I think Bella needs help!

[Bella]

I think Bella needs help!

That is very helpful Keeta, thanku. I know u r rite about not really ever being able to drink. It is something that is hard for me to consider. I too get depressed when i drink. Its day 2 af for me and i need to work on how i feel today...a little bit mentally unsteady ..but alot better than being drunk or hungover...alcohol affects me in such a way that i feel like im mad...its horrid. anyway, thanku for giving me yr time. B XXX

[KateH1]

I think Bella needs help!

Bella, no one hates you. But, your monthly drunken rants on here have become tiresome. When you come here drunk, you start multiple threads, threaten suicide, then go to chat and begin to attack and tear people apart in chat. Bella, many of us, have reached out to you, offered help and encouragement to you, to no avail. We understand that alcohol is a ruthless disease, we understand that when drinking many of us have a complete personality change and say and do things we would never do sober. But, never the less, we are still responsible for our actions and words.

But, here's the deal. MWO is a place to come to help get this figured out, to gain support and to begin the process of recovery. This is not a place for drunks to come and rant. Your drunkin visits, are very frightening to newbies, who become worried about you being suicidel. We have all become concerned about your small children.....we worried about your drinking during your last pregnancy. The point is, we all end up worried and powerless to help.....especially for us to help those dependent and helpless little ones. Your ranting keeps us from doing the real work of supporting each other, those that are doing the hard work of living without alcohol.

Frankly, your dramatic drunken rants hurt and help no one. Please have some sensitivity for those here that a very vulnerable to your drama. I really do not think that you would deliberately hurt anyone, but please realize that your rants do not help

Bella, please get professional help and stick with it. As you say, get yourself "sorted out". Come here if you want to comitt to not drinking and join in the threads with others who are in the beginning of finding their way. By doing this, you just might find your way!

[keeta]

I think Bella needs help!

Bella,
It is hard. I won't lie to you. But if you can get through it, when you get through it, it is only hard the once.(mind you the once lasts a while, it isn't easy Bella, but I promise you it is worth it) Instead of being hard every day you wake up, wishing the cycle would stop. Being hard every time you drink and get depressed feeling like there is just no hope.

Get the help you need. Get sober. You can do it. I promise you if I can do it, so can you.

[betty boop]

I think Bella needs help!

Bella have you considered AA, I have found a fabulous group of people and it really helps to meet real flesh and blood people.

And that by no means to diminish friendships here so please don't take offense anyone, joining here a long time ago helped me take a step into moderation but AA is helping me stay AF, I truly think that it could do the same for you Bella

Love & Hugs, BB xx

[brittzak]

I think Bella needs help!

I have to agree....MWO is a great place, but if it isn't enough for you...seek more help! I went to counseling and AA along with here....and went back to church. Some of us need more support than others, but you and only you can figure out what you need to get and stay sober.

[Winefree]

I think Bella needs help!

Ditto what Brittzak said. AA, MWO, counseling, church and reading lots of literature are what's keeping me sober. It isn't always easy, but it is worth it.

Winefree

[betty boop]

I think Bella needs help!

Hi Bella, where are you hun?????? x

[savon19]

I think Bella needs help!

Isn't it ironic that when you call someone "judgmental"... you are Being judgmental???

("you" as in "anyone")

[Starlight Impress Forever]

I think Bella needs help!

Indeed!!! :H

Star x

[Guest]

I think Bella needs help!

Bella...Hippie.
Just wanted to apologise, Bella , I was been a bitch, God knows Ive had feck all success with my own sobriety so ive no right to judge you on your drinking habits, im sorry.
Hippie, youve been a friend over the last few years , you dont deserve to be spoken too like that, again , im sorry.
Going to remove offending posts.