Jubilant January ~ Week 1

[rebirth]

Jubilant January ~ Week 1

Morning all,

John I like your avatar. It's very cute. How is it all panning out with your partner in regards to his drinking. Do you find he is drinking less now?

SD -Yes I can get a restraining order but I may also sue for defemation of character as she is trying to ruin my reputation. It's a small town here. I would love to throw her in jail but it cant be done unless she physically threatened me. it's just name calling so far.

Anyway have a good day all.

Chill remember to PM me the details. I will check in later

[Rusty]

Jubilant January ~ Week 1

Good Morning Everyone,

Silly o'clock here in Wisconsin! I have to be at work at 4:30 a.m. so just a quick check-in for me.

Rebirth-all I can say about your talent is FABULOUS! AMAZING is also a perfect word....oh, to have your talent, and your beauty, too. Can we trade?:H As far as that nut case woman....if you can't get a restraining order, I would seriously try just deleting her e-mails and ignoring her. You may recall back last summer I almost ditched MWO because a member I was trying to help turned psycho on me and left nasty messages on my phone and bombarded me with e-mails. I just deleted her VMs without listening to them and her e-mails without responding and she just gave up because she couldn't get a rise out of me. This woman also was going through about 3 bottles of wine a day and I have a feeling this woman who is harassing you is probably drinking and is off her meds. Just my 2 cents. I feel so badly for you.:l She's also probably jealous because you're doing so well and she isn't, obviously

John-4.5 miles. YOU ROCK!

Ok-I have work to do before I start my day!:H

Have a fabulous AF Thursday friends!

[Dewdrop]

Jubilant January ~ Week 1

Oh Lav I think I?ll pass on the neti pot thanks :eeew: and ?Lav?s Nursery? sounds wonderful such lucky babies to have you around, when are they expected ?
Dill your story of the children huddling together like penguins reminded me of the film Happy Feet that I watched over the holidays with my grandson, he loved it and we were dancing about the house to the music like we were penguins.
Chill it sounds like you are moving forward with your plans and I am very sure that things will work out well for you whether it?s in the UK or not. I totally agree with having closure when we move on in life especially when it?s such a big move. You are very fortunate that you have this time to reassess your life. I hope you are not feeling too sentimental about selling some of your jewellery, as you say they are simple possessions at the end of the day but often they have memories attached. You always have the memories though.
Sooty I have had a really miserable rainy, grey day here too and must admit it would be nice to see a bit of sun now but unfortunately we have a way to go yet with the winter. I really admire people who can sing I am totally tone deaf
Thanks Cyn for the info on Oil of Oregano I had seen it on an earlier post and lost it I will try it out, I?ve never taken so many supplements since I started on MWO but they do seem to help. I?m interested in how the rest of you are doing with the supplements and how long you took them for?
Rebirth this lady is a serious nutcase and you must be quite concerned about her, what a terrible situation to be in. The police and a restraining order sound your best bet but I understand the defamation of character part, just awful. What a talented lady you are

I agree it?s quite sad we have so many newbies at the moment but it?s so hopeful that they have found this site. I never want to go back to that awful, desperate place I was in when I joined and I too feel like I should be posting more words of encouragement but its difficult sometimes to get enough time. Still if we each do a little it amounts to a lot. I?m trying to limit my time on MWO as I felt it was taking over my life last year so I am being a bit selective on where I post. I also feel I want to move on with my life this year without alcohol being an issue, so it?s not such a bit part of each day, does that make sense?

Well I?d better get on with Jubilant Thursday or it will have flown away without me.

Dewdrop :h

[Rusty]

Jubilant January ~ Week 1

Dew-your words hit home for me and it couldn't have been said more articulately: I also feel I want to move on with my life this year without alcohol being an issue, so it’s not such a bit part of each day, does that make sense?. Spot on, for me, too! I truly feel hopeful this year, and setting a goal of BALANCE in my life. How is your little granddaughter? Is her face healing?

It's funny how we were talking about the difference between European and American expressions. In Europe, people say "Spot On" and in the US, we say, "Right On." We all manage to understand each other.

Darn....here comes my customer. Back to work. I've been here since 4:30 this morning so I thought, "ah hah....time for my coffee."

I'll check in later, though!

[cyntree]

Jubilant January ~ Week 1

Hello Jubilators!

RB - lovely painting! Good luck with your situation - and great job staying AF through all this.
Rusty - take care of yourself with these early mornings...and ps, the neti pot is great after a long flight...
John - sorry about your nasal surgery, but it probably will make you feel much better. Congrats on the miles!
Dill - now teachers have to be wind-breaks too? That's asking a lot! Hope you got warm after that episode --
Chill - a couple of years ago, we had a robbery in our house. All that was taken was jewelry. I have never had anything expensive, but it was so sad to have sentimental things taken - my HBs father's gold watch, his mother's pearls, the first earrings that HB gave me, etc. We were not adequately insured for replacement, so we just had to 'let it go'. It was just simply gone, nothing to do. At that point we discovered that the pieces had been emblems of a particular attachment, but not a talisman or a connection to the person. The connection and memory remained, though the pieces themselves were long gone. Perhaps in your case you can think of these pieces as willingly funding your future. As if they are happy to be used in service of such a good cause...anyway, you are a strong girl to move forward with this plan with such dedication - brava!

