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    September Serenity - week 4

    Happy hump day. I cannot believe how fast the week is moving along.

    RB, I was just reading on the holistic health site about mood related to drinking and hypoglycemia. The foods we consume affect our mood. It is so true. If you get a chance, look up the threads, they are really informative. Your efforts to give up sugar are right on track with helping to stabilize your mood, get rid of the blues. It has a biological origin, which to me is so interesting. Yesterday they had a free lunch at work, basically junk, I indulged and felt physically and mentally crappy. Also, drained. So, today, limited portions and mostly veggies and proteins with lots of water.

    Chill, I love your description of Portugal compared to UK. Quality of life is so important. To me, being close enough to my family to visit pretty regularly is life itself. Relationships. We all have different needs and knowing what we want and being able to name it is the first step in obtaining it. I understand wanting to be in a warm climate during the winter. I dread the snow and cold here in the Midwest, but it makes spring, summer and fall so precious to me. I wish I could affort to go on a trip to a warm climate in February.....we'll have to see.

    PA, so healthy that you can voice your frustration over being housebound. I had a surgery in the past and made it through with lots of support, like you.

    Rusty, what a thing to happen (I know I sound like an old mother hen). I appreciate your attitude, and tend to believe his story. I mean, to make up something that horrible would show a real lack of character and you would not want to be involved with someone who would go to that length. Being a confirmed bachelorette is cool, I have always been attached and like it, but do not feel that marriage is the be all, end all. To be yourself and find contentment in that, to have meaningful work, family relationships, good friends, all add up to a successful life. I lacked a career and education for a long time, and worked years to obtain those degrees and work experience in my life. Again, we are all on a journey and it is life.

    Looks like I am in a philisophical frame of mind this morning, as I was up early and had time to think and write. Sending you all blessings in whatever your particular need is today and committment to be AF.
    Formerly known as redhibiscus

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      September Serenity - week 4

      "If your eyes are blinded with your worries, you cannot see the beauty of the sunset."
      --Krishnamurti

      I thought of you, Rebirth, when I came across this quote. I hope you are moving up and away from your low mood. It will surely pass.

      I am feeling the internal gears shifting from serenity to optimism. Thanks Chill for summarizing the month. That was a nice moment of reflection.

      LBH, so sorry about your tree. It's like losing a friend somehow. We had a nice old mulberry that was blown apart during the aftermath of Hurricane Ike when it boomeranged from Texas to Ohio a couple of years ago. I still miss that tree, and so do the birds!

      SD, glad you are with us.

      Unlike Star, I do NOT have a lot of time this morning, so it will be a quick wish for an AF humpday to all.
      Dill

      Dont forget, you can: start late, start over, be unsure, try and fail AND STILL SUCCEED!

      If it is important to you, you will find a way. If not, you will find an excuse.

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        September Serenity - week 4

        Happy Hump Day Folks:

        Thanks for such a thoughtful summary of the month, Chill. It really does help put everything into perspective doesn?t it? What I find amazing is that we are a virtual community and we?ve been able to support one another in such a positive way.

        Thanks, folks, for your encouraging words. I did spend some time in a reflective mood when I first woke up this morning and came to the conclusion that part of my problem is I?m pushing myself too far too fast. I wouldn?t classify myself as an overachiever but I am a perfectionist. And, although I am back to work, I am feeling very guilty that I am not giving 100%. I need to step back and take things a bit slower. The most important thing for me right now is the healing process and that is what needs my primary focus. Easier said than done, right?

        Rebirth ? I can only imagine the challenges of being self-employed and managing your own business during these trying economic times. Good luck with your yoga pursuit.

        Rusty ? Sorry your date got cancelled but it sounds like you have the right perspective and attitude.

        dill;969690 wrote: "If your eyes are blinded with your worries, you cannot see the beauty of the sunset." --Krishnamurti
        Dill ? What a great quote to help remind us of all the beauty that surrounds us. Thank you for sharing.

        Greetings to everyone else and all who follow today?.. Have a great day!
        John
        AF since 7/13/2010

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          September Serenity - week 4

          GM serene friends!

          No cloud cover & rain this morning but it may be back this afternoon.
          Apparently a small tornado touched down in the small village of New London, just a few miles down the road. I saw all the damage to trees & sheds, etc yesterday as I passed through. Guess I feel fortunate now!

          Chill, I likes your summary of the month - boy we are a busy group
          I hope you can find what you need to stay put in Portugal where you are so obviously happy.

          Rusty, sorry about the date - we need to pay attention to the signs the universe sends us

          Since it's not pouring rain (so far today) I'm going to try to get some new chick pics today. The little suckers are getting quite big.

          Wishing a Happy AF Humpday to one & all!
          Dill, the quote really says it all, doesn't it?

          Lav
          AF since 03/26/09
          NF since 05/19/09
          Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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            September Serenity - week 4

            Dill, that quote is spot on, thankyou for it.

            Not having a very happy humpday here, I've got the most horrid cold which has now turned into a hacking cough so I've stayed in today feeling sorry for myself. But as with all things it will pass.

            Chill I loved your summary of the month - what an enormous amount of things this group does manage to achieve!

            I hope we all have a happy, healthy humpday - see you all later
            love Sooty

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              September Serenity - week 4

              :l Sooty!
              Hope you feel better soon. If you need a nurse just give me the word - I can be packed in 5 minutes :H
              AF since 03/26/09
              NF since 05/19/09
              Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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                September Serenity - week 4

                Dill,

                Thank you so much for that quote. It is so true in my case. I let worries dictate me for a while and I missed out on a number of opportunities....all because of fear of failure, and the truth is, none of it came to fruition. I missed your quotes when you didn't post.

