Lav I am sorry you are losing the closeness of your daughter and her family and I hope they won?t be too far away. I understand your reticence of the looming christenings but maybe you can think of it another way, you won?t be alone at all because you will have all your family and their families there so you will be surrounded by people who love you. Would you truly be happier with YB on your arm?? Curves will be just the tonic you need 
P3 you are so full of energy and motivation, honestly you seem to have so much enthusiasm for life and always looking for new ways to do things, I really applaud your zest for life. The paleo diet wouldn?t be for me (I stopped eating red meats years ago, only buy organic chicken and often use soya/quorn instead) but I will be keeping my fingers crossed it works for you.
Rustop you must be so proud of both your daughters but especially with the amazing exam results and a wonderful University opportunity, it won?t be long until you will start to get your life back. It?s such a short period of time in the whole scheme of things and you are giving them such a fantastic example of great parenting. I did Politics/International Studies/Social Policy at uni and loved it, then went on to do a Masters in Social Work ? a long time ago of course!! Chill it?s always difficult starting out on a new relationship because of the changes it undoubtedly brings to your life and let?s face it you have been through enough changes before you met him. I guess you need to do whatever is right for you but the fact that you are in love must make it much, much easier to work it out. By the way I used to go to a spinning class and I must confess there is absolutely no way I would ever have thought that was better than sex
Star I must read that book and it?s on my list, you sound in a great place and you are indeed the philosopher of the thread, you are able to start such interesting discussions and you have made me think about the amount of time people listen but don?t hear what is being said. I have been seeing a counsellor recently and I really value the time together, I sometimes feel it?s a bit indulgent but I am so appreciating the one to one with someone who has no previous knowledge and/or assumptions and just relates to the me that is present.
SD I so feel for you and you know that you can come here and just vent away as much as you want, none of us have a positive life all the time there are always ups and downs, I too often don?t post as much when I am going through a tough time but it?s often the very best time to reach out and get a virtual hug. You are right that it?s much better to be dealing with all this AF. My gut feeling is that you really need to find another job if it brings this amount of pressure and despair. Life is far too short to spend it in such an unhappy place.
I spent yesterday in my garden and managed to get a load of work done that really has been piling up, I just took my time and pottered about all day which was very enjoyable as the weather was lovely, I then had a long soak in a hot bath with an aromatherapy mix of lavender, geranium & rosemary oils with loads of candles around the bath ? I felt like I was in a movie set. I wrapped myself in a huge bathtowel and lay on my bed and fell fast asleep from 8pm till midnight, I couldn?t believe it and thought I?d be awake all night. However no, I made a pot of tea, let the cat out and then went back to bed with a book and fell asleep until 7am when I woke up feeling great - back to work today but that?s okay.
Hi to Rusty, Cyn, Sped and anyone else I?ve missed ? where are Jolie, Cassia etal
Dewdrop :h
P3 you are so full of energy and motivation, honestly you seem to have so much enthusiasm for life and always looking for new ways to do things, I really applaud your zest for life. The paleo diet wouldn?t be for me (I stopped eating red meats years ago, only buy organic chicken and often use soya/quorn instead) but I will be keeping my fingers crossed it works for you.Rustop you must be so proud of both your daughters but especially with the amazing exam results and a wonderful University opportunity, it won?t be long until you will start to get your life back. It?s such a short period of time in the whole scheme of things and you are giving them such a fantastic example of great parenting. I did Politics/International Studies/Social Policy at uni and loved it, then went on to do a Masters in Social Work ? a long time ago of course!! Chill it?s always difficult starting out on a new relationship because of the changes it undoubtedly brings to your life and let?s face it you have been through enough changes before you met him. I guess you need to do whatever is right for you but the fact that you are in love must make it much, much easier to work it out. By the way I used to go to a spinning class and I must confess there is absolutely no way I would ever have thought that was better than sex
Star I must read that book and it?s on my list, you sound in a great place and you are indeed the philosopher of the thread, you are able to start such interesting discussions and you have made me think about the amount of time people listen but don?t hear what is being said. I have been seeing a counsellor recently and I really value the time together, I sometimes feel it?s a bit indulgent but I am so appreciating the one to one with someone who has no previous knowledge and/or assumptions and just relates to the me that is present.SD I so feel for you and you know that you can come here and just vent away as much as you want, none of us have a positive life all the time there are always ups and downs, I too often don?t post as much when I am going through a tough time but it?s often the very best time to reach out and get a virtual hug. You are right that it?s much better to be dealing with all this AF. My gut feeling is that you really need to find another job if it brings this amount of pressure and despair. Life is far too short to spend it in such an unhappy place.
I spent yesterday in my garden and managed to get a load of work done that really has been piling up, I just took my time and pottered about all day which was very enjoyable as the weather was lovely, I then had a long soak in a hot bath with an aromatherapy mix of lavender, geranium & rosemary oils with loads of candles around the bath ? I felt like I was in a movie set. I wrapped myself in a huge bathtowel and lay on my bed and fell fast asleep from 8pm till midnight, I couldn?t believe it and thought I?d be awake all night. However no, I made a pot of tea, let the cat out and then went back to bed with a book and fell asleep until 7am when I woke up feeling great - back to work today but that?s okay.
Hi to Rusty, Cyn, Sped and anyone else I?ve missed ? where are Jolie, Cassia etal
Dewdrop :h
And Chill??? Where do I sign up for a SPIN class???? HA!!!
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