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    Hi again everyone

    Janet - know you normally stick to this thread, but have you seen the congratulations thread for you on achieving months? It's in the Just Starting Out section.

    Scottish Lass, I agree with you suit shopping sounds a trigger! How old are your 2 daughters? How are things today? love your signature line by the way,read it if you are feeling negative! The other signature lines I really like which really help me are LolaB's " no-one can go back and start a new beginning but anyone can start today and make a new ending " and Byrdlady's "All you ve got to do is get thru this day" - very appropriate if you are struggling, it's not good to look too far ahead.

    Which brings me to you Janice, I was slightly worried by your last post. Re- read Jason, also read the thread I started up the other week about envying normal drinkers who seem to have perfect lives etc. have you looked at that blog yet, the woman who writes it has over 500 days AF now. I can really relate to so much she is saying. I know you've had other AF stints before. How many, What is the longest you've managed in recent years, what caused you to break your sobriety ( you don't need to post the answers in public, keep them to yourself, but use them as thinking points.)

    I am feeling better than a couple of weeks back and less worried about relapse, as I approach 8.5 months, my longest stretch AF ever. However I am always on my guard and I am certainly not thinking ahead to things like Christmas and New year, just concentrate on one day at a time!

    Back later

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      A quick one from me but hoping to get back later. Congratulations Janet on your 6 months!!! So so pleased for you!! Your milestone has helped give me the kick up the backside I needed!!

      I'm fine Sausage...feeling much better but scary where such thoughts cld potentially take you. My hubby is off this week so not much time for hanging around computer but will get some quality time to read tonight hopefully.

      Thanks everyone...I dont know what I'd do without this thread. xx
      AF since 9 May 2012
      Quit trying to control something that is uncontrollable (Bear February 08)

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        Hi friends!
        Day 5 today - and a Friday which has pulled me down last few weeks, so have to stand strong! I agree, I do like this thread, even if there is a very little number of us here, but no worries about what to say or how to say it - very safe!
        Sausage - not sure if I shoudl ask, but when will the day arrive that you surpass your last Sausage record? If you are not trying to focus on the date, please don't worry! And I so agree, I am not looking very far forward, just one foot in front of the other.
        My girls are 11 (soon to be 12) and 14 - and are my joy and delight - just dropped them off to school and their father picks them up tonight until next Friday - so this Friday is a tough day for me (of course I see the alternate Friday as a reason to celebrate). Both have scottish names Sausage. I am so glad you are feeling stronger.
        Hi Janice and Janet - and to Ishy and anyone else who stops by...
        “The only courage you will ever need is the courage to live the life you want"

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          Sausage, just checked out the blog & wld recommend everyone take a look...will definitely be keeping it in my "favourites"!

          SL hope you are getting through your Friday, stay strong...you will feel great on Monday morning.

          xx
          AF since 9 May 2012
          Quit trying to control something that is uncontrollable (Bear February 08)

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            can you believe it...Abouttimetoo has posted on longterm abstainers. She only posts once a year but her posts are so inspiring....this year's is more so. Another Guardian Angel... Would definitely recommend anyone struggling to pop over & read. xx
            AF since 9 May 2012
            Quit trying to control something that is uncontrollable (Bear February 08)

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              Thanks Janice - struggling tonight with "stuff" going on and it is a Friday - but a quick hop to abouttimetoo's thread put things in perspective and sorted my mind out - thanks for the direction...
              “The only courage you will ever need is the courage to live the life you want"

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                Scottish lass:

                I just realize something: there's a new member name Scott's lady and I'm getting the 2 of you confused!!! Because she was asking about where to get topamax in Scotland and I thought, oh I thought she was from uk for some reason. (Or other way around). I do tend to get people confused easily. But I just wanted to point out in case you get some weird message from someone other than me, then you will know its another confused member!!!
                Alcoholic (or Ally)

                "Only a fool knows everything.
                A wise man knows how little he knows."

                Please feel free to block/ignore my posts through your control panel.

