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    Hi Everyone:

    There's a concept in 12 step programs of doing "the next right thing." Obviously, for me, the next right thing is NEVER to drink. In order to keep myself sober ODAT, I've been thinking about the next right thing from minute to minute. I find that it keeps me grounded in the moment. So, just a few of my "next right things:"
    -Biting my tongue on the impatient response.
    -Letting someone into traffic.
    -Telling the truth.
    -NEVER TAKING THE DRINK.

    Do you have a next right thing?

    Mary
    Wisdom, Courage, Strength
    October 3, 2012

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    The Next Right Thing

    retteacher;462744 wrote: Hi Everyone:

    There's a concept in 12 step programs of doing "the next right thing." Obviously, for me, the next right thing is NEVER to drink. In order to keep myself sober ODAT, I've been thinking about the next right thing from minute to minute. I find that it keeps me grounded in the moment. So, just a few of my "next right things:"
    -Biting my tongue on the impatient response.
    -Letting someone into traffic.
    -Telling the truth.
    -NEVER TAKING THE DRINK.

    Do you have a next right thing?

    Mary
    Good post, good idea, Mary! Here are a few of mine (along with telling myself: I Don't Drink):
    • Slow down.
    • Notice what's going on with my body (physical sensations).Notice what's going on in my mind (what am I telling myself?)Look at the sky.

    wip

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      #3
      The Next Right Thing

      (along with telling myself: I Don't Drink)

      I really like this wip, it calms the internal struggle. Thanks.
      You, as much as anyone in the universe, deserve your love and respect. ~ Buddha

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        Cool thread Mary
        The next right things for me:
        Do Not Drink
        Pray every day
        Be kind to others
        Be the best Nurse that I can be.
        I guess I could to on and on.lol, but I won't.
        "Decide-Which Voice in Your Head you Can Keep Alive" (Shinedown)

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          #5
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          Avoid al at all costs, for me that is the only right thing.
          Was an alcoholic yesterday, an alcoholic today and will still be an alcoholic tomorrow..... but I'm in charge now!

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            #6
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            The next right thing:
            -Staying away from AL.
            -Flossing my teeth.
            -Being there for the g-kids.
            -Reading uplifting stuff.

            Mary
            Wisdom, Courage, Strength
            October 3, 2012

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              #7
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              I love it, Mary, flossing my teeth is the first thing to goes when I drink
              Was an alcoholic yesterday, an alcoholic today and will still be an alcoholic tomorrow..... but I'm in charge now!

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                Me too. I've even gone to sleep w/makeup on & awakened the next morning w/my eyes glued shut. Yuk!
                Wisdom, Courage, Strength
                October 3, 2012

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                  #9
                  The Next Right Thing

                  Interesting thread, hmmm the next right thing...

                  pay more attention to my son
                  spend less time in front of the tv
                  exercise
                  plan fun activities

                  :l AK
                  :flower: I'm not as good as I'm gonna get, but I'm better than I used to be.

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