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    AF Daily - Thursday April 9, 2009

    Good morning Absters!

    Wow yesterdays thread had so much great info it's hard to know where to start!

    Congratulations to our newly AF folks Rudemama, Sante, Barola, MM and anyone else I might have missed. YOU CAN DO THIS. If you make sobriety your #1 priority, everything else in your life will either improve or at minimum get eaiser to manage. Sante I want to go sailing with you! MM - where are those date details! Also, how is it going with the pervert of a teacher??

    Sheep it's good to see you come out of lurkdom and hello to anyone else lurking along with us! Sheep I appreciate you posting because I think it validates what we suspected - our words matter to all of us, but also beyond those who participate actively on the AF Daily threads. July and Chief, it is wonderful to see you both as well as any & all who are in that bit longer range of AF life. I sure like knowing what challenges as well as benefits lie ahead of me on the path. Chief I'm sorry to hear about the family health issues that continue. That is no fun. This is not a comment directed to you specifically - more just a general comment because I've been there too and I think many of us have. Why is that we ponder SO heavily the idea of going to an AA meeting just to check it out? (I did this for years - way before MWO even) If I were contemplating a new restaurant, and trying it out to see if I liked it, I wouldn't put a fraction of the energy into the decision to "try it" that I did before "trying" AA. It's just a meeting and nobody bites. I suspect AL was at work in my subconscious feeling QUITE threatened by the notion of what AA means to the future possibility of me drinking again. Oh our addicted minds. And to stay with the restaurant theme, finding the right AA meeting is sort of like finding a good steak. Lots of restaurants serve steak, but you might have to try a few different ones to find the steak you like the best.

    R2C - If your husband is turning up bloody (injured) is it possible it might be time for rehab? I do think there comes a point where professional help is a good idea.

    Cindi if you HAD to break your arm at least you did it having fun with G-kids! You are a trooper posting some with one hand! Hello to Greenie and AFM and Marshy and Mary and Narilly and LVT and peacenik and Dill and Deter and anyone else I missed from yesterday!

    I'm still plugging away reading Detoxify or Die. Tomorrow morning is when I give all my samples to see just how toxic I am. What an adventure.

    Mean time, I'm off in search of Greenie's Butternut Squash Soup recipe! Better make that before soup weather is totally done for the summer!

    Have a great AF day all.

    DG
    Sobriety Date = 5/22/08
    Nicotine Free Date = 2/27/07


    One day at a time.

    #2
    AF Daily - Thursday April 9, 2009

    DG: What a lovely start to today's thread! Yes, lurkers, please feel free to share. It doesn't have to be words of wisdom...just let us know you're there & where you are in your recovery. Your sharing helps all of us.

    I too thought about AA long before I went. I think subconsciously I used MWO as a substitute. As wonderful as MWO is, it isn't a substitute for real human contact. I hope that doesn't offend anyone, because MWO is what kick-started my recovery & got me out of denial. However, I had to really look at my relapses & ask myself "why?". I really think that face-to-face contact upped the ante on my recovery. I still get the jitters walking in. I don't think I will a year from now, but I'm just trying to let myself feel my feelings.

    Yesterday, I had a relaxing day away from the g-kids. It's hard for me to do that, because I tend to be an activity junkie. It's amazing how transferrable my addiction is. But, I did some of my recovery reading & went out to lunch w/hubbie. Nice.

    I've got the younger g-son today. We'll be meeting up w/another g-ma & kids...we always have fun.

    Mary
    Wisdom, Courage, Strength
    October 3, 2012

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      #3
      AF Daily - Thursday April 9, 2009

      Happy Thursday everyone!

      Thanks for the advice DG. I have, once again, made my threat. He apologized, again, and I told him if he ever touched alcohol again, he was out of here. But I'm sure he took that with a grain of salt, as this is a replay of thousands of times before.

      Somehow, I don't feel fair to judge him or make threats to him until I get some actual sobriety beneath my belt. Sometimes I look at him and see the things I dislike most in myself, mainly my drinking/thinking problem. I don't know what the answer is with my marriage (or do I?) but I only know in my heart that I have to "fix" myself before I can ever have the strenght to do whatever needs to be done in my marriage.