Hey guys - I am cautiously optimistic this morning - our house is under contract! Inspection is Friday, and of course much can happen before all is settled, but so far so good. It is mixed with a dose of panic - we need to be out in 3 weeks, and I have a bi VIP move to handle at just this same time, but it's OK - thank goodness move planning is my business.

OK - off to fix everything in the house before Inspection, and plan a dinner party for tonight -- wishing all a great day --

[Lavande]

Jubilant January ~ Week 1

Good morning kids,

Dragging my butt this morning......oh well.
Inadequate sleep has been a problem for me for 15 years!

cyn, good luck on your home sale. Maybe someday when you're all caught up you can come help me orangize a few areas - esp. my shop Are you eventually going to settle on the right coast here with John, papmom & myself?

REbirth, I hope you have a peaceful day, Rusty hard at work for nearly 4 hours already (I'm definately feeling lazy today).

Dewdrop, the babies are arriving somewhere around Feb 15 & April 6! Babies, babies babies!!!!
The other day my grandson tried to pull up the front of my shirt. I asked him 'what are you doing?' He said 'Mi Mom's baby belly' He thinks everyone is having a baby. Btw - I'm not that big :H:H

Better get my day going........
Wishing everyone a terrific AF Thursday .
Lav

[rebirth]

Jubilant January ~ Week 1

Gulp..just spoke with a solicitor and they want ?400 for a letter! They charge ?185 an hour!

Think I will let the police deal with this as I cant afford those kind of bills.

[Chillgirl]

Jubilant January ~ Week 1

Evening guys

Rebirth thats the pits! How about I write her a letter, I can be very scary when I want to
Seriously though this is going on too long and must be getting you down, I would bombard the police until they get so sick of you that they really sort her out.

Rusty - Work at 4.30am!! You life has an upside down clock, do you go to bed at 8.30pm?

Lav - Sorry to hear you dont sleep so good, I have to say since quitting the booze I sleep tremendously and Im very grateful.

Cyn & Dewdrop - re the jewelry, you are absolutely right, the memories will be there forever. I was arranging the appointment today with the co buying my diamond watch and it was going through my mind that I would probably be sobbing uncontrolably when I hand it over but im sure they must be used to that. It will seems such a contrast to the wonderful day my husband bought me it and we were celebrating the sale of his business and looking forward to moving to Portugal to start our new lives. However Cyn you are "right on" I will putting the cash to good use to allow me to start another "new life".

Cant believe you might be moving in 3 weeks! :shocked: I keep glancing round my own house wondering where to start packing it up.

[paguy]

Jubilant January ~ Week 1

Hi Folks - hope everyone is doing well.

Rebirth - you asked about how my partner is coming along with his drinking. Not much progress to report. He is attempting to stop smoking right now so that has the highest priority. I can be very patient. We did have a 'hairy' moment over the holidays. We were at his mother's house, he finished off a bottle of wine and proceeded to get into an argument with his mother as to how the dining room table should be set for Christmas dinner. I know it may sound trivial and ridiculous (yes, it was ridiculous) but between the 2 of them, they were both going to have the last word. It was very late at night at that point so I just excused myself, took our dog to the bedroom, and we (me and the dog) went to bed. :H I wasn't about to get into it with either of them. Like many of us in our pasts, he knows he has a problem with the wine and wants to get it under control. It just hasn't happened yet. And, I know that he has to change his habits and behaviors because he wants to change - not because I want him to change.

Very glad tomorrow is Friday. We are supposed to get more snow - only 1 to 3 inches so that shouldn't be too bad.

Speaking of weather - Mr. G - have you been impacted by any of the flooding I've seen on the news that's happening in Australia? We have to make sure you are in tip top shape to jump out of Rusty's 50th birthday cake in February :H In all seriousness, I hope you are safe and out of danger.

Wishing you all peaceful dreams tonight....

[mylife]

Jubilant January ~ Week 1

Good evening all!

Wow, this thread is SO busy, for people like me who pop in now and then my head is spinning! At least it's not Alcohol induced! :H:H

Rusty, 4:30 a.m. in Wisconsin in the winter?! My heart goes out to you!!

Chill, I have seen your posts on other threads and didn't have any idea you were having to move or sell jewelry?? I'm so sorry to hear that but I know how strong you are, and know you will be great wherever you are!

Rebirth - Wow, what an artist!

Lav - I have also used the Neti and it really isn't that gross, and it does work just fine! That said, if a steamy shower will work, I'll do that first!

Great seeing everyone's posts, and thanks for keeping me so busy I haven't had time to think about drinking. Have a wonderful evening all!

