally unexpectably of a heart attack tho, she just came down the stairs and found him, my Stepdad, planned for my Mom and Aunt to find him.....and my daughters attitude at a time when all should be forgotten, was nuts, I didn't even act like I knew she was there after she didn't speak to me in front of all the family...plus, I loved my Stepdad, now, my Dad, and Stepdad are gone.....and him in such an awful way....I really need support....I'm hanging on here, but by my fingernails!

[Cinders]

Stepdad committed suicide

Oh, TNT,

I am so sorry. I don't even know what to say..

Sending prayers and ((((hugs))).

Love,
Cindi

[tawnyfrog]

Stepdad committed suicide

God TIT, that's so awful - how can we help you right now?

[toughintexas]

Stepdad committed suicide

can we go to chat?

[toughintexas]

Stepdad committed suicide

Never since my Dad died, has anything freaked me out this way, I'd just talked to both of them, and then gone......unbelievable!

[tawnyfrog]

Stepdad committed suicide

Going into chat now - see you soon

[Dolly Sunshine]

Stepdad committed suicide

So sorry.

[Beaches]

Stepdad committed suicide

TIT that is so horrible and so sad. I hope your family is able to support you now.

[AMELIA]

Stepdad committed suicide

TIT, again, I am so very sorry. This must be horrendously painful for you.
Sorry I missed you earlier in chat. Thinking of you.
xxx

[river0123]

Stepdad committed suicide

Sending prayers & hugs your way.
I do know how you feel. My brother did it, too. The emotions you are feeling right now just can't be put into words. I'm so sad for the pain you feel.
Love, River

[KateH1]

Stepdad committed suicide

TIT, I am heart broken for you today. I wish I could be there to hold you and comfort you. Know that I am with you in spirit. I am certain that you must feel overwhelmed by loss right now. I know that the loss of our dear friend Bear hit you especially hard. To loose your step dad so soon must be devistating. All I can say is, please take good care of yourself right now. The issues with your daughter can be handled later. I am furious with her right now! But, right now be with your mom. I know you will support each other and your dear husband is there for you. Let him comfort you.

Call me if you need a listening ear. I am thinking of you and sending you prayers of strength, love and comfort.

Love,
XXX Kate

[nancy]

Stepdad committed suicide

Hi Tough In Texas

I don't have a lot of experience with grief but I am thinking about you today.

I am sorry to hear about your stepdad. I know that when people commit suicide, it's often said that they were selfish and didn't think about the pain they would inflict on families. I don't tend to see it that way. I think the person must have been in a hell of a lot of pain or discomfort to take his or her life.

I hope you can be of some solace to your mother who must be really suffering right now. I agree that your daughter needs to put her petty concerns aside.

Take care of yourself through this physicially, get enough rest etc and accept any support that is offered from friends and family.

[Captnjack]

Stepdad committed suicide

Kate please I know you mean well but anger not needed now..... quote "I am furious with her right now! " geeezzzzzzz let her and her daughter grieve
cap

[LVT25]

Stepdad committed suicide

I was so shocked and sad for you when I heard about this last night. I went to bed and said a very long prayer for you and your family. I can't even imagine what you must be going through. Suicide is such a selfish act really. I know you have been through a lot lately, I know you are a strong person, you can get through this too. It's times like this I wish I could wiggle my nose and be with you. Please take care and give your mom a hug. :h:h:l:l