friday af 24 sept
Wow, so much to say yet so little time or brain power. Did lots of thinking whilst mowing today--thought so much I got sick of thinking about it. Greeneyes, he would have gotten a haircut if he had come inside in time. My son got one, and the other two need one also. It will be difficult to do the task when the time comes without the temptation of carving the big FH in back. :H We are at least speaking now, so life goes on as usual. I'm not one to hold grudges, but they tend to kind of build up after awhile.
And Det, yes, my well worn copy of Co-Dependent No More is on loan to my friend with the alcoholic brother at the moment. i'm going to have to dig out my copy of "Beyond Co-Dependency" while I wait for the book I ordered this morning "The Language of Letting go" also by Melody Beatty. :H Of course we are all co-dependents! Pretty much all alcoholics (or any addicts) and the people that love them are. It really is a great book, I highly recommend it to everyone!
Marshy--I hear warning bells too. And i would say all of the above. I had a dream the other night I was partying up a storm. It was disturbing. I'm wondering if once we have an empty nest if i will have to go back to that lifestyle in order to have a relationship with my hubby again. Nah.
Football game tonight. My son is not playing. Did I tell you he got a concussion and whiplash Monday night during his game. This is #2 son. It was #1 son last time. It was scary watching him stagger around on the sideline--none of the coaches even noticed, and I guess once my younger son checked on him and asked if he was ok to drive I thought he was ok. But he was def not ok, and I should have never let him drive home. I really need to learn to trust my instincts. Hubby thinks this son is kind of a wimp and never believes that he is hurt--thinks he's faking. Grrr.
Later. Thank you for making me feel better today!:h
Wow, so much to say yet so little time or brain power. Did lots of thinking whilst mowing today--thought so much I got sick of thinking about it. Greeneyes, he would have gotten a haircut if he had come inside in time. My son got one, and the other two need one also. It will be difficult to do the task when the time comes without the temptation of carving the big FH in back. :H We are at least speaking now, so life goes on as usual. I'm not one to hold grudges, but they tend to kind of build up after awhile.
And Det, yes, my well worn copy of Co-Dependent No More is on loan to my friend with the alcoholic brother at the moment. i'm going to have to dig out my copy of "Beyond Co-Dependency" while I wait for the book I ordered this morning "The Language of Letting go" also by Melody Beatty. :H Of course we are all co-dependents! Pretty much all alcoholics (or any addicts) and the people that love them are. It really is a great book, I highly recommend it to everyone!
Marshy--I hear warning bells too. And i would say all of the above. I had a dream the other night I was partying up a storm. It was disturbing. I'm wondering if once we have an empty nest if i will have to go back to that lifestyle in order to have a relationship with my hubby again. Nah.
Football game tonight. My son is not playing. Did I tell you he got a concussion and whiplash Monday night during his game. This is #2 son. It was #1 son last time. It was scary watching him stagger around on the sideline--none of the coaches even noticed, and I guess once my younger son checked on him and asked if he was ok to drive I thought he was ok. But he was def not ok, and I should have never let him drive home. I really need to learn to trust my instincts. Hubby thinks this son is kind of a wimp and never believes that he is hurt--thinks he's faking. Grrr.
Later. Thank you for making me feel better today!:h
ray:
And hopefully not make any stupid drunken committments. Or pick up any unwanted....whatevers. Well, I guess that wasn't so easy either. Just different. 
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