      Everyone have a wonderful day.

      R2C
      Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall. --Confucius
      :h

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        #4
        AF Daily - Thursday April 9, 2009

        Good morning, friends!

        I got home kinda late last night,but managed to catch up on yesterday's thread. What a good one! A special treat to hear from Chief! I also appreciate the positive feed back from the newer members--it's nice to know our encouragement and experiences might actually help someone!!

        Cindi--I'm so sorry about your broken arm! What else can I say--I hope you heal quickly!:l

        I finally got the results back from my spit and blood spot test. Nothing severely out of whack--some mild highs and lows. I'm thinking now, I should have probably aborted the spit test when my dog crisis arose. That probably skewed my cortisol levels as they were high at night, when they should be low. I need to call the compounding pharmacist and see what the plan is. From what the lab doctors wrote, I'm guessing he'll want to try progesterone and DHEA. The test showed an issue with the cortisol and they call it Adrenal Fatigue. I worry a little about that because of my sister's Cushings disease.
        Anyway, I'll post a little more about it, or pm anyone interested after I talk to him.

        I really need to kick it in the butt and get ready for my company. I have work to do this morning, and then the kids get out for Easter break. Church stuff going on........and I'm babysitting Buffy the bouncy puppy again!

        So, I better get busy, huh? Have a good one all! :h
        _______________
        NF since June 1, 2008
        AF since September 28, 2008
        DrunkFree since June 1, 2008
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        :wings: In memory of MDbiker aka Bear.
        5/4/2010 In loving memory of MaryAnne. I pray you've found peace my friend.
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        The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.ray:

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          #5
          AF Daily - Thursday April 9, 2009

          Good morning!

          OK, I have this big zit on my neck that is giving me the look of having an adams apple. I am going tranny today, I guess. I never get zits! Maybe it is a bite? Anyway, I can't stop picking it.... hahahaha.

          Last night we made TONS of extra gooey rice krispie squares for the little one's Easter party at school today. I used coloured marshmallows and didn't melt them down all the way. Then we used an egg shaped cookie cutter.... they look damn good!

          It is raining here today but that is just fine with me. We had a wonderful sunny, warm streak so to keep things green - I must allow the God's to let it rain.

          Well I am off to have coffee numeral deux. Have a great day everyone!

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            #6
            AF Daily - Thursday April 9, 2009

            morning all...

            sounds like everyone is doing well so far! i can't wait to be a grandma, but i guess i'll have to as my oldest is only almost 11!

            i told my husband that i drank at the wedding i went to (i posted about it in yesterday's thread), obviously he was worried because past behavior tends to predict future behaviour and in the past i would have drank myself silly at the wedding and continued that behaviour for years...but this time i feel different about it. i had 3 drinks in about 7 hours, didn't ever get drunk, and don't feel like i am going to drink again. in fact i am upset that i did drink at all. sobriety must remain my number one focus, i can't be fooled into having a few at weddings even.
            i wish i could find a local aa meeting, but there are only 2 a week in a town 50 miles away. i wonder how one goes about starting meetings...

            anyway, have a nice day, i hope spring is showing itself around you all as we are supposed to get snow again today...UGH!!!

            peace

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              #7
              AF Daily - Thursday April 9, 2009

              peacenik: It's too bad you don't have a local AA meeting. There might be a place to ask about starting a meeting at the AA website (Alcoholics Anonymous :).

              R2C: I was in Alanon for many years, because I was living w/active alcoholism (son). It helped tremendously, & on his own, he has finally begun to get the help he has needed for all these years.

              Mary
              Wisdom, Courage, Strength
              October 3, 2012

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                #8
                AF Daily - Thursday April 9, 2009

                Hi Everyone, I am one of those who is always lurking and trying to learn as much as possible. AND I HAVE! I just wanted to say thanks to everyone who contributes on this thread and keeping up the good fight i a civil way.

