When we expect others to think, feel,or act in certain ways, We can set ourselves up for disappointment. Our expectations have nothing to do with who other people really are, but rather reflect who we are and what we want.
When others dont live up to our expectations,we often become angry with them,They have disrupted our plans ,disturbed us, and are not doing IT the way we want it done, or quick enough for us.
Expectations close of our ability to let others be themselves and to see them as they are.
If we let go of our expectations and allow others to be themselves, our relationships can grow,there will be no need to control outcomes,We can discover each other as we really are, Free of expectations and judgements, We can be open to pleasant surprises.Others may not be whatever we expect them to be, You never know they maybe even better.
When others dont live up to our expectations,we often become angry with them,They have disrupted our plans ,disturbed us, and are not doing IT the way we want it done, or quick enough for us.
Expectations close of our ability to let others be themselves and to see them as they are.
If we let go of our expectations and allow others to be themselves, our relationships can grow,there will be no need to control outcomes,We can discover each other as we really are, Free of expectations and judgements, We can be open to pleasant surprises.Others may not be whatever we expect them to be, You never know they maybe even better.
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