Congratulations on taking up the challenge to beat the bottle, it's a worthwhile pursuit .
My monicur here is Stollies1 (guess what my poison was :H ) but here in Essendon Australia most people call me Victoria.
I've been with my current partner for 9 years and I work for a big multinational company (office monkey) and I barrack for the Essendon football Club, and I'm a recovering alcoholic.
I've been AF for 13 months now but at the height of my drinking I was downing a bottle of Vodka a night (well..day and night) and if truth be told I think I used to successfully overlap bottles to consume more than a bottle.I drank from the moment I got up to the time I passed out.Not a pretty sight and I think my turning point was the choice I had to make,either to drink myself to death (which I had started at 12 to do) or clean up my act.As you can guess, I chose the later.
I was successful with a 30 day(self imposed)AF regime but took back to the bottle with great gusto almost immediately.I don't want to denigrate, in any way, what you all doing here. I think its wonderful to see everybody, taking the same path, joining together for support but I do think that putting a time limit on it can lead to a great big celebratory piss up at the end cos you want to treat yourself.I know it did for me.
So I think thats my first tip to giving up the piss:
If you want to put a time limit to it..tell yourself you can drink again...in July 2048.
I tried unsuccessfully another time and was about 2 weeks into my last attempt when I found MWO and what a fortuitous thing it was for me.I found here wonderful souls with hearts and minds to keep me on the path.Some have succumb along the way, only to return to face the challenge again..and thats what you must do if you stumble..don't give in to it, get it in a corner and beat it to death.
I gave up without the aid of any drugs or supps and had no problems at all with withdrawal
symptoms.
I didn't really crave a drink but situations I used alcohol to deal with offered a challenge, so I think tip number 2 is:
Know that alcohol doesn't change the problem it just numbs you to it.
Try to distract yourself when you long for a drink.Best is to come on MWO and read and write post's.I recommend it.
I know the biggest obstacle to staying AF is me and I never take my sobriety lightly now I have over a year under my belt. So, to try to steer clear of the booze during the HO HO HO SEASON and of course for you North Americans Thanksgiving coming also...
Tip 1:If you cant convince someone around you that you really don't want a drink, tell them it goes badly with the medication your taking.
Tip 2I'm doing this myself this year)Book a room at the hotel your function is at so if it all gets too much you can retreat to room(but no attacking the mini bar:eeks: )
Tip 3:Like all the others have said, drink heaps of soda water in really large glasses with lots of ice and lemon...lol or find a great AF wine/champers(for Aussies "Edenvale") is a great to have at the table so you can enjoy the toast's.
Tip 4:If you cant face it all...don't! Remember it's about you getting well:h
Tip 5on't dwell on it all too much.You feel even better in the morning without the thumping headache and the churning stomach.
I'm going through it with you too, I have to stay on my toes to stay sober.
I'd like to wish all of you the best of luck.The journey you've taken is fraught with rocks and potholes and I wish you safe passage through them all.
I hope it wasn't too long winded and if any of you have any issues please PM me I'm happy to help.
Thanks Rob for letting me contribute to the INN and thanks to Neil,Flip,About time and RJ for contributing.
Love to you all,
Victoria xxooxx
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