Habits: Making and Breaking
Mohun. Thanks for the sleep article. Waking up during that second disturbed period; that was me every single night to a T. Helps to reinforce the determination to stay sober.
WIP, Tom. the other thing I am learning is how important 'habits' are. Someone on another thread talked about how the brain loves to follow its deeply rutted pathway when choosing how to behave. I've started to notice how I can break habits and make new ones. It really is possible to do and I never really realised before. Having ditched my biggest habit, some of the others are not such a struggle.
For me, simple things like clearing away the breakfast things or making the beds. I hate doing those things in the morning! But the more I do them, almost forcing myself at the beginning, the easier they get!
On the breaking habits side, another one I struggled with was speaking to my best friend on the phone in the evening. Sound a weird one but I had a compulsion to do it and felt strung out if i didn't. Bad habit because we carry out these conversations while necking back the wine in large quantities. I wanted to stop these phone calls because they were obviously not helpful in my early sobriety. I struggled at the beginning but all of a sudden the habit is broken and it's easy! The brain has backed off!
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