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    #16
    Jubilant January ~ Week 2

    SD you asked about the Meditation Day at the Buddhist Retreat so I thought I'd share. The day started at 10am with an hour Buddhist reading/discussion which I find very interesting as Buddhism is new to me and you don?t have to be a Buddhist to take part in this as they encourage open discussion. Then an hour of guided meditation either the Mindfulness of Breathing or Metta Bhavana, we then have a social lunch (sharing food and engaging with everyone is a big part of the day) for an hour and a half.

    Then if the weather is good a walking meditation, we did this in the snow wrapped up warm and in touch with the elements ie aware of your footprints in the snow, the sun, the snow on the leaves, snowflakes etc. A warm cuppa after this then back into the shrine room for another hour of guided meditation or a chanting meditation it depends how the day is set up. Sometimes the day ends with a puja which is the act of showing reverence to a god, a spirit, or another aspect of the divine through invocations, prayers, songs, and rituals. An essential part of puja for the Hindu devotee is making a spiritual connection with the divine. I don?t take part in the puja purely for personal reasons it reminds me too much of what I don?t like about formal religion. Although I am now questioning this as I really enjoyed the Midnight Christmas Service with my Mum.

    Afterwards you can stay on and meditate yourself if you want. I left early about 3pm as the weather wasn?t good and I didn?t want to drive home in the dark. I found last year that I really needed to connect with something but didn't know how or what and this has opened the door to a whole new world of spirituality, but probably more importantly like minded people who I am connected to. It feels like the universe found the answer for me just when I needed it

    Dewdrop :h
    Enjoy today - there will be no other one quite like it....

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      #17
      Jubilant January ~ Week 2

      Greetings Jubilators!
      It has been several days since I have posted but I have been reading. It seems daunting to try to jump back in after not posting.

      Cyn, I followed the news from AZ all afternoon on Saturday. Such a tragedy. It must be very hard for you, having that personal connection. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

      Star, I am delighted that you and Mr. S. had such an open exchange. You have been a positive influence in his life and should feel very proud. It’s good you have each other’s support. You have certainly worked at it.

      John, I am curious to see if your partner agrees with your suggestion to have one al-free dinner each week. It is a really good idea on your part. Fingers crossed!

      Rusty, safe travels to you! You must learn how to post pictures!

      Papmom, congrats on your 8 months. I am so happy you joined our little thread.

      Mylife, good job on defeating the craving. I liked how you honestly stated that you were craving a bottle, not a simple glass of wine. When you are able to be so honest with yourself, it really helps.

      SD, our school system works on the “good ole boy” premise, too, and it is very destructive. I have watched the deterioration of our system as a result. In fact, our Super is being investigated by the Ethics commission and I am feeling he will be convicted. That may be the best thing that could happen for us. I do hope you get a shot at the Principal job. Schools need strong, positive leadership and you could definitely provide that! .

      I’m trying to limit my time on MWO as I felt it was taking over my life last year so I am being a bit selective on where I post. I also feel I want to move on with my life this year without alcohol being an issue, so it’s not such a bit part of each day, does that make sense?Dewdrop, you wrote these words a couple of days back and I wanted to respond. Yes, that makes a lot of sense! I think it is what we all hope for, honestly.

      A burping dog is funny
      A farting dog is gross
      We should be grateful for small blessings
      I agree, Lav! Couldn’t have said it better myself!

      Chill, what a surprising twist in your tale! I hope something comes of this chance encounter. Keep us posted and I’ll keep my fingers crossed!

      Rustop, I wondered how your meditation course worked out for you. It sounds like you get a great benefit. Do you still listen to meditation CD’s or are you able to go solo? I still need the CD’s, and I haven’t been doing it in a while. It’s time to get myself back to it.

      Rebirth, your artwork is amazing!!!

      LBH and Sooty, a very fond greeting to you both. I am afraid I am running out of steam here.

      Greetings, Mr. G., glad you haven’t been affected by the floods.
      Thinking of Mg72 in warm Hawaii.

      Sped? Come back!!!
      Dill

      Dont forget, you can: start late, start over, be unsure, try and fail AND STILL SUCCEED!

      If it is important to you, you will find a way. If not, you will find an excuse.

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        #18
        Jubilant January ~ Week 2

        Good morning sister Dill, I missed you

        Good morning everyone! Very, very chilly here in southeast PA. Just a little snow on the ground now but more promised for Tuesday & maybe Wednesday. I'm praying for a warm-up so people won't be afraid to get out on the road next Sunday. I'd hate to see my daughter's baby shower ruined because of snow. Thinking back, we had to cancel her 1st BD party (Jan 19) because of snow & that was disappointing.

