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    #31
    Vegas was a bad deal

    Det,

    I just saw this thread and have nothing profound to say that has not already been said, but I hope you will keep posting cuz we all love you and I know that must have been a really tough environment. As you know, I am going in March, so any pointers or things you could share that you would do differently, you know I would love to hear. I'm glad you are home safe and sound, we missed you around here.

    Allie
    If you do not live the life you believe, you will believe the life you live.

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      #32
      Vegas was a bad deal

      understanding

      I live here DX.

      My story is unbelievable. My life before moving her is unbeliveably the antithisis of this soul robbing hell hole.

      Take the shower of your life and then wiggle your toes because "it was only a movie".

      Blessings,
      K
      :notes:Theme2be

      " Do not lose courage in considering your own imperfections but instantly set about remedying them~everyday begin the task anew".-Saint Francis de Sales

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        #33
        Vegas was a bad deal

        How are you today, Det? :l

        Chin up, best foot forward and do what you know is right!



        Suze x
        Just hand me the chocolate and.........I'll consider my position. My solicitor has advised me to say no more than that.

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          #34
          Vegas was a bad deal

          Deter~

          I hope you are feeling a bit better today. Just wanted you to know I was thinking of you. Take cre of yoru self and DX.. She loves you so much - you will work this out. This time - maybe a different plan??

          xoixoxox

          MM
          Face your deficiencies and acknowledge them, but do not let them master you. Let them teach you patience, sweetness, insight.

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            #35
            Vegas was a bad deal

            Just seeing this Det....like everyone has said...stand up, dust the dirt off, and jump back on that wagon. It will be OK!!!!! I slipped after MONTHS AF and I was really sick as well. You can do this...you can!

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              #36
              Vegas was a bad deal

              Only just seen this Det!

              Been away - busy.

              Sorry to hear you blew it Det - But - sh*t happens - Good news is you are back here and you now know for future reference

              Vegas = Not good plan!

              We are always here for you.

              Take care

              Satori

              (Hugs to Dx too!)
              "Though there are many paths at the foot of the mountain - all those who reach the top see the same moon - as any fule kno"

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                #37
                Vegas was a bad deal

                thank you all again. got to the doc last night but sadly they messed up my prescription so I'm without librium until tonight. thankfully I have a high pain tolerance but really this is taxing me to the limit. I finally ate something this am and I'm hoping to get some more sleep if possible. sorry to sound like a cry baby. really do appreciate you all a ton.
                take care,
                D
                nosce te ipsum
                (Know Thyself)

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                  #38
                  Vegas was a bad deal

                  Pressed... ride roller coasters. There are a lot there. And catch a Cirque du sole show. Get tickets now for that.
                  sigpic
                  Thoughts become things..... choose the good ones. ~TUT

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                    #39
                    Vegas was a bad deal

                    deter,we are after progress not perfection, come back you did only slipped but not fallen down, we are here,

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                      #40
                      Vegas was a bad deal

                      You are not a cry baby. I have been trying to convince myself all day that maybe I could try mods, KNOWING damn good and well, I would fail if I even try it. I will not drink, but sometimes you get tired of fighting your own mind. Just know you will feel better soon. AND we are all here for you.

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                        #41
                        Vegas was a bad deal

                        Det, you are not a cry baby, I know you are hurting so badly, too bad you didn't get the right Rx, I know you won't soon forget how awful you feel, its a huge motivation not to put yourself in the situation again...I always say, we learn other lessons so much faster, like if you hit your thumb with a hammer, it really hurts, so you try so hard not to hit your thumb the next time you use it....you'd think we'd "get it"....I've said that over and over! I think I've "got it" this time tho...I'm sure when you get some rest, and start to feel better, you'll realize that we don't "deserve" to have a drink or two, or more, cuz we've "done so much better"...it always ends up with us in the ditch, shaking and feeling like crap!!!! We deserve much better!!!!!!
                        "Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending"

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                          #42
                          Vegas was a bad deal

                          Det, I am so sorry I just saw this. You are family and we are here for you and I know Dx is a pretty fantastic woman too. Hope you feel better soon.
                          "Keep your eyes and heart focused on the end goal at all times, and never settle for less."

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                            #43
                            Vegas was a bad deal

                            Dx, Hope you are better as well my friend.
                            I know you have refocused now that you're back.
                            Slips happen for most of us, unfortuately.
                            You are an amazing person who inspires me as well.

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                              #44
                              Vegas was a bad deal

                              Hey Det, hope you're feeling better today.
                              YOu are drinking tons of water right? And eat as much fresh raw fruits and veggies as you can to help detox your system. Hot baths and deep breathing too.

                              By the way - you said above you are a "poor example"? Not at all. In your humanness (and thus your err) and sharing honestly and openly with us, you help to give us further motivation and reminders of how beastly is this monster and of how vigilant we must always be to reach and maintain freedom.

                              Love you, be well friend.
                              FINALLY -- I'm a non-drinker!!

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                                #45
                                Vegas was a bad deal

                                Were you an oldest child, Deter?? I was, and I always feel like I have to set a good example too. It has gotten me in a lot of trouble because it has made it hard for me to ask for/accept help when I need it.

                                We all love you and Dx. You'll be okay soon.


                                :l :l
                                AF as of August 5th, 2012

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