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                  Hello to all, and happy AF Friday, I can certainly relate SL I struggled a bit today for some reason too, but I am happily enjoying my cup of herb tea instead. I too shall read the post that you all recommended. I so enjoy reading all the posts on this thread, it keeps my head straight! I just got home from an al anon meeting. Struggling with my daughter who
                  got herself addicted to opiates, not sure if I spelled that correctly, but I really get a lot out of those meetings too. Amazing ladies, and they help me keep my AF head on straight too.
                  Hope you all have a wonderful AF weekend.
                  Kdog
                  Reflect upon your present blessingings, of which every man has many; not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some

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                    Hi..hope everyone is having a good day. SL, kdog well done for riding the AF wave!!

                    I had a couple of midweek wobbles - thoughts that came from nowhere but reading the blog that Sausage recommended, Abouttimetoo's post and generally reading more posts here on the MWO boards has definitely helped.

                    I am going to make more effort to post more often, here and on other threads. Back in 2007 when I first joined MWO I was posting all over the boards, some times several times a day but now my posting tends to reflect my life over the last couple of years....dont know why but I have "withdrawn" generally and probably enjoy my own company far too much!

                    Lovely crisp autumnal day here in Kent...an afternoon in the past is planned with some family history to get my teeth into while hubby watches the sport on tv.

                    See you later. xx
                    AF since 9 May 2012
                    Quit trying to control something that is uncontrollable (Bear February 08)

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                      Hello everyone!
                      I didnt realize how much I missed you until I logged on and read everyones posts. I too love this little comunity.
                      Janice, I can totally relate to the withdrawing, I tend to do that but I have to be careful because too much of my own company can be depressing.
                      PJ, you sound fantastic! Sausage, thank you for the link....Im going to check it out.
                      Sl and Kdog, I have two young girls and sometimes I flash forward and wonder who or which one may have al or drug issues. Isnt that horrible? I try to talk openly about stuff but it seems so crazy to talk to them about al and drugs when almost every news event or issue that comes up is al or drug related. I know they're thinking, if drugs etc... are soo bad, why is everyone doing it?
                      I'm doing pretty good. I still get a bit bored so I need to figure out a new hobby!
                      Hi alcoholic, doo doo....and any lurkers. Keep keepin on, you can do this!
                      Have a great day.
                      Ishy

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                        Hello All, hope everyone is having a wonderful AF day! I can totally relate Janice some days are just tougher than others but hang strong! Ty Ishy, I understand, and have been attending Al Anon meetings, they help a lot in my situation. So far so good though although I know like any other addiction you can slip at any time, so I am not only being strong for myself, but her as well!
                        Janet, SL and everyone else, hope you have a wonderful weekend!
                        Kdog
                        Reflect upon your present blessingings, of which every man has many; not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some

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                          Hello Everyone,

                          A quick check in.....

                          Thanks again for all your kind congrats and glad to know that you are hanging tough through the "thinking drinking" times. SL, congrats on Day 5, well actually it's Day 6 today.

                          Hope everyone is having a good Saturday, I will check back in either tonight or tomorrow...but now I am "tuckered' out, took a VERY long walk with my dog...very exhausting. Time for a cat nap....

                          Lots of hugs,
                          Janet
                          AF Day 182
                          AF Since May 2nd 2012

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                            Very quick check in - trying to hang in thru witching hour on day 6, so looking forward to a week - not quite 6 months, but it will count!
                            I am tuckered out too after a full day keeping the girls occupied - clean out rooms this afternoon - and we are all still speaking to each other - AMAZING:H
                            Hope to post tomorrow that I have got to a week....
                            “The only courage you will ever need is the courage to live the life you want"

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                              You CAN do it SL!!! No more "Cants" Constant And Neverending Torture! Just keep telling yourself that you've absolutely NOTHING to give up, nothing to be deprived of and EVERYTHING to be Grateful for. That is was made the difference to me this time.

                              A dark rainy day here in Kent today, wont be going far...ironing whilst I smell the Sunday dinner cook! mmmmmmmmmm...

                              xx
                              AF since 9 May 2012
                              Quit trying to control something that is uncontrollable (Bear February 08)

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                                Did it - one week done, enjoying this moment, then getting ready to start the next one.
                                So good to see you back Ishy! Janice and Janet - hope all is good...
                                Not struggling tonight, but instead of enjoying it I am trying to work out why - sometimes we think too much don't we!
                                Hope all had a great weekend - I know I did!:l
                                “The only courage you will ever need is the courage to live the life you want"

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