        Star, I feel bad about your situation with your son. Would it help to just get very basic & give him a detailed list of chores you expect him to do? I sure hope something eases up soon.

        Rusty is in Barcelona now, how cool is that?

        Cyn, the Tuscon shooting is such a tragedy. I'm all for getting rid of the guns!

        Hi 'G'. How's your weather

        Dewdrop, hope you are enjoying your Sunday.

        Chill, what are you up to?

        I need to go now but will be back later.
        Wishing a good day for everyone.
        Lav
        AF since 03/26/09
        NF since 05/19/09
        Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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          #19
          Jubilant January ~ Week 2

          Happy Sunday Guys I hope you are all having a good one,

          Papmom - Thanks for the freecycle network link it sounds great but sadly nothing like that here, while I was at the pet store I met a girl I know who works for the animal rescue shelter and she is going to get me one for half the price of the store, another amazing serendipity!
          I didnt know you worked in real estate on Saturday's, what are the changes being made and what is it you do during the week?

          Lav - Babyshower! Dont forget to show us a photo of the diapercake.

          Rusty - You will be in Barcelona by now! Lucky girl and just next door to me, we are only an hr difference timezone for a change. I hope you are having good weather. A plane with wi-fi! I didnt know there was such a thing....

          Cyn - My heart goes out to the families involved in the tragedy in Tuscan, its so hard hitting when this happens close to home, how heartbreaking that a child has been killed.

          Star - You sound so wise these days, I think once we see certain trials as lessons it lightens them a little.

          Dewdrop - The meditation day sounds wonderful! I love the atmostphere in these places. I used to go to the Buddhist centre in Glasgow and even though it was situated believe it or not in Sauchiehall Street, once you entered it was another world!

          I saw my ex this morning and told him I planned to go back to Scotland, I cried telling him that i didnt know what else to do. He looked so sad and tired and reach out and took my hand, I still love him so much and it breaks my heart to see him like this. He said he will try and give me some money towards the move back. I know all my friends would say "and so he damn well should" after loosing all our money but he isnt a bad person. There is so much to organize and work through and my head is constantly in overdrive. I had a long chat last night with a good friend from MWO and he helped me get a few things in context. When I go back I will have to get used to living in a small space within an apartment block and I am going to so miss the tranquility of the counrtyside. Right now sitting here i am surrounded by complete silence..... bliss.
          "In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer ."
          AF - JAN 1st 2010
          NF - May 1996

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            #20
            Jubilant January ~ Week 2

            Buenos Tardes Amigos!

            I arrived safely in Barcelona and the weather is fantastic! It's about 65 degrees, sunny, and I took a walk on the boardwalk as I am looking at the sea as I write this. I just love the Spanish people....they are so friendly. Everyone is so well dressed to be walking....and bundled up, OMG! They dress like this in Wisconsin when it's 30 degrees...women in full-length mink coats, and lots of young couples with the cutest kids on scooters. I walked/ran for an hour today.....if you include that I stopped and petted every dog I saw:H

            Dill- I know, I know, I KNOW! I need to learn how to use Photobucket. You're right, of course.

            Lav-ahem, um, well, in the meantime, if I e-mail you some pics could you please post them for me...PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE....if I grovel and beg? I hope the weather doesn't deter your daughter's baby shower plans. You must be getting so excited. Please post a pic of the gift you are making for her. Is your daughter's birthday January 19? That's my sister's birthday. She'll be 55 this year. We are celebrating our birthdays together. I have the best sister in the world. I can't believe anyone could love me as much as she loves me....and the hell and worry I put her through when my drinking was so out of control:upset:

            Chill-sounds like you're handling everything with a clear head....I'm proud of you, and proud of you that you have so much empathy for you ex. You're such a good soul, Chill. You'll work everything out and I have the utmost confidence in you. BTW, the plane from JFK to Barcelona did NOT have WI-FI and I was royally ticked, but thought, oh well, I'll just read a good book. :-)

            Star-:l I have so much empathy for you because my dearest friends have had the same issue with their only son for 38 years. The stress is never-ending....constant supervision, frustration. I am here for you.

            I wish I could address everyone but I have much work to do to prepare for work tomorrow.

