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    My dog is worried...it's that bad.

    I am here again - new user name because I can never remember anything. I am in the same boat as before except minus a few things like my husband and most of my belongings...oh and my job. Seriously, my dog looks at me like Wtf? I am scared to death now. Quitting at this stage is not going to fix anything.

    I am here to try to get some support for motivation to get my head thinking again in order to get myself out of this! My physical well being is now being compromised...can't even get out of bed. Weak as anything. I have Kudzu, but just started today and have no idea how much to take. Anyone with some insight? TY.
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    #2
    My dog is worried...it's that bad.

    Hi Dogatefrog,

    I'm worried about your comment that "quitting at this stage is not going to fix anything". Hmmm, I have to disagree. By quitting NOW, you just may be able to get out of bed tomorrow. By quitting NOW, your body can start to heal itself. By quitting NOW, you have a hope for a better future. I know it seems hard, impossible even, but you CAN do this. Please stick close and keep posting so we know how you're doing.

    K9
    :heart:I love my daughter more than alcohol:heart:

    Believe in yourself. You are stronger than you think.

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      #3
      My dog is worried...it's that bad.

      Welcome Dog!!
      There should be some dosing instructions on the Kudzu bottle, but I just did a quick search and it looks like 2 tabs (750MG) twice a day. I think there are some dosing instructions for all the supplements in the Tool Box. The link is in my signature line....also notice the link to the Newbie's Nest. This is a great place to go for support. We've got folks in all stages of quitting. There is always someone around to help! Go to the last page for the most current. Those 2 links will go a long way in helping you beat this thing! My health was beginning to suffer, too but it wasn't until my husband left me one night, that I was able to really get serious about quitting. I had tried half heartedly for ages. You can do this! Getting your life back is worth fighting for! I'll look for you over in the nest!! I'm so glad you're here! We can help! Byrdie
      All you gotta do, is get thru this day. AF 1/20/2011
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      Newbie's Nest

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        #4
        My dog is worried...it's that bad.

        Dog,

        Welcome back.

        Your situation sounds pretty desperate, actually. Are there any resources where you live that you could call on?

        If nothing else, give AA a call and they may be able to give you some numbers to call.

        I am not sure about the Kudzu but if you can't get out of bed and can't get food into your system, you really need to get some help.

        You need sustenance, a way to get sober and a safe place to be.

        Keep us informed.

        Cindi
        AF April 9, 2016

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          #5
          My dog is worried...it's that bad.

          Quitting at any stage is going to make things better. It might not bring your husband or your stuff back, but it will give you some self respect and a head clear enough to start making some changes in your life.

          Your health is at risk, you're scared and stuck in bed and you reckon giving up the piss is not going to help any?

          I don't know anything about kudzu, but would rather suggest you get to a Doc who will be able to evaluate your physical and mental health far better than we can here on a m/board. There are supports available, we do NOT need to do this alone, and of course there is a wealth of knowledge and experience right here just for the reading.

          I wish you all the very best.

          kambob
          Remember: A craving will never last as long as a hangover, and you'll never wake up wishing you'd drank the night before. (Thank you K9Lover)

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            #6
            My dog is worried...it's that bad.

            That was a lot and very fast, thank you guys...exactly what I needed to know I am not here alone.

            The NOW thing from k9lover...I do know this to be true, sometimes I guess I need it said out loud. Then I hop I can do it.

            Cinders and Byrd, thank you as well. I read the Kudzu bottle, but was hoping to expedite feeling better...hhhmmm, is that an addict talking? I effing hate this ball and chain. I hope I can get some sleep tonight and feel like I may have made some connections so that I can check in tomorrow morning for similar support. I want to stop and need to do it on my own (American...no ins).

            I was reading a post about panic attacks...was it the chicken or the egg...which one comes first. I am grateful to already have a few people to speak with, yet now am attack is coming on...this was a GOOD step.

            Need to stop to breath and control...be back.

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              #7
              My dog is worried...it's that bad.

              I'm so glad you're here!!
              I found a sticky note in my drawer that I obviously put there when I was struggling.
              S Stop
              O Observe
              B Breathe
              E               Experience
              R               Respond

              I am convinced that most of our anxiety IS CAUSED by the dang ALCOHOL! And we drink it to get rid of it! (schmucks!!!) You will find that in just a couple days, you will feel like a new person!! Hope will return! It is absolutely amazing!
              Know that we have all been where you are right now...and if we can do it, I know you can, too!!!
              Keep your belly full! That is THE best tip I can give you!! It helps more than anything!!!! FULL, FULL!!! EAT!!!
              All you gotta do, is get thru this day. AF 1/20/2011
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                #8
                My dog is worried...it's that bad.