                Sooty-hope you feel better. Miserable to have a cold.

                Paguy-I know how hard it is for you not to rush yourself. Patience is not one of my strong suits, either.

                I am leaving for Paris in 10 days and I'm flying through Dublin. Not only is Paris on a RED alert but so is Ireland as well. I received this notice minutes ago from my travel agent:

                Situation Report:

                Officials in the UK raised the Irish-related terrorist alert level from "moderate" to "substantial" - the third rung on a five point threat scale. This enhanced alert level means that an attack on mainland Britain is a "strong possibility." The change does not impact the threat assessment for international terrorism, however, which remains at "severe" (the second-highest level). This is the first time that the British government publicly released the threat assessment of Irish groups, in an effort to increase transparency and encourage vigilance.

                Oh well....if my time is up, it's up. Lav, is your bag packed? I might need a nurse. And then....get this.....our in-house travel agent said there seems to be an outbreak of bed bugs. Great. You just watch.....I'll come home from Paris not only terrified, but with a nasty case of the crabs!:H

                Back to work. Just checkin' in to say hello.

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                  September Serenity - week 4

                  Ah Rusty.......
                  No direct flight to Paris for you. I've always flown out of Philly or Baltimore. I'm the queen of direct flights!
                  Pack suitable 'protective' nightwear.........preferably made of steel :H
                  I've found security in Eurpoean airports to be - let's say a bit hyper. They are extremely cautious - which is a good thing.

                  I'm surrounded by this nasty Golden Retriever breath until tomorrow morning. I seem to be getting less & less interested in watching these dogs while their family is away. Oh Well!

                  Have to go find something for dinner.......hmm.
                  AF since 03/26/09
                  NF since 05/19/09
                  Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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                    September Serenity - week 4

                    Krishnamurti! OMG Dill!! Take about stirring up an old memory!In my spiritual twenties I use to have ALL his books .How could I forget him?? What on earth have I done with his books? Dill I am feeling better by the day but other days will come when I get down again.But the last one was a good learning curve and I am hoping I will be better mentslly prepared for the next. I am really gonna focus on the yoga, breathing exercises, St John’s Wort, diet, exercises. October will certainly be an optimistic one for me.

                    Star - which holistic site are you reading? I do believe that what you put into your body affects you mood. I have been eating very healtily the past few days and I can feel my energy building (eating brown rice, wholegrain bread, fruit, veg, chicken,). I am determined to slowly lose some weight cause I will feel better for it.

                    Rusty! –Please tread carefully. Do you know this guy well? I was a bit taken when I read his reason.. It’s just that I use to do internet dating and two of my dates said the same thing. They told me that their friend died in a car accident so they couldn’t make it. I just find this far too coincidental. What a waste of time that was for me.. Is he Irish?

                    John take it easy. I also suffer from trying to be perfect but it really is to my detriment. It’s better to progress than be perfect. But glad to hear that you are slowly on the mend

                    LBH- A friend of mine had to have her cherry tree cut down for similar reasons. She had a bowl made out of the trunk as a memory. Thought that was at least something to cherish of your lovely tree?

                    Chill I had to laugh about the krispin cr?me doughnuts. That had to be me eh! Well at least I have moved on to healtier options since then. Thank God.

                    Hmmm My BF has not texted me all day. Now I am getting worried.I instantly think something is wrong. Argh when does it end…Think I am going to do some deep breathing now.
                    Be strong-
                    We define ourselves by the best that is in us, not the worse that has been done to us.
                    Be constructive. Clear the word of CAN'T

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                      September Serenity - week 4

                      Hi Rusty and Lav,
                      I must be living in cuckoo land. Didnt even know that there are security problems?

                      Sooty its the season for colds unfortunately.

                      Argh? Why wont my BF text me?? I am gonna wring his neck when I see him on friday.
                      Be strong-
                      We define ourselves by the best that is in us, not the worse that has been done to us.
                      Be constructive. Clear the word of CAN'T

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                        September Serenity - week 4

                        Hi Everyone,

                        Just about to end my day here (EE-HAH!) so wanted to check back in.

                        Rebirth-oh yes, I was suspicious at first, and I've pretty much decided I won't pursue anything. I had a few red flags at the very beginning but won't go into detail. I have a feeling he is quite the player. I don't do internet dating. Don't know if he's Irish....why?

                        Ok, Lav, I'll wear my bullet-proof nightie!

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                          September Serenity - week 4

                          Rusty the men I was suppose to date were both Irish. I just found it ironic that they both had/used the same reason?? I think they were both married..
                          Be strong-
                          We define ourselves by the best that is in us, not the worse that has been done to us.
                          Be constructive. Clear the word of CAN'T

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                            September Serenity - week 4

                            Single and free here! :H :upset: :H :upset: but alway's

                            Hello everyone,
                            Safe travel's Rusty!

                            Have a great night all. :h

                            'I am part of all that I have met, yet all experience is an arch wherethro', gleams that untravelled world whose margins fade, forever and forever when I move'

                            Zen soul Warrior. Freedom today-

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                              September Serenity - week 4

                              guys guys seven more posts and I am a senior. Oh the little things in life that make me happy
                              Be strong-
                              We define ourselves by the best that is in us, not the worse that has been done to us.
                              Be constructive. Clear the word of CAN'T

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                                September Serenity - week 4

                                oooh 7 now
                                Be strong-
                                We define ourselves by the best that is in us, not the worse that has been done to us.
                                Be constructive. Clear the word of CAN'T

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