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    AF Daily - Tuesday March 24, 2009

    Good morning and happy Tuesday to one and all!

    A few thoughts from catch up on yesterday's thread.....

    LVT, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your dog. I have no words...losing them is so very difficult. :upset: Sending healing thoughts to you and your family.

    Greenie, those "I'll show YOU" thoughts are really scary. I've had those a couple of times and that's the closest I feel I've been to actually drinking. In a recent AA meeting, it was put forth that resentment is the #1 reason for relapse. I immediately thought of those "I'll show YOU thoughts" and I think resentment is the basis for that thinking. Not sure that little piece of wisdom will stop my thinking like that, but at least I will be aware - VERY aware of the dangerous nature of those thoughts. ( and change the channel QUICK while they are still just thoughts as the WIPPER would say..)

    AFM - we wanna hear more about that ever so hot date. At least we hope it was hot hot hot.

    Mo if you like the feeling of taking down trees, all I can say is that I wish you lived closer to us! It is storming this morning and the wind is blowing hard. So many of our trees are old and also being damaged by carpenter ants. So tree clean up is unfortunately all too common here.

    Cindi I'm sorry to hear you are back on the road. That road warrier business got really REALLY old for me too back in the day. I hope there is a new job in your future once this economy straightens out again.

    Narilly, thank you for that sober vacations link.

    Hello to all others - Sausage, Detergarlicman, Marshy, TG, Sausage, Mary and anyone I missed!

    The doc appointment was not what I expected at all. My doctor encouraged me to schedule a phone consultation with Dr. Sherry Rogers. If you google that name you will find that she has written a number of books and seems to be well known for her alternative views on medical conditions / treatments despite being a classically trained MD. (like my own doctor in that regard, just far more experienced). My doctor's concern is about finding what is "out of whack" in my body that caused the tumor in the first place. She has come to believe that no disease is just random. Our bodies are truly amazing instruments, and when they are in healthy working order they keep themselves fixed. So her point is that the surgeons will still be there tomorrow - she is encouraging me to search for a root cause. (everything I have read about parathyroid tumors is that nobody knows the cause)

    I called Dr. Roger's office and got information. There are some tests she likes to have people take first, then you send those results along with your medical history to her office. Then you set up a consultation and you own doctor is welcome to join, which of course is how I would want to do this. It's expensive. But I'm thinking I'm worth it. At 51 I am "ripe" for the medical establishment in the US to start shoving pill after pill my way which if my Dad is any example, can send a person downhill fast. So if I want to really see what the "alternative" world has to offer, this woman sounds like a good place to start, especially since I have a supportive local MD on my team. I'm glad we started Health Savings Accounts several years ago. At least there is some $$ set aside that can be used for this. They also recommended that people read one of Dr. Rogers' books - "Detoxify of Die" prior to the consult so I've ordered that. They also recommended reading any macrobiotic diet books by Kushi. He and his wife seem to be well known in that arena - there are lots of books. I ordered a couple from Amazon.

    There is so much toxicity in our modern environment you just can't get away from it. I guess they are finding high levels of toxicity these days in the breast milk of Eskimo women who seem on the surface to be far far away from the urban world. It's everywhere. I'm looking forward to finding out more about what Dr. Rogers has to say about detoxifying.

    My diet is destined to get less "fun" (at least that's my perception now) and my pocket is destined to get more empty. I hope I end up healthier when all is said and done. I will say this much - I felt SO horrible when I first quit drinking and have come so far in feeling better that I have NO interest in taking any back slides health wise. I guess that's the main reason why I'm keeping an open mind and wallet about all this. If anyone has any thoughts, experience, information that is useful on these topics I am all eyes. (the ears of the internet)

    Mean time - business took a turn for the crazy and Mr. D and I will be going on the radio today (unexpectedly) and we also just signed up for a telemarketing program to drive more business, which will take time for us to plan and manage. All during figure skating world championship week. I can't catch a break!! (LOL...I think)

    Have a great day everyone...

    DG
    Sobriety Date = 5/22/08
    Nicotine Free Date = 2/27/07


    One day at a time.

    #2
    AF Daily - Tuesday March 24, 2009

    Morning DG and everyone else to follow

    Gosh that Dr's appt sounds absolutely like nothing that would happen here in UK! Are you still going to be booked for surgery in the near future despite all these other investigations. Hope the radio broadcast goes well.

    Hello to everyone still to come, it's sunny but cooler here, My son has finally been moved to the same swimming class as my daughter so that's only one Tues trip up there now. I'm actually on day 142 I noticed in my diary (not that i'm actually counting.) i'm just focusing on that 6 month anniversary now on May 3rd.

