Hello all! The Tuesday meeting I go to is going through the book Living Sober. This is the meeting where I may have been a bit outspoken with my "sugar" opinions last week. Today we read the chapter about using the phone to reach out to a person rather than for a drink. And of course the importance of being willing and available to take calls from other members who are reaching out in need.
Of course that topic made me think about the additional options we have in this day and age of e-mail, discussion forums that often include "live chat" options, cell phones with text messaging, etc. I decided to wait and ask my sponsor what the general feeling is on all that rather than ask about it in the meeting - since the meetings really aren't a Q&A format anyway. A couple of the girls from the Junior College were there again today, and I was curious what they think - they've totally grown up in the computer age.
Regardless of what the group opinion might be (and I'm guessing in that crowd there is a wide variety of opinion!) I'm pretty sure I would not be sober right now without being active on MWO and Smart. I guess the bottom line thing for me is that sometimes the AA folks seem to be a little bit myopic and not willing to entertain any new ideas. There was a time when I would have thought that is TOTALLY wrong. But I am beginning to understand why the AA program was laid out in a specific way, not to be modified. But I do think a few updates might be appropriate.
Anyway, I realized through this topic today that I really avoid long "girl talk" type phone conversations since I quit drinking. It's a trigger. I used to get on the phone with my gal pals and drink it up. I haven't chosen to "practice" that one yet to develop new habits. I'm not sure that spending hours on the phone will ever be appealing anyway now that I'm sober. I think many of those long conversations got pretty repetitive.
I'm still enjoying the meetings. I always learn something new or at least walk away with good food for thought. I also think there is immense value for me right now in being reminded every day by the "old timers" that AL won't magically go away completely. I need to have my guard up all the time.
So Mary, what was your recent meeting like? Anyone else?
I started writing in my journal today. My inclination is to type it, and I probably should start cutting/pasting some posts and e-mails into a word doc or something to supplement my journal. But it IS nice to have a spiral notebook right in my purse and be able to write stuff down any time, any place. I'm glad my sponsor suggested that.
Mary, I'm just getting started on the Big Book reading so will try to relax and now sweat Step 3.
DG
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