                I have been around these boards for quite a long time on my own awkward journey. I am too shy to really share too much of myself and I struggle with that. Let's just say, I have quit and started many times. I am not a huge drinker, but anytime I wake up with a hangover, I know I have gone too far, and it doesn't take much for me as I am not that big. I really want to quit for good and have been trying to learn as much as possible. I must say by trial and error; but with much observation.

                Anyway, thanks and keep up the good fight.

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                  #9
                  AF Daily - Thursday April 9, 2009

                  Hi free bird! Welcome, and were glad you are getting good stuff from this thread. There are some wonderful folks here that have lots to share. And when your ready, feel free to contribute. I tend to be mostly a lurker myself. I have also stopped and started many times. But I am soooo much better than when I first came here. Please keep reading, and together we can do this!

                  R2C
                  Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall. --Confucius
                  :h

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                    #10
                    AF Daily - Thursday April 9, 2009

                    Hello all, I apologies for my late posting but I have developed another alarming addiction. Tetris. Thats right, I am addicted to the world most basic of all video games. I think I may have been playing it for 3 hours straight - horrific I know. Anyway;

                    DG; it hasn't been soup weather round here for quite a while, but I'm pretty sure we're over-due some April showers xD hope both your kitchen and your 'toxic' adevntures turn out well.

                    Mary: I hope you have a lovely day with the g/kids, and I'm glad to hear your son is getting the help he needs

                    R2C; I'm so sorry to hear about your continuing problems with your other half, I hope that in being AF you'll eventually find the strength to do whatever needs to be done, and that maybe your husband will see your example as a positive thing and be inspired to change too. I wish you the best of luck, I truly hope you find a way to work things out in your relationship.

                    LVT: Sounds like you're going to tire yourself out with all that going on! hope all goes well when you call the pharamcist

                    free bird: lovely to hear from another lurker keep doing what you feel comfortable with, read all you can, and respond when you feel like it, I wish you all the best in your personal goal
                    The way I change the past is by not repeating it
                    -James Hetfield, Metallica

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                      #11
                      AF Daily - Thursday April 9, 2009

                      Happy Thursday ABroooooooos!

                      had a rush-start to the work day and this is my first chance to take a breather. whew!

                      had a great time with Morrison last night, we had a fun dinner and chatted and the time flew by

                      second night in Vegas tonight then home to my own bed tomorrow....always a nice thing.

                      Ready2change I was struck with the stunning honesty and clarity of your statement:

                      Sometimes I look at him and see the things I dislike most in myself, mainly my drinking/thinking problem. I don't know what the answer is with my marriage (or do I?) but I only know in my heart that I have to "fix" myself before I can ever have the strenght to do whatever needs to be done in my marriage.

                      to have that kind of clarity of thought is quite an accomplishment....well done.

                      Freebird wonderful to have you here in the AF playground

                      I'm so very grateful to be sober and healthy. every day is a glorious prize to me now.

                      be well my wonderful friends
                      nosce te ipsum
                      (Know Thyself)

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                        #12
                        AF Daily - Thursday April 9, 2009

                        ps...DoggyGirl the restaurant analogy is absolutely perfect! crazy eh?
                        nosce te ipsum
                        (Know Thyself)

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                          #13
                          AF Daily - Thursday April 9, 2009

                          Hi all!

                          Just a quick hello. Hectic day at work and about to leave for a volunteer meeting I lead. Not as prepared as I would like to be and trying to have a positive attitude after a draining day.

                          Would normallIy have 1 lite beer and then bring one for after the meeting -- it's casual and people show up with beer. I haven't done this in a while and will remain AF tonight too. Better go take my Kudzu for reassurance.

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                            #14
                            AF Daily - Thursday April 9, 2009

                            Hello Abbers. I'm coming to the end of another AF day and can totally relate to you, ThatGirl. I have developed a substitute addiction: sudoku. When that's finished I start a crossword!

                            Thanks to everyone that contributes to this thread!
                            Dill

                            Dont forget, you can: start late, start over, be unsure, try and fail AND STILL SUCCEED!

                            If it is important to you, you will find a way. If not, you will find an excuse.

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