Husband Slept With Au Pair

[XWino]

Husband Slept With Au Pair

I have trazadone, seroquel and remeron for sleep.

[littlepinkcat]

Husband Slept With Au Pair

how about u chat to me about how ur feeling? maybe that will help ease a little of ur pain, and how about getting rid of the wine? just a suggesstion, its up to u

[littlepinkcat]

Husband Slept With Au Pair

i wouldn't be mixing any prescribed medication with alcohol, its ur call though, but could be dangerous

[XWino]

Husband Slept With Au Pair

Yes, LPK. I do need someone to talk too. I don't know how to chat. Let me figure it out. I don't

[littlepinkcat]

Husband Slept With Au Pair

no probs, hope things get a bit easier for you

[Kradle123]

Husband Slept With Au Pair

You are not weak!
Just starting out learning to use the tool to cope with this immense betrayal.

And that tool is MWO!:l:l
everyone's here. It's Saturday. where Else would we be ?

[Kradle123]

Husband Slept With Au Pair

You are not weak :h

You are simply learning to use a tool to cope with this immense betrayal !
and that tool is MWO :l

Everyone's here. It's Saturday.
Where else would we be ?

[greeneyes]

Husband Slept With Au Pair

You don't have to drink more cooking wine, XWino! You can choose to pour it out. He's there so if it's still daylight and safe where you are, take the opportunity to have someone with the kids and go for a brisk walk. It'll do you far more good. You can get through this without alcohol. Alcohol will only make things worse, and that's a fact you already know.

[FlyAway]

Husband Slept With Au Pair

Don't confuse issues here. You've got a few. One being your drinking and one being your cheating husband. In order to get through issue #2 you need your wits about you. You need to figure out what you want to do. And don't take this lightly because it's your children's future you're determining too. Don't give him leverage by being drunk.

This is a time where you need to get mad. Don't think of yourself as a victim, think of yourself as a survivor. How are you going to get through this? How should you proceed?

MWO is a great site for advice about drinking problems. Advice coming from people who have been there and done that. But let me suggest for your marital issues you go to "surviving infidelity dot com." There are tons of stories and suggested readings and advice at that site. And you'll find people who are going through the same thing as you and people who have "been there and done that."

[RingingCedars]

Husband Slept With Au Pair

XXX Wino--drink if you must in this moment. You have many moments before you and they will be critical in determining the outcome. While you cannot determine the outcome (sober or drinking) you will be in more of a position of empowerment if you do not stay drunk. Empowered to self determination. What your "man" ( I use this term loosely, as he is acting like a robot) does, does not reflect on you as a woman and your value. Remember this please. Your best is not conditional on someone else's behaviour. Be strong girl. xo

[XWino]

Husband Slept With Au Pair

I did ask my husband to bring me beer. I do feel horrid now.

[greeneyes]

Husband Slept With Au Pair

Is your husband aware of your drinking problem?

You can change your mind. You tell him you decided you don't want anything to drink and ask him to go put it in his trunk to take with him. Or give it to the neighbors or something. It's never too late to make the right choice.

[RingingCedars]

Husband Slept With Au Pair

XWino;1327974 wrote: I did ask my husband to bring me beer. I do feel horrid now.

If you feel horrid, it's obviously not the right choice. And you have already determined it. Wise gal! I wouldn't give him any ammunition though. Dump it and him.

[XWino]

Husband Slept With Au Pair

My husband was scared to buy me alcohol, but I said he could leave, with the kids if I asked for more. The last hour,I have been talking to him about his principles. He is a strong conservative and very american. I am too. I am trying t o let him see the au pair is using him. Learning too much about their relationship. He will tell it all.

[LibraryGirl]

Husband Slept With Au Pair

Xwino, it sounds as if your husband is deliberately trying to hurt you. Are you asking for details or is he supplying them gleefully? It sure sounds like the latter. I would suggest he take his guilt to his grave and that I want no further details of his weakness. I would further suggest TO HIM that he get himself checked for STD's. Hopefully that will put some humiliation back on him.

I hope that you will get through this and maybe be stronger. I had a cheating husband too, and when I kicked him out, he went on to marry his gf (one of them), and commenced cheating on her to this day (over 15 years). I see now that I had NOTHING to do with his infidelity. The weakness and the desire to be desired by all was in him.

Keep close and don't abuse yourself with AL because of something you cannot control. His deeds will come back to him, one way or another.:l