            Thank you all for being here for me!:h

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              #21
              Jubilant January ~ Week 2

              Hi All hope everyone is having a relaxing sunday evening

              Dewdrop I'm really interested in your post - I did a mindfullness meditation course a few months ago and found it great. Im trying to get back in to it now. I got the book Full Catastrophe Living and am enjoying it - next step is to start doing the body scan again. The one I did was an 8 week course with guided meditation unfortuntly I let it lapse. Id love to hear how you get on.

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                #22
                Jubilant January ~ Week 2

                Hello Jubilants. Sounds like you're all well on your way to a busy day!

                It's chilly here, but sunny. My hubby is coming back today, so we'll spend a nice afternoon and evening together. Of course AF.

                Dew, I loved your description of the meditation course as well. I know there will be one in my future!
                Rusty, glad to hear you're safely in beautiful Barcelona! Enjoy! My husband and I are planning a trip to Spain later this year but he loves the north of Spain...I like it all, so I just go along.
                Chill, sounds like your ex can at least be a friend -- sometimes it works out better that way between a couple.
                Lav, Day, Dill, and anyone else I missed (sorry!) reading all your posts and enjoying as usual.

                Have a great day!

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                  #23
                  Jubilant January ~ Week 2

                  Hi everyone

                  What a busy thread. I just about got last weeks read and when I looked there were 3 pages of this week to catch up on as well!! I'm amazed on how much we all have in common not counting our Al addiction.

                  Dewdrop - Thank you for sharing your meditation day with us. I did a day like that not so long ago and really enjoyed it. I did an 8 week Mindfulness based stress reduction course. I was doing the meditation daily and then came the snow and Christmas and I stopped for a few weeks. Started doing the body scan the last two days and this morning especially I felt energized.

                  Rusty - Enjoy Spain, hope the weather is better than it is here.

                  Cyn - I too read Shadow of the Wind and really enjoyed it. Hope you can find it Rusty.

                  Star - You are lucky to be able to discuss the Al issue with you hubby. Mine drinks but nothing like me, he has an off button. Know he's not too happy when I overdo it but he never says anything.

                  Lav - Hope your doggie is ok today.

                  RB - Sorry you are still having such a hard time with that lady. Loved your artwork, its amazing.

                  Chill - I have no doubt that things will fall into place for you. You are one strong lady and have overcome so much already.

                  Papmom, Sped, LBH, Dill, John, SD, Sooty, Mr G, Daylight, Mylife and anyone else I missed big hello and enjoy the rest of your Sunday.

                  Rustop

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                    #24
                    Jubilant January ~ Week 2

                    Welcome, Daylight!:welcome:

                    Mmmmm, I just finished a bowl of Sooty's Parsnip Soup! So delicious. Mr. Dill wanted to know if there would be any meat in it. He was skeptical that it could be worth eating....but even Mr. D enjoyed it saying how wonderfully flavorful it is.

                    I am looking forward to seeing the remake of True Grit, but in the meantime we have decided to watch the original with John Wayne and Kim Darby from 1969. I remember seeing it way back then and enjoying it. Anyone else remember that movie?
                    Dill

                    Dont forget, you can: start late, start over, be unsure, try and fail AND STILL SUCCEED!

                    If it is important to you, you will find a way. If not, you will find an excuse.

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                      #25
                      Jubilant January ~ Week 2

                      I sure do remember that movie Dill, it was one of YB's favorites.

                      This day went by so fast but I did get a lot done.

                      Rusty, send me your photos, I'll put them in my Photobucket & post a link here. I still don't know how to get them directly in a post the way everyone does

                      My growing collection of guided meditation CDs & MP3's will have to do to help me stay sane. There are no Buddhist Temples here in cow country or I would certainly go :H

                      Hello to everyone & I wish you a good evening.
                      Lav
                      AF since 03/26/09
                      NF since 05/19/09
                      Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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                        #26
                        Jubilant January ~ Week 2

                        Rusty/Lav-send me the photos-I'll post them in the thread for you from Photobucket

                        Busy day today for me too-went back to my sis's this morning for brekkie and to spend more time with my bro, SIL and nephew since i didn't really get to visit last nite.

                        Have done some long put off cleaning and laundry and put a bunch of things up on Freecycle. Got rid of a TV and old AC unit (hopefully-they haven't been picked up yet).

                        Still not hungry for dinner and I don't feel at all ready for tomorrow. Meant to go food shopping at some point but didn't get out. Must make a TJs run tomorrow nite after work. Guess I'll wing it for lunch tomorrow. That's not very WW ish but oh well.

