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    Dazzling and Diligent December

    Hi Chill and Rustop and everyone else starting out there day here today!

    Rustop, hope to hear from you in bits and pieces at least while your daughter is using your equipment? Love your posts!

    Hi Chill, sounds like extreme weather for you today? We have winds blowing a gale off the water this morning. But it's soo bright out my eyes are squinting! No snow yet...will take advantage of the dry day to get my holiday greens out on the porch and containers. Have fun with your friend tomorrow and how lucky to get time off! My ancesters are from Glasgow...I need to see it someday.

    Dewdrop, are you checking in here today? I meant to ask if you and Chill were both born and raised in Scotland? As you know I am mostly of Scottish heritage. My grandfather was a "Gray" and my Grandmother a "Weir" on my mom's side. Both from the Glasgow area. My dad's side has a bit of English and Irish I believe. Hence, I have a very pale complexion...lol. Anyway, I love to hear about Scotland so I really enjoy your posts as it makes me feel like I have a bit of a Scot connection since my grandparents have long gone and even then, they had lived in America for many many years. Still had the Scottish accent and I remember them saying certain words that were very Scottish, like "Aye" (sp?) and "wee", as in a "wee spot of tea". I can still here my dear old grandmother's voice saying that phrase. They were both drinkers too, now that I think of it...but not to the extent that I grew up to be. They had cocktails before dinner at holiday occassions but I don't think it was a daily habit. But then again, I was very young at that time so maybe they did drink more than I saw. I remember at family gatherings, they would let me have a teenie tiny glass of white port mixed in gingerale in a special cordial glass...and I was not even 10. It made me feel so grown up but now that I think of that, it seems so wrong to have given me even a drop of AL when I was a small child! My mom told me that one time they had given me some and I would not stop talking and being silly. Well, DUH. See how young I started? Hmmmmm.....

    Well, hello to everyone else around today. Hope you have a lovely day and I'll check in later. It's almost 9AM here and I gotta make the most of the morning whilst I'm feeling like the engergizer bunny! Hey, I got the slippers to match and all!
    Whatever you invest in the circle of LIFE is what comes back to you. Multiplied. What you give to people is what they eventually give back to you. Don't do the math. Just increase your LOVE.

    BE HAPPY...BE CONNECTED...BE HEALTHY!
    :h

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      Dazzling and Diligent December

      Good morning friends,

      I seem to be following you around everywhere today Blondie

      Glad to see the rain has ended, I'm seeing peeks of sun, nice!

      My plan for the day is to finish up all the work waiting for me. Tomorrow is a day off & will be hitting the outlets with my daughter.
      Grateful to be clear headed & able to follow a plan :H

      Wishing everyone a terrific AF Thursday!
      Lav
      AF since 03/26/09
      NF since 05/19/09
      Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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        Dazzling and Diligent December

        Christmas Card Exchange

        Hi December Dilitantes!

        I just wanted to invite anyone to PM me with their snail mail address and I'll send out a Christmas card. I am only doing this on this particular thread because I feel comfortable with you all on a different "level" and not to worry, I am not a stalker or weirdo, I simply enjoy sending out a tangible card to those I care about and I thought why not extend this to my new found friends on MWO? It seems like it would feel more real and less "virtual" that way then just simply wishing you all happy holidays. Plus I got some cards to use up...:H Seriously, if you want to pen pal holiday cards, just PM me, ok?

        PS, this is not just for Americans for for all of you out there...the mails goes everywhere. I have one going to an MWOer across the pond today in fact! Cheers!

        That's all for now...hope you are all having a super day!:thanks:
        Whatever you invest in the circle of LIFE is what comes back to you. Multiplied. What you give to people is what they eventually give back to you. Don't do the math. Just increase your LOVE.

