Hi everyone,
GoAway, we call that person the "chairperson." We had sign ups for being the chair person for this next year at our Sat. home group. I was glad I was able to write my name down for April, as you need 6 months to chair. That will be my first! Also, if you're not feeling well that particular day at discussion meeting, or not emotionally well, don't force yourself just to say something. There will be plenty of other opportunities to share. I know I've passed when I didn't have much to say on the topic and wanted to learn from others. But sometimes, it's ok to pass. Don't feel bad about that.
Korlan - good summary! I really like to mix up my meeting formats weekly. So much learning taking place and great connections and caring in the rooms.
Dance, sounds like a fun x-mas party! I know what you mean when you say you feel at home. I'm feeling that way too. More and more, I'm getting comfortable in speaking (although I still flush on my neck!) but people are so unconditionally caring. It's so comforting. I'm feeling at 4 months (today is my 4 month anniv!) that these subtle progressions are moving also into my daily living. My non-AA relationships are growing in quality, and I just find myself being there more and more for people.
Last night I went to a speaker meeting, a friend from our home group. She's gone through so much emotionally, mentally in her life having had to undergo electric shock treatment, and has serious mental disorders. She did such a great job of speaking honestly about her life. Such a good experience.
Tonight I went to a discussion meeting where we spoke about our first experiences in the rooms and how we adapted to this plan for living. Lots of great responses to this. My life has gotten so much happier and more peaceful in these last 4 months. We also talked about giving help to newcomers and not to try and overwhelm them when they come in, but to be supportive and listen, or just giving a hug and telling them to come back is important.
Have a great night all.
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