Avoidance will not work. Been there done that.
Let him know you know, let his father know. I know some parents can be over bearing but you must show a united front.
Talk to his father in a quiet moment when your son is not around. Get some ground rules in place and a plan in place.
At the end of the day, you both love him and you both want him to be well in life.
Pretending this isn't going on to avoid the confrontation will only make things worse.
I dislike confrontation, too, but have learned to deal with it. It still makes me sweat. But, your son is worth it.
Love,
Cindi
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