I need help and fast

[BecomingMeAtLast]

I need help and fast

Difficult choice but I feel like you made the right one. It's just not fair to you or your HB to subject yourselves to that and it doesn't look like it's helping your friend, either. Enabling is never helpful. She may not even remember a lot of this...it's so nice of you to help her out. You've done your best with her it sounds like. Above and beyond.

I wish you the best and agree with MHIDIW...stay strong!

Be

[Rags]

I need help and fast

I'd be taking Wally's advice.

[Ripple]

I need help and fast

Providence;577090 wrote: Dear All,

I don't reach out much, however I have a major problem.... I went to rehad in November and when I got out one of the people who was in there with me came out with no friends or family. I let her stay at my house and that lasted a few weeks and then she was off and running with "new" friends.

Last weekend the "friend" called me and said she was off the hook and I picked her up drunk butt and all. It was a bad weekend.

She just got out the hospital and staying at my house. I so ready to drink it's not funny.

So does she stay or does she go? She has no where to go....

One thing you learn IS to take CARE of YOU.. Go back together, since you as one.

[polaryzed]

I need help and fast

Hi Providence

I agree with the others here, you are trying to be compassionate and kind. But you would be shooting yourself in the foot to allow this woman to stay in your home and to continue with her drinking binges. Not to mention what you would be doing to yourself and your marriage. :upset:

Have you mentioned this website to her?

There is a saying, 'In Gods Time Not Mine'. When she is ready, she will get help but in the meantime she appears to be dragging you down with her.

I now see why some people here call alcohol "The Beast". LET HER GO and TAKE BACK YOUR LIFE.

From experience, I know you can't save someone who does not want to be saved but you can die trying.