                        Chill-I'm sorry it was so sad seeing your ex again and telling him you're moving back to scotland. That must seem so final to you and yet it has to be done. I hope he can scrape some money up for you so you can at least have a months rent ready. I totally understand how sad it is giving up the peace and tranquility of your countryside living. All I can say is that even tho you're moving to a city, you'll be able to find peace and tranquility in the most unlikely places. Hopefully there is a nice park nearby you can walk you dog in and do some meditation. If your flat has the space, maybe you can turn a nook into a meditation area. Certainly moving back to a city should afford you some nice free cultural activities. I'm also hoping you'll be able to join a bike club in the area so you can continue your wonderfully exhausting bike rides. I am so positive that you are going to find a fabulous job and be very comfortable that I predict you'll be able to move into a house or flat in the country or by the sea in no time. Putting away my crystal ball now.

                        Hi Rusty!! Thanks for checking in from Spain!! Glad you arrived safe and sound and that the weather is decent!! Can't wait to see pics

                        Rusttop-glad to see you again. Yes we have been busy bees!!

                        Dill-parsnip soup? Huh. is it like potato soup?

                        Mylife-hope you are having a nice evening with your DH!

                        Dew-your day at the retreat sounded heavenly!! It had all the components didn't it? I'll have to see if there is something similar around here. I could do with a day of not thinking about work or the animals or my family!!

                        Big hearty welcome to Daylight!! I love seeing all the new "faces' on our monthly boards!!

                        Have a great nite/day everyone!!
                        New Birthday: May 8, 2010

                        "Because dwelling from, not upon, the space you want to inherit is the fastest way to change absolutely everything."[/i]-The Universe

                        KO the Beast!!

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                          #27
                          Jubilant January ~ Week 2

                          Hi Everybody,

                          Daylight, :welcome: It's nice to have you here.

                          P3...maybe I'll send you my photos for you to post. You are so sweet. It's 12:45 a.m. here and I am wide awake and troubled. I went to dinner with my client....he is staying at the same hotel as I am and we are going to one of his manufacturing plants tomorrow. We were walking to the restaurant tonight and he proceeds to tell me that he was reading up on Spanish etiquette and things he learned. He said he wanted to pass the helpful hints on to me. He repeated them twice! And I asked him, "Are you trying to tell me something, John?" He stammered and said, "no," but it bugs me.....like I'm going to do something like put my elbows on the table (he mentioned that twice) and not finish all my meal because it's rude, and then I'll offend his Spanish employees.

                          Thanks for letting me vent. I was having so much fun today but now I feel vulnerable and sad. Sorry! Needed to vent.:upset:

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                            #28
                            Jubilant January ~ Week 2

                            Vent away Rusty!! Hope you feel better tomorrow! Just think of the whole episode as him trying to either correct his shortcomings or being very insecure. I'm sure you were absolutely perfect at the restaurant as YOU are the seasoned world traveler!!
                            :l :l
                            New Birthday: May 8, 2010

                            "Because dwelling from, not upon, the space you want to inherit is the fastest way to change absolutely everything."[/i]-The Universe

                            KO the Beast!!

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                              #29
                              Jubilant January ~ Week 2

                              Papmom, the parsnip soup really tastes nothing like potato soup. I went back to our January thread 2010 to find the recipe for you. It was posted by Sooty for Cyn almost exactly one year ago now.

                              500g parsnips chopped
                              250g carrots "
                              1 onion "
                              3 sticks celery "
                              1 inch grated fresh ginger
                              half tablespoon curry powder (or less depending on your taste)
                              1 litre stock
                              fry onion, celery and ginger in a little oil, add curry powder cook for minute, add stock, parsnips and carrots
                              simmer for half an hour or till everything tender, then blend
                              serve with a little cream if wanted
                              S'luvly and very warming on these cold days!
                              Sooty said to use vegetable stock, but I used chicken broth in mine and it was very good.

                              Rusty, I agree with Papmom. This was probably more about him than you. You're mother brought you up with good manners!

                              Lav, I haven't posted an image from photobucket in awhile, so I forget how to do it. I will play around with it in the next few days to refresh my memory and then I'll give you instructions. It's easy!
                              Dill

                              Dont forget, you can: start late, start over, be unsure, try and fail AND STILL SUCCEED!

                              If it is important to you, you will find a way. If not, you will find an excuse.

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                                #30
                                Jubilant January ~ Week 2

                                OK - I think I got it!
                                Rusty emailed me this morning. It's the view from her room in Barcelona

                                AF since 03/26/09
                                NF since 05/19/09
                                Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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