    I'll be back later - have a good day everyone

    Sausage

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      #3
      AF Daily - Tuesday March 24, 2009

      I have only a quick minute to share. DG: I'm continuing my novena to St. Jude. Good luck w/everything. I'll be back, Mary
      Wisdom, Courage, Strength
      October 3, 2012

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        #4
        AF Daily - Tuesday March 24, 2009

        hi dog lady,i havent kept up on your health issues i try to stick o your original thread,my daughters been goin thro the same ,i think as you,but shes only 27,at one time she was what some refer as toxic as hell,over weight ,by a hundred pounds,now close to hundred pounds later,she has nothing but trouble, she was over the other day,and said she just dont get it,when she was big she could do and eat anything,now she says its the total opposite,i do wish you well,but even when a doc is good,doesnt make them rite, gyco

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          #5
          AF Daily - Tuesday March 24, 2009

          sorry thot id add the thread was my early AA thots hehehhe always love hereing from you

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            #6
            AF Daily - Tuesday March 24, 2009

            DG: Don't foget: "East Does It." Make yourself priority #1. Mary
            Wisdom, Courage, Strength
            October 3, 2012

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              #7
              AF Daily - Tuesday March 24, 2009

              ABBERS!!!

              DG, I was having trouble with the feeling identification. Resentment is it. Hummm... I'll have to give that some thinking.

              I'm amazed at how this thyroid situation is unfolding. Fascinating. Thanks for sharing. I intend to look into the info you gave.

              Hi sausage mary & gyco & all to come.

              Off to the hole. I'll leave early to admire my mown lawn on the way out :H
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                #8
                AF Daily - Tuesday March 24, 2009

                Good morning friends!

                Thank you so much for the sympathetic responses for Bear. We are all going to really miss that dog. He wasn't good for anything except making you feel good inside! I REALLY wish I would have taken better care of him.
                I wanted to discuss with DH about taking the boys to the humane society this week to see what kind of dogs they had, but the conversation turned into "I just want a dog that can hunt and isn't gun shy, and does more than just eat!" I could have handled it better, I could have handled it worse too. Of course we dropped the subject, and now we'll be dogless for a long time because I know he's not going to actually go out and get himself a hunting dog. It's a nice thought, but he doesn't have the time or the patience to train one--the kids and I would end up "ruining" it. I think I will encourage him to get what he wants, hopefully it will be a breed I'm not fond of, so I won't get too attached, and he won't bitch about it because it is "his".

                Ok, I'm done ranting about that.

                We went from 80 degrees Sunday to a major blizzard yesterday--the wind is still howling today. A good time to work on taxes and maybe get some winter projects done since it is spring.

                DG--very interesting doctor visit. I'd agree we live in a toxic world. We have been spoiled by convenience food and drinks. It would be very hard for me to completely detox, if not impossible. Like yesterday--I just had to have a few Cheetos. No diet pop for 4 weeks though! Please keep us informed on what you learn!

                Have a good day all! :h
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                NF since June 1, 2008
                AF since September 28, 2008
                DrunkFree since June 1, 2008
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                :wings: In memory of MDbiker aka Bear.
                5/4/2010 In loving memory of MaryAnne. I pray you've found peace my friend.
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                The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.ray:

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                  #9
                  AF Daily - Tuesday March 24, 2009

                  LVT, estranged one's idea of having a pet was for him to pet it when he felt like it. Period. Come to think of it, he may have felt like that about me too. :H
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                    #10
                    AF Daily - Tuesday March 24, 2009

                    Good morning!

                    DG, I hope that everything works out for you. Talk about a process!

                    Last night the little one and I baked 'child friendly' brownies. :H (of course I wouldn't have baked any other kind!) You should have seen her face after licking the bowl! Holy Carumba!

                    Umm... my date on Saturday was 'OK'. Not that hot LOL. I don't know what it is about me. Once I see someone for a few weeks; I lose interest. I am beginning to think I am a frigid beyotch! It has been so long in that department if you get my drift. I guess I am not ready to take that step yet. He seemed disappointed; but oh well. We will see if he calls me again. hahaha He is a great guy, super good looking and sweet, but I guess I have a few hangups now that I am sober.

                    Well, I must get ready early today. The little one has gymnastics first thing with her preschool and we don't want to be late. I also need another coffee.

                    Have a good day everyone!

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                      #11
                      AF Daily - Tuesday March 24, 2009

                      AFM, I love the way you are sounding these days! :l
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                        #12
                        AF Daily - Tuesday March 24, 2009

                        Thank you! I am feeling pretty good, WAY more energetic and even tempered with sobriety. Getting through the rough patches (the thoughts of drinking) are certainly worth it.

                        I have to say everyone on this thread is really doing well! I look forward to reading it every morning. You all inspire me.

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                          #13
                          AF Daily - Tuesday March 24, 2009

                          I just want to say, I think of you ALL--and I'm so proud of you ALL. :l :h
                          _______________
                          NF since June 1, 2008
                          AF since September 28, 2008
                          DrunkFree since June 1, 2008
                          _____________
                          :wings: In memory of MDbiker aka Bear.
                          5/4/2010 In loving memory of MaryAnne. I pray you've found peace my friend.
                          _______________
                          The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.ray:

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                            #14
                            AF Daily - Tuesday March 24, 2009

                            Good morning, all you beautiful people. Some days I wake up and just amazed all over again how wonderful it is to wake from sober sleep to an AL free life!
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                            awprint: RUBY Imagine yourself doing What you love and loving What you do, Being happy From the inside Out, experiencing your Dreams wide awake, Being creative, being Unique, being you - changing things to the way YOU know they can BE - Living the Life you Always imagined.awprint:

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                              #15
                              AF Daily - Tuesday March 24, 2009

                              Good morning all. Another hangover free day here on the left coast.

                              I'll check back later.

                              Mo.

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