                It must be...alcohol causes the attacks and makes you drink to calm them. I know everyone has been where I am am most even worse...it is pathetic that I want to read the worse stories to maybe keep me out of that situation. Not like I am new to this.

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                  #9
                  My dog is worried...it's that bad.

                  Ahhh... I have been there too Dog... the days on end when I couldn't get out of bed. I know your situation very well. :l I let it run on much longer than I should have and I hope that you won't do the same.

                  When you're that sick it's hard to remember what it's like not to feel that way... but please don't give up hope.

                  I wonder if there is anywhere close to where you live where you can get some free support? I don't have insurance either so I understand what you're up against. If you're too tired to research it and you want some help send me a PM and I'll get on to Google and see if I can find a program in your area.

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                    #10
                    My dog is worried...it's that bad.

                    There are some real doozies on here, I can tell you that.
                    I remember doing that myself. But I used it to justify my drinking....(at least I'm not THAT bad!).
                    As you are looking around the site, there are some good documentaries under the general discussion tab. If you go to New Posts....look to the right for general discussion and up near the top you'll see Rain in my Heart documentaries. There are 10 of them and they are about 10 minutes each, I think. While I wasn't quite THAT bad, I had my name on the team roster....I was heading there. ALK is progressive and unfortunately that doesn't mean backwards. You have the opportunity to stop it in its tracks!
                    It's a mindset, really. You can do whatever you set your mind to! You sound ready to start!!!
                    All you gotta do, is get thru this day. AF 1/20/2011
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                    Newbie's Nest

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                      #11
                      My dog is worried...it's that bad.

                      dogatefrog;1517003 wrote: It must be...alcohol causes the attacks and makes you drink to calm them. I know everyone has been where I am am most even worse...it is pathetic that I want to read the worse stories to maybe keep me out of that situation. Not like I am new to this.
                      Well... trust me... you are not the only one! You're right... most of us have been where you are and perhaps worse. But don't think about that... think about you right now. Baby steps... even getting out of bed to make something to eat is a good start... and we all have to start somewhere.

                      My last go-around left me in bed with a supply of 1.75L bottles of vodka, chugging it without any decorum, ice or glass. So... you're not any worse a person than me... that's for sure!

                      Maybe you can think about eating something? And drinking some water?

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                        #12
                        My dog is worried...it's that bad.

                        My heart is with you. Quitting at any stage is not good, but awesome! And reaching out is extremely brave. It takes a lot. I was so scared!

                        Quitting is possible.....we see it all the time around here. There is no one cure.....people take different routes. Which one is right for you.....is what I felt was frustrating....because I just wanted someone to give me the answer. I got a lot of "answers"....but, I had to find MY solution on my own.

                        You will find so much strength and support here. Hugs to you!

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                          #13
                          My dog is worried...it's that bad.

                          I can feel ur pain :upset: be careful n get Help x
                          Formerly known as Teardrop:l
                          sober dry since 11th Jan '2010' relapse/slip on 23/7/13 working in progress ! Sober date 25/7/13 ( True learning has often followed an eclipse, a time of darkness, but with each cycle of my recovery, the light grows stronger and my vision is clearer. (AA)
                          my desire to avoid hitting bottom again was more powerful then my desire to drink !

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                            #14
                            My dog is worried...it's that bad.

                            :l i forgot to give u a hug x
                            Formerly known as Teardrop:l
                            sober dry since 11th Jan '2010' relapse/slip on 23/7/13 working in progress ! Sober date 25/7/13 ( True learning has often followed an eclipse, a time of darkness, but with each cycle of my recovery, the light grows stronger and my vision is clearer. (AA)
                            my desire to avoid hitting bottom again was more powerful then my desire to drink !

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                              #15
                              My dog is worried...it's that bad.

                              Dog - just read this - sorry I am late! I wish you the best in this struggle. And it is a struggle, but well worth it. Stay close, this place is a lifesaver. You CAN do this. Seriously. ODAT.

                              Waggy
                              February 27th, 2013. A New , Successful Start. :h

                              When everything seems like an uphill struggle, just think of the view from the top!!

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