[sdlovespackers]

Jubilant January ~ Week 1

Hey all!
Another quick pop in before bed....it's been a crazy day at work...I really don't want to even talk about it...I'm afraid the after effects will be tomorrow ((sigh)).
Now I'm watching the new Oprah channel...Dr. Phil is on...the topic of the show..."What's Wrong with Men?" OMG?!?!? I wish there was a way to call in!!!!:H:H I seriously may have to cut this even shorter...now he has self proclaimed jerks on the show and the women are getting there chance at them!!!:H
I'll check back in tomorrow!!
SD

[rebirth]

Jubilant January ~ Week 1

Good morning folks,

SD I would have been tuning in to hear the discussion. I really believe that men and women think differently to situations.

When is Rusty's Birthday????

[Guitarista]

Jubilant January ~ Week 1

rebirth;1036911 wrote: Good morning folks,

SD I would have been tuning in to hear the discussion. I really believe that men and women think differently to situations.

When is Rusty's Birthday????

Ain't that the truth.

Greeting's everyone. Your birthday soon Rusty?
Strength and peace to those struggling, and i hope everyone is as well as can be.

[Guitarista]

Jubilant January ~ Week 1

paguy;1036833 wrote: Hi Folks - hope everyone is doing well.

Rebirth - you asked about how my partner is coming along with his drinking. Not much progress to report. He is attempting to stop smoking right now so that has the highest priority. I can be very patient. We did have a 'hairy' moment over the holidays. We were at his mother's house, he finished off a bottle of wine and proceeded to get into an argument with his mother as to how the dining room table should be set for Christmas dinner. I know it may sound trivial and ridiculous (yes, it was ridiculous) but between the 2 of them, they were both going to have the last word. It was very late at night at that point so I just excused myself, took our dog to the bedroom, and we (me and the dog) went to bed. :H I wasn't about to get into it with either of them. Like many of us in our pasts, he knows he has a problem with the wine and wants to get it under control. It just hasn't happened yet. And, I know that he has to change his habits and behaviors because he wants to change - not because I want him to change.

Very glad tomorrow is Friday. We are supposed to get more snow - only 1 to 3 inches so that shouldn't be too bad.

Speaking of weather - Mr. G - have you been impacted by any of the flooding I've seen on the news that's happening in Australia? We have to make sure you are in tip top shape to jump out of Rusty's 50th birthday cake in February :H In all seriousness, I hope you are safe and out of danger.

Wishing you all peaceful dreams tonight....

:H

Safe and sound here thank's John. I'm in Melbourne, way down south. The floods are a couple thousand kilometres north of me. Very different weather pattern's where the floods are. Tropical. 2 season's. Wet and dry. The floods are devastating for the folk's living there, animal's, stock, environment, farm's etc. Much of the country around me has been in drought for the last 11/12 years or so, and we had some excessive rain last year here too. It's from one extreme to the other. I feel for the farmer's. The weather pattern's here the last few years have been becoming more bizarre.

All okay where i am re the flood's Dill. Thank's for asking.

RB. Geez, i missed your CC painting. I presume your MM avatar is your work? Brilliant stuff. Thank you for sharing.


February Rusty huh? .....(geez, what to wear, what to wear??......)

[Stargazerlily]

Jubilant January ~ Week 1

Good morning to all.

What a busy first week of January, we are all so productive and workIing so hard on our journeys. I woke up this morning and my first thought was, "I feel so good, I don't have to worry about being hungover," and it was lovely. I have worked so hard at eating healthy and actually exercised at 5:45 a.m. yesterday, it was so energizing. It helped me at work, where I have been a machine. I hear much peace on this thread, despite the life challenges we all face.

Rebirth, what a messed up situation. I liked Rusty's strategy, just ignore purposefully all her efforts. I don't know if it has gone too far for that. If she tells someone about your AA experience, it makes her look like a fool. I was thinking of things to say to people if they question you, like, "I wonder why she would say things like that, she must really be hurting," then go on with your head held high, living your life as your witness, sober, hardworking, etc. It seems that the more attention you give it, the more it grows. Why would anyone give credence to anything this person says. Is she important, successful, in the community or something? It is hard to know the best course to take in a situation like this. Good luck. Hope you have support.

Dewdrop, you are incredibly kind and such a great addition to this thread. I understand your need to limit the time to this site, it can be addicting. Hearing others stories, offering encouragement, support, it is so great but timeconsuming.

Paguy, you are so Zen, letting your partner find his own way, in his own time, loving him every step of the way. I loved when you said you have to change because you want to, not because someone else wants you to.

Lav, I see your posts on other threads, encouraging all, you are such a sweet, kind lady. I wonder if anyone tells you this enough. It seems that with all the emotional abuse you endured for years, from YB, you may no realize how so many appreciate you.

Chill, it is interesting giving up things. When I moved five years ago, I lightened my earthly possessions significantly. It was freeing in so many ways. I love that you are beginning your next adventure mindfully, taking the time to say goodbye, and release with love, all that is good in your current life. I just have a feeling that you will find work that will use all your creative talents and abilities, challenging you but also fulfilling you.

I need to go get ready for work. Have an AF lovely day.