        BE HAPPY...BE CONNECTED...BE HEALTHY!
        :h

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          Dazzling and Diligent December

          A quick check in with the sweet December souls. Thanks everybody for the photos of the crafts and art you are making, I too love to have my house filled with music and interesting, beautiful things, a little oasis. That quote was a keeper, Lav (thanks Shelley). Since I stopped the nightly drinking regime I had when I signed up here and then had several weeks or months of abstinence at a time, when I have then reached for one I am acutely aware that it is usually not being able to tolerate that ?edge?, for me being overly stimulated emotionally or intellectually and being unable to either keep up or slow down. While alcohol does ?work?, it also completely takes away any chance I have of actually remaining myself, learning something new through radically accepting what is there at the moment. Around a year ago I realized I was just being a f-ing pussy, and as such I have done so much better in just living with what is, including my internal state, to look at the big picture, eye on the prize, we are the prize. Love, Ladybird.
          may we be well

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            Dazzling and Diligent December

            Good evening!

            LBH, I would call you a lot of thing but definitely not a f -ing pussy :H :H
            I think things change when our BS containers are full & overflowing. At least that's my explanation as to why I began my crazy drinking era. I didn't always drink like a fish but when I couldn't tolerate the BS anymore.......
            Now when I feel out of sorts I know I will get immediate relief with some deep breathing, meditation, etc - no need to pick up a drink anymore

            Wishing everyone a great AF night!
            Lav
            AF since 03/26/09
            NF since 05/19/09
            Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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              Dazzling and Diligent December

              Hello Lav and LBH, and all

              It's been ahwile since I've been on. Still sober, which is what we must start out with when we have been gone a while. Life has been up and down for me, as life is, but I have been traveling with my husband sense we have been retired and I have a new grandbaby which I spend a lot of time with.
              The holidays make me even more gratefull for my sobiety. Merry Christmas to everyone.
              AF since 7/26/2009




              "There is nothing noble in being superior to other man. The true nobility is being superior to your previous self."--Hindu proverb.

              "Sobriety isn't a landing but rather a journey." anonymous

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                Dazzling and Diligent December

                Hi Lilmea-so glad to meet you! Thank you for popping in and updating us on how you are doing. I love to meet members who have been successful and are in it for the long haul. Thanks for the inspiration and please don't be a stranger!!
                New Birthday: May 8, 2010

                "Because dwelling from, not upon, the space you want to inherit is the fastest way to change absolutely everything."[/i]-The Universe

                KO the Beast!!

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                  Dazzling and Diligent December

                  Good morning everyone

                  Lilmea - great to see you checking in and wonderful to hear you are still enjoying sobriety.

                  Blondie - I'm originally from Glasgow, grew up in the South suburbs and there was a huge Engineering Works called Weir Pumps back then, don't know if it still exists now. There was also a Lord Weir from that family so maybe you have some blue blood in there

                  Well yesterday we had hurricane winds over most of Scotland and chaos everywhere. Schools and business's were closed as we were on high alert. It was pretty wild down here on the coast and difficult to stand upright. Thankfully it seems to have died down and I can't hear the wind screeching any longer. Snow is forecast today. I was suposed to be getting the train up to Glasgow with my Mum, we were going to have lunch see all the Christmasy stores but will need to see if transport is running ok. It's the only change I will get to go into the city before Christmas and I was really looking forward to seeing all the lights and trees.

                  Anyway whatever I do, it's Friday! :yougo: and I don't have to go to work :yay:
                  "In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer ."
                  AF - JAN 1st 2010
                  NF - May 1996

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                    Dazzling and Diligent December

                    Morning all,
                    Lilmea, great to hear from you. I'm headed back to Indiana in January.

                    Chill, think the weather around the world is somehow reflecting all the chaos going on down below. How's that for New Age thinking?

                    I've been awake since 3:30. Flying to New Orleans early this morning so no point in trying to go back to sleep. Can't remember if I mentioned this trip or not. Meeting up with a friend who's on an extended road trip. After New Orleans we get to drive across Texas!!

                    I'll be in touch.

