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    #76
    Joyful June - Week 2

    Evening everyone

    Mylife - Alaska! Wow, i would love to go somewhere like that, I imagine wide open spaces and lack of people which is bliss to me.

    Lav - Im with you on the peanut butter and today I went mad at my parents house and had two pieces of cheesecake & double cream. :no: back to the new regime tomorrow..... Hope YB is ok, is he as lacking in communication with your kids too?

    Papmom - 6ibs at ww, way to go girl! Thats what I call a result.

    Rustop - Fishing and horse riding, your family sound like a wonderful classic bunch of guys!

    Star - Interesting what you say about your joints and diet. Im really going to seriously clean up my act and see if there is any improvment. Im still a bit shocked at having arthritis at 46 and in my feet which will be so debilitating if it worsens. I've also just started taking 1500mg of glucosamine. If anyone has any other alternative tips for arthritis I'd love to hear them.

    Cyn - You conjured up some beautiful images for me of you painting the same garage doors your Mum was painting when you decided to make an appearance in this world. I saw in my mind a movie drama spanning decades a lives lived and generations moving on. I hope these memories for you are a comforting nostalgia and not too painful. They are wonderful to have, I still remember at 15 breaking my heart when my parents sold our family home. In my early life due to circumstance we moved something like 8 times in 2 years and I know its had a huge impact on me and is why a home is so important to me.

    I have a nice story to tell you. As a toddler I played with the son of good friends of my parents. Over the years as families we spent holidays together and he was as close as I had to a brother. As teenagers we lost touch then at 18 he invited me as his date to his University prom. We never spoke again until we met on a train 7 years later. By that time I was dating my husband and he had married but we went for dinner and caught up. Then I heard through my parents that he'd gone to live in Geneva. I of course then married and moved to Portugal. About 3 years ago I found him on facebook and we have been in regular contact ever since, sharing our ups and downs. Sadly this year his 24 year marriage broke down and I encouraged him to try again harder as from experience the grass is rarely greener.

    Yesterday out of the blue he sent me a strange email saying he'd been wondering how the hell he could ask me out on a date! The email included a link to a restaurant in Paris which he says is the most romantic place he has ever been and would I join him there for dinner on the 8th July....!! I think he has been watching too many romantic movies and I politely declined saying I couldnt possibly make it over to Paris in my present circumstances. So instead he has booked a flight to come here and take me for dinner on that same weekend?! We havent seen each other in 20 years and I cannot imagine for one minute there being any romantic chemistry between us, but boy is it quite a story!
    To be continued.......
    "In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer ."
    AF - JAN 1st 2010
    NF - May 1996

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      #77
      Joyful June - Week 2

      Good Evening June Friends,

      Cyn, I'm glad you made it to NE safely and your marriage still in tact. What an emotional time this will be for you...so sending you massive (((((HUGS))))). We have something in common....too...June 1 was the 7-year anniversary of my dad's death. Amazing that you are going through this AF.

      It's been a lovely weekend. I didn't get a bike yet but my weekend has been filled with serenity and a variety of fun activities: worked out hard, had lunch overlooking the harbor yesterday, bought some some new jewelry for myself, and had a lovely conversation with my ex-beau. One of my best friends is coming over for lunch tomorrow so we can belatedly celebrate her 55th birthday. Rather than go out to lunch tomorrow, I was in the mood to cook when I woke up this morning! I am making her Paella, fresh asparagus with Hollandaise sauce, and Strawberry Tiramisu. Then we plan to spend a good amount of time floating in the pool with our Noodles. We should have the whole pool to ourselves.

      Lav-so glad you could sell your eggs at the yard sale. Too bad the heat was stifling.

      Mylife-I'm envious of your stay in Alaska, and thrilled that you won't be struggling to remain AF. Alaska is one of 5 states I've never been to...but hope to get there. My friend's son lives there and loves it. He is a charter fishing boat captain.

      Papmom-Congrats on the 6 lbs. weight loss!:goodjob: Hip Hip hooray, also, to the Bruins. I know my relatives in Maine and Massachusetts are extremely happy....big hockey fans. Funny to be thinking of hockey when it's so hot out, though.

      Chill-hope it works out with your long-lost friend. Keep me posted...as you know, the MWO Daily Mail has had a totally blank page without your stories. I think Doc was looking out for you regarding the nutcase ex-wife. My ex-whom I mentioned in this post, did not support me enough when it came to the antics of his lunatic and gambling addicted ex-wife, and that was one of the reasons I broke up with him.

