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    AF DAILY---FRIDAY, JULY 29

    Hello friends,

    What's the deal? Everyone sleeping in this summer?

    I really should be doing something other than starting the daily thread, but I wanted to check in. It's been a rather busy, frustrating week for me. I have been on the go, go go, and I am tired, tired tired. For my young age of 29, I sure don't seem to have the stamina I once had.

    It's county fair week, and we don't have a lot of projects, but our club is fairly involved in some stuff. And, since I am the leader, I feel obligated to be there to oversee things and get things set up. Both of my boys were grand champion shooters Sunday, so we have the parade of champions tomorrow morning and then we are done. YAY!

    I found out some stuff about the cemetery job yesterday that has left me feeling--disappointed I guess. As you may remember my boss (and friend) has stage 4 colon cancer. He also has a lawn care business and when he got the cemetery contract he hired me to take care of that. Every year it looks better and every year they expect more. Now his contract is up and they say they HAVE to list the job and they are cutting the salary and making it a seasonal job. I already told them my .02 about not renewing his contract==pretty shitty if you ask me. I don't know if he will re apply for the position or not. If he doesn't I think I will, but I need to talk to him first.

    Also having issues with one of my bookkeeping jobs. I sent a resignation letter awhile back, telling them I would be done September 1st. In the meantime they (this is a club) were having major financial problems and switched banks so they could get a loan and somehow I got taken out of the loop. I tried to stay on top of what bills needed paid and payroll, etc., but never could get an answer about when I could write checks, etc. It seems the secretary (these are a bunch of men--farmers and the like) has all of the stuff, and has paid a few bills willy nilly--and--wrote some payroll checks not within the pay period--not sure where they got the figures for the withholding--they didn't use the amount I told them. So now that the quarterly payroll taxes are due--I have to figure out how to make it right. And I am extremely frustrated. I can't wait to be done with the job. I just need to make sure they know that I will try to get this straightened out for them and show them the right way to do things, but I will not come back in 6 months or a year and try to fix their mess!

    #1 son had strep throat this week too. He was one sick kid--temp of 103.6. He's feeling better now, and of course wants to start running around with his friends and going to the lake!

    I have to admit, these stresses cause me to think a little about drinking a little to unwind a bit. But I do know that it honestly won't help. I always recognize that I am just stressed, and thirsty or hungry, and take care of that. There are better ways to unwind as well. I DON'T need the added stress of guilt from drinking or a hangover--who has time for that!

    Ok, I really need to get my day started! Have a great sober weekend all!!!
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    NF since June 1, 2008
    AF since September 28, 2008
    DrunkFree since June 1, 2008
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    :wings: In memory of MDbiker aka Bear.
    5/4/2010 In loving memory of MaryAnne. I pray you've found peace my friend.
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    The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.ray:

    #2
    AF DAILY---FRIDAY, JULY 29

    LV - It sounds like you have a lot on your plate. I wish I could help with some of it.

    It looks like another rainy miserable day here in southern ontario. Boo got dropped off to me this morning so the BF can work. He is running around the trailer like a madman, bumping into everything with the cone around his neck. You'd think the surgery and the cone would slow him down (or at least I had hoped it would) but nope - still the same old puppy, just with added accessories! Thank god he's cute cause he's driving me insane!!!!

    I was up early, got all my banking done. I'm broke, it's official! LOL - oh well, it is what it is. At least I'm not spendig it on boozze anymore. Not sure what is in store for me today. Most likely some relaxing with a book. Hopefully it will get sunnier in the afternoon.

    Have a great AF day everyone!
    Every day is a day to start over and remember that I am powerless over my addiction. I will no longer give the BEAST any power over me - he can go straight to hell.
    :h

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      #3
      AF DAILY---FRIDAY, JULY 29

      Would love to join you guys for August. Am doing very well & need to keep going. Looking forward to getting to know you all.
      Now I am off to the beach, after a quick nap as am going through a tired phase.
      SJ xxx :groupluv:

      'We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act but a habit.' Aristotle

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        #4
        AF DAILY---FRIDAY, JULY 29

        Good morning everyone, looks lonely here. Just LV et moi, ce matin. D'accord, je voudrais parlez en Francais, ha ha ha. Just because nobody is listening doesnt make me sound any less of an eegit, does it???