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                      Dazzling and Diligent December

                      Hello all -

                      Lilmea!!! How wonderful to see your sweet kitty avatar and to hear your words. thanks so much for checking in, and congratulations on your AF life.

                      Lav - what a bell-ringing quote that was...I must read more of that author. Thanks for sharing.

                      Woke up this morning not thinking about the Edge (thank you for the thoughts LBH), but about the result of the old escaping. I got up early, fed the dogs and let them out, and then went back to bed in the pre-dawn. Something reminded me of those early post-drinking mornings; trying to cover up the icky smell of alcohol coming out of pores, trying to pretend that all is fine, trying to remember what happened the night before, trying to maintain the secrecy of 'no, I didn't'. UUUUUUUUUGH. Sorry to be so graphic, but as I am closing in on 1 year, I guess I am being handed reminder after reminder. So often these days I don't even remember the drinking days, so this is a particularly painful but useful gift, I guess.

                      2 days of howling rain have passed here, and our corner of CT is drizzled with icing-snow. The trees look as if they have been especially decorated for a holiday show. Sped - safe travels, Rustop, we'll be sending you virtual posts!, everyone please have a safe and warm AF day --
                      to the light

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                        Dazzling and Diligent December

                        Good morning friends!

                        Lil, goodness!!! Great to see you
                        Congrats on your continued sobriety & new grandbaby!!!

                        Greetings papmom & chill!
                        Sunny but cold here this morning, typical for this time of year I guess.

                        Shelley, enjoy your trip to NO!
                        Hope you have a great visit with your friend.

                        I'm off to Curves then heading up to the outlets with my daughter a little later. No work for me today

                        Have a great AF Friday!
                        Lav
                        AF since 03/26/09
                        NF since 05/19/09
                        Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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                          Dazzling and Diligent December

                          Mornin' everyone!

                          Chill, have a great day off today. I believe you friend is coming for a visit? Have a lovely time! The decorations in the towns there must be so quaint, I would love to see it someday. Enjoy your time off, you deserve it! Tell me what you do for work again? I am still catching up getting to know you all .

                          I am pressed for time this morning as I'm out the door for work in 10 minutes and still need to wash and dry my head of locks! Guess I'll be a little let. Got most of what I wanted done over my 2 days off but there just never seems to be enough time!

                          Hope you all have a grand day and I'll catch up with everyone later! Welcome lilmea!
                          Whatever you invest in the circle of LIFE is what comes back to you. Multiplied. What you give to people is what they eventually give back to you. Don't do the math. Just increase your LOVE.

                          BE HAPPY...BE CONNECTED...BE HEALTHY!
                          :h

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                            Dazzling and Diligent December

                            Good morning to all......

                            Woke up to a few inches of snow, it is just beautiful!! I have to keep that feeling as it will probably snow continuously till March.

                            Lilmea, so nice to hear from you, good to know you are doing well.

                            Chill, your weather sounds wild, hope you get to go to the city for Christmas window shopping. I love to go to Chicago at Christmas, I hope I can make it happen this year.

                            Blonde, loved your wreath.

                            Papmom, you are a creater of beautiful things.

                            Lav, have fun today.

                            Sped, you are lucky to travel so much, enjoy.

                            LBH, Rustop, Rusty, Sooty and everyone, have a great AF Friday.
                            Formerly known as redhibiscus

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                              Dazzling and Diligent December

                              hello on sofa chilling out - just eaten dinner of pizza and oven chips followed by chocolate - bad carb overdose! plan to get an early night and then go for a run in park or if weather is rotten do exercise dvd.

                              next week i need to focus on eating well and exercise, I would like to lose some weight in 2 weeks before christmas. have a good night all
                              one day at a time

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                                Dazzling and Diligent December

                                Lav - hope you sleep tonight! I just let the dogs out, and they are casting long shadows -- the light is blue-violet on the snow, very pretty but also very bright! Maybe you will have cloud-cover...we may get more snow as we sleep...wishing all sweet dreams...
                                to the light

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