I broke up with my long time (8ish years) boyfriend a week couple weeks ago. It was one of the hardest things I have ever done. It's been a tough time lately
but...a month and a half ago I got an email from this man I have always had intense crazy feelings for, but our timing was never ever right. I played it very cool
with him, couldn't let him know how I felt. He came to help with the move..offered..how could I refuse?? As soon as our eyes met, omg, I was 'toast'. It has been
incredible since. This man, in the short time we've been together has spoiled me absolutely insanely. We've known eachother for 9 yrs.
I should tell you that my boyfriend and I got together under the not so best of situations. He was abusive...verbally, and until 2004 physically, when I was the
recipient of a black eye. He never touched me again that way...seeing his abuse for a couple months straightened him out...yes, I know, I should have left, but..
ughhh...thought I loved him. Am sure in a strange twisted way I did. No wonder I drank.
So...anyways, to get back to the title of my post do I or don't I...it means do I come back to MWO and admit I have gone to lunch and had a beer? Do I admit
I had a couple last night with this man I love, and that was all I wanted. I told him of my abstinence of 10 weeks...that I felt wonderful..amazing. That
although I had a few, I will stop again.
I feel sick about all the bravado speak I had been doing...then coming to admit I broke. Each time I read posts of someone who wasn't drinking, then broke,
it crushed me. But, reality is reality. Now I am there. I am not crying for help...just admitting. There are so many of you on here I adore...you don't even know who
you are. I just follow your posts...respond, and although I only 'know' you in the 'cyber' world, consider you friends.
Now where do I go from here. I'm with THE love of my life...he's made it clear to me he has always loved me, but had no idea how much until we were together. That
he's always had me in his mind/thoughts over the years, but he knew also the timing wasn't right. We're just running with it...embracing it..loving each other. And, this
man is simply amazing with my children.
Just wanted to update you...haven't been here for a bit...just got internet hooked up. Was on briefly at a friends the other night to respond to a post I read. I guess
I don't really know what it is I am asking..I miss you guys, and the banter.
Thoughts?
And yes I remember my post of expecting a verbal ass kicking if..
DLA :h:l:h
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