        Edited to say congratulations Sarah jane, well done on the worst first part! the first part of the worst part. Uni, I told myself that very thing yesterday.... LV tell those ole boys yer bookeeping for to sort out thier own friggin taxes, if they are going to take over the writing of cheques (we spell it differently). And while the scenario for your boss sounds awful, and those guys could show some class and just let things go while your boss is still alive. Honestly talk about unfortunate. If I knew how to put the whipping icon in here I would. And I wish I could somehow help myself and others to see the glass half full thing. Ok, well... half full of orange juice or something. Sorry LV that whole thing sucks. Both things.

        Today I have to turn in my truck lease, and I am not sure what I should do, turn it in, trade it in, re-lease, sell privately....what ever. And the bub, here, had a death in the car family (Saab: tits up). So he cant make up his mind if he wasnts a sporty fast car he can drive on the highway like Stirling Moss and regain his lost youth or an SUV that he can do the photography and kyaking from that he actually LIKES to do now that he is 29. So why is MY equity going towards his juvenilia / sensibleness? Answer: I make more money than him, and whats mine is his, while, as usual whats his is his. I have a very spoiled husband. Nice to look at, but spoiled rotton. Used to be nice anyway.

        Enough. DG you sound pumped about your new found career path still. I think your on to something. Marshy, more pix please. P3 do YOU get a summer holiday? Does ANYONE get a summer holiday? Thats the thing about being a biology person. Never get a break in the growing season. I must get into the garden today, i have been gone for two weeks, and its showing in a few places...ie weeds, deadheading... pool time to be had as well. Weed swim weed swim, my favorite.

        Kaslo

        Stopped the madness: February 14, 2011
        Status: Happy:h

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          #5
          AF DAILY---FRIDAY, JULY 29

          Good mid-morning LVT & Uni!

          I've been up for many hours but didn't want to start today's thread.....was afraid my shitty mood would show through!
          I feel for your LVT - you do have a lot going on this week. But you do know that next week will likely be entirely different - at least that's what I'm telling myself
          It does seem like crappy things happen at at once - hmmm. Hope things on the job front improve for you & glad that your son ios on the mend

          Uni, I've been nursing sick/injured dogs all summer & paying huge Vet bills too!
          Hope Boo heals quickly for you

          I do have work waiting for me so I'm going to dive into it & try to change my mindset.

          Wishing everyone a good AF Friday!
          Lav
          AF since 03/26/09
          NF since 05/19/09
          Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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            #6
            AF DAILY---FRIDAY, JULY 29

            Cross post SarahJane & Kaslo.
            Hello & Happy Friday to both of you
            AF since 03/26/09
            NF since 05/19/09
            Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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              #7
              AF DAILY---FRIDAY, JULY 29

              Good Morning Ladies. . .and Det and Mario. Hope everyone is great!

              I have so much going on right now! Lots of balls in the air so to speak. This will be my 2nd weekend AF. I need it! I have so much to do!

              I thought I would post today to help out, where is everyone?
              You always succeed if you never stop trying.
              Everyday we choose the direction of change.

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                #8
                AF DAILY---FRIDAY, JULY 29

                Morning all! thanks for starting us off LVT!! So sorry about everything that is going on right now but Lav is right-next week will be totally different!

                Lav-Hope you can dive into work today and forget about YB's selfishness. You're still married so he has financial obligations to you and I KNOW you won' t let him forget it!!

                Deter-so glad you were able to get home last nite. dinner sounded yummo!!

                Jenny-you sound great! Keep up the good work!
                Welcome SJ! Great job on one week!

                Kas-gorgeous pics as always. No comment about cars and bub etc. I'm not liking cars right now and I haven't had a bub in my life for ages so keeping mum.

                Heading out in an hour for the trial up in Maine. I can't beleive how packed the OB is for 3 lousy days!! We'll have fun tho and then yes, Kas, summer holiday next week. Another staycation tho and I'll probably end up working from home during part of it as my deadline is in 3 weeks and the numbers keep increasing, not slowing down. Grrrrr.

                I'll be able to read the posts but it's hard typing on my EVO so I probably won't post until I get back.

