I just read yesterday's thread all the way through...a lot of great stuff there.
During my drinking days, much of the time I was either inebriated to some degree or hungover. That made spontaneity very difficult. Yesterday, I did a pretty big, time-consuming favor for my husband (who's still sick w/the flu) on the spur of the moment. I enjoyed doing it, & it was much appreciated. There's no way I could have dropped everything & done this if I was in the throes of drinking or recovering from drinking. It was something that required stamina & focus. I did not have to make plans to accomodate my drinking/hangover:
-Can I do this in my condition?
-Can I drive there & back?
Those were the questions I had to ask myself before I did something when I was drinking. I guess I've gotten a degree of freedom back that I didn't know I had lost.
I hope all is well w/everyone here. We're all in different places, but it seems we're working toward the same goal. Take care. Mary
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