      Rustop-I love the idea of renting a horse for the summer. Here, we call it a half-lease. I've thought about that....a way to ride someone else's horse and yet you only have to pay for 1/2 the boarding fee every month, not the vet bills. My friend who owns and shows horses says it's the smartest way to go. Good for you! Kudos to your daughter for the 3rd place.

      I called my sober for 7-years aunt this afternoon....to thank her for coming to my niece's wedding. She didn't make any comments to me at all and now I understand why she did make the comments to me last year. It was only 6-weeks after my drunk-free and AF journey began, and looking at the pics of myself from our family vacation, I still had a puffy, bloated face, and I was a good 20 pounds heavier. It really hit me that even though we TELL people we are committed to resolving our AL issues, they still have to SEE it for themselves...in our bodies, words and actions. I think she knew I was serious about being AF when she saw me while she was in town for the wedding. I spent 4 days transporting my elderly relatives around. I was reliable, enthusiastic, and AF, without a struggle.. She could see the difference and knew I was serious. I am sure a lot of people doubted my sincerity, though. In this journey, I am forever learning.

      Sooty-where are you? I hope you are ok and please check in. I miss you and I am worried about you.

      A cheery hello to Star, LBH, Paguy, Jolie, Dew, and anyone I may have missed. Have a wonderful AF Sunday evening!

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        #78
        Joyful June - Week 2

        Does anyone need zucchini? :H

        OMG, we only put two plants in & I'm over run already. I've been eating it every day
        My daughter has been away this weekend but you can bet I'll be dellivering zucchini to her door tomorrow :H
        I have a few yellow squash too. The secret to my garden is the chicken poop ~ seriously!

        Rusty, It did take people a while to believe in me too, I understand that. But once they did I felt better. The only one who didn't show any happiness was you know who

        I need to run outside & close up the chicken house for the night before it gets too dark. I can hear 'things' moving around out there & it's freaky. I found 'evidence' of a raccoon visit the other day - eeeww!

        Have a good night everyone!
        AF since 03/26/09
        NF since 05/19/09
        Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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          #79
          Joyful June - Week 2

          Hey all,

          What a great Sunday, perfect weather, feeling good, and balancing the day with work and play. This could only happen AF of course.

          Chill, what a romantic story, you will have to see what happens, if nothing else, what an adventure. You sure have changed your life with all kinds of fun happenings!!!!! I wonder what this week will bring?

          Rusty, what a great weekend for you too. It is hard at first when people are doubtful, but looking back, you can't blame them. So nice you and your Aunt were able to build a relationship a bit.

          Papmom, good for you with the six pounds, I am so jealous. It is OK to have a day that is not super productive.....we all need to be easier on ourselves and so many of us are hard driven perfectionists.

          Lav, I'll take some zucchinni, I love'em.

          Mylife, Alaska sounds fascinating, enjoy your time there.

          Cyntree, how wonderful you can be there, really be there for your Mother. What wonderful memories, you are facing it all with strength and courage. You'd think after seven years it would be easier to let go, but I know that that is not always the case, as with my situation a few weeks ago. I''ll be thinking of you and sending you peace.

          See you in the morning,
          Formerly known as redhibiscus

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            #80
            Joyful June - Week 2

            Good morning Joyful Juners!

            Mylife - jealous! I would love to go to Alaska - that would probably be the only other cruise I would consider going on - they say it is absolutely beautiful there - ENJOY!

            Chill - so interesting - sounds like maybe he has some romantic feelings for you - keep us posted for sure!

            Rusty - sounds like you have come to some closure with the way your aunt treated you last year - glad this year was so much nicer of a visit for you both!

            Papmom - 6 lbs. is teriffic! You deserved that ice cream!

            Lav - I love zucchini and squash - sautee them up in a little olive oil and butter with S&P and onions - yummy! A friend of mine has a garden and has the same issue every year - they kind of just take over all at once!

            Cyn - glad your trip was peaceful and all is well after 72 hours - that must have been exhausting!

            Well, hubby did not get rid of the bike my Dad gave me after all! It definitely needs a new seat and the back tire was flat but he pumped it up and I actually rode for a few minutes. Went flat again so he'll have to replace the back tire. Kind of fitting that I got to ride it on Father's day - I've had this bike for probably 5 years and never rode it. My Dad passed away almost a year ago so it was kind of emotional to be riding the bike he gave me yesterday. Now I want to get it fixed and do some seroius riding!

            Hope everyone has a great day!
            Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

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