                :l
                New Birthday: May 8, 2010

                "Because dwelling from, not upon, the space you want to inherit is the fastest way to change absolutely everything."[/i]-The Universe

                KO the Beast!!

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                  #9
                  AF DAILY---FRIDAY, JULY 29

                  Aloha Friday to all my shiny happy AF friends

                  sober weekends rock! lets do dis thang AF and make some groovy memories.

                  zoom zoom
                  nosce te ipsum
                  (Know Thyself)

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                    #10
                    AF DAILY---FRIDAY, JULY 29

                    Fabarronis!

                    Mowed the back tundra & need an IV.... fecking hot.

                    I always have 10 million things to do it seems. But I'm not sure why that is. And it's 3 PM already! Gotta work on this insurance papers & receipts and order carpet and finalize the claim. Then shop for a new company. Hope that works out for the better.

                    Hey ho jen - doing good!

                    IJM - what's your plan for tonight?

                    Lav, the best thing (or one of them anyway) I ever did with FH is have no expectations of him. I recently agreed to let him return the favor of a ride when the car went to the shop. Of course he wasn't around that morning. I don't even remember his excuse - I just made a mental note to myself like "WTF were you thinking to involve him?" and took it as a firm reminder to not do that again. Detachment is difficult as it is. Being involved on a level that lent itself to disappointment, inconvenience and the like were most unhelpful and unhealthy for me. I'm very happy to have moved away from that. Just sayin....

                    Marshy!!! Did you see kaz ask for more piccys??? huh? huh? huh? Don't be a stinge, now. :H That is so exciting that XNGF is taking up full time permanent residence!

                    P3 I'm glad you're going to Maine - I'm sure you will be too!

                    Hi sarajane - it will be lovely to have you hang about!

                    Kaz, like you, my brother turns out some stunning floral photography. Flowers are just an endless gorgeous source of subject matter.

                    Uni, officially broke, eh? Well, it ain't so bad.

                    LVT, I don't know why they HAVE to list, but whatever happens I hope it is something you are happy with. Remember sometimes we loose things in order to give us space for something new to come into our lives. (ah, my optimism is showing today)

                    Det, I hope you have a zoomin' groovin' weekend with your sweetie!

                    DG, OY! I' maving trouble knowing what all you're doing!! Did the PT receptionist thing with WW ever get going? So in addition to studentry, you'll keep the company books for rent o dump oops I mean rental property, work lunches at the mission, couch to 5k, AA, curves, leads meetings, mary kay, the community development thing, and what else? You keeping all that on the table? I'm exhausted from typing your activities and must go have a lie down.
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                    Thoughts become things..... choose the good ones. ~TUT

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                      #11
                      AF DAILY---FRIDAY, JULY 29

                      Hi jenny!

                      Have a nice weekend in Maine papmom

                      Hi Deter! A sober weeken it will be - yay!

                      Greenie, I think DG is going to need to schedule in some 'me time' something I always forgot to do & am now paying for that
                      YB offered to pay for the security system replacement as he knows that kind of $$ doesn't fall into the usual monthly budget. That was the plan all along, I pay monthly expenses from the pension, he pays the extras from his current earnings. That was the deal & i'm sticking to it until my ship comes in......

                      Under a thunderstorm watch at the moment - it's 96 & nasty out there!
                      AF since 03/26/09
                      NF since 05/19/09
                      Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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                        #12
                        AF DAILY---FRIDAY, JULY 29

                        Lavande;1155228 wrote: YB offered to pay for the security system replacement as he knows that kind of $$ doesn't fall into the usual monthly budget. That was the plan all along, I pay monthly expenses from the pension, he pays the extras from his current earnings. That was the deal & i'm sticking to it until my ship comes in......
                        Ahem... I'd stick to it even if my ship came in accompanied by a fleet! I was just speaking in general terms, not really about him sqawking about the security system. I like it when people show up when they say they will, to do what they said they'd do. Unfortunately, that seems to involve big money. :H
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                        Thoughts become things..... choose the good ones. ~TUT

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                          #13
                          AF DAILY---FRIDAY, JULY 29

                          Yeah,
                          Now that you mention it......:H :H

                          I don't care at this point where he chooses to live, he's turned into a complete idiot
                          I do expect to be treated with respect, I've earned it
                          AF since 03/26/09
                          NF